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Topic: why?
SAEgirl10 Joined Sun 06/22/08 Posts: 804	Wed 07/02/08 10:10 PM
why is it that someone can say they want to meet you but when you say you are going to they come up with an excuse not to???

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 07/02/08 10:10 PM
why is it that someone can say they want to meet you but when you say you are going to they come up with an excuse not to??? They may have been untruthful about some important aspect of their life

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Wed 07/02/08 10:10 PM
its the way of the world...sad

DestinysDream Joined Wed 02/20/08 Posts: 4805	Wed 07/02/08 10:11 PM
I take it this was a long distance relationship? Why? Because they are insecure and were thinking you would never meet.

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Wed 07/02/08 10:13 PM
why is it that someone can say they want to meet you but when you say you are going to they come up with an excuse not to??? I have gone out of my way meeting folks who I didn't want to meet but only for a coffee so that I don't break any hearts.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 07/02/08 10:14 PM
why is it that someone can say they want to meet you but when you say you are going to they come up with an excuse not to??? I have gone out of my way meeting folks who I didn't want to meet but only for a coffee so that I don't break any hearts.

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Wed 07/02/08 10:19 PM
could be that they are busy??

HUEY636 Joined Mon 06/30/08 Posts: 72	Wed 07/02/08 10:19 PM
The fear of rejection is strong.To overcome it takes a lot of desire.Like the carrot and the stick.You want the carrot,but you don't want to be hit with the stick.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Thu 07/03/08 05:27 AM
yeah he's probably married, or lives in his parents basement or is a jester or post too much or smokes or sumthin

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Thu 07/03/08 05:32 AM
hey may just prefer to keep the online relationship online (get it)

iatomcat Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 104	Thu 07/03/08 06:35 AM Edited by iatomcat on Thu 07/03/08 06:38 AM
yeah he's probably married, or lives in his parents basement or is a jester or post too much or smokes or sumthin hey! Mommy lets me have company! And it's a bachelor pad, not a basement! Why don't you just ask him why he backed out?

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Thu 07/03/08 06:41 AM
Some folk are only jealous cause they don't get a look in Meet Elvis The Pelvis designed just for this type of occasion

awolf1010 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 7251	Thu 07/03/08 07:08 AM
shhh cant talk now......The squirrels are watching!!!!

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Thu 07/03/08 07:10 AM
Maybe he couldn't get the parole board to move up his hearing.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76392	Thu 07/03/08 07:12 AM
Could be that they said that at the moment but never had any intentions of meeting in the first place.

stardust50 Joined Tue 06/03/08 Posts: 542	Thu 07/03/08 07:13 AM
Some folk are only jealous cause they don't get a look in Meet Elvis The Pelvis designed just for this type of occasion Did you say ELVIS oh yeah baby

Urg04es Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 1411	Thu 07/03/08 07:14 AM
Maybe he is confident sitting at the keyboard but shy in public. Talk to him. If you are interested in him don't give up so easily until you know the truth.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 07/03/08 07:16 AM
They just might be nervous

SuperMom30 Joined Wed 01/02/08 Posts: 469	Thu 07/03/08 07:19 AM
I am guitly of this. For me...I get nervous. I worry that the person may not like me when they see me or they may over like me and try to be all over me. So may be they are just nervous. Give them more time. Be patient.

MLG40 Joined Sat 10/07/06 Posts: 501	Thu 07/03/08 08:16 AM
What? didn't show. How disrespectful. I mean to make up excusses for them is even worst. With any type of backbone they could have called to explain why. Thats your answer.