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Topic: Drunk Cheating
Chazster Joined Tue 08/28/07 Posts: 6206	Tue 07/01/08 08:22 AM
On the other hand, when a man asks a woman to marry him, he is making the decision to forfeit these instincts and choosing to have sex with one woman forever. Once he has chosen that path for himself, I don't feel that he deserves a medal each time he does not screw another woman. That is putting it harshly and was meant to be funny...sorry. He doesn't deserve a metal, but he does deserve a caring and loyal spouse in return. Just trying to shed some light on why men have trouble committing as well as why they are more likely to cheat when drunk. Again not that it is an excuse, but it is definitely different than a sober, conscious choice.

germansangel Joined Mon 06/30/08 Posts: 32	Tue 07/01/08 08:35 AM
ok i see where he is coming from and come on ....women do it too.... i know my husband looks at other women and thinks"at an earlier time in my life" but i too have looked at other men and thought "Damn!!!" its part of being alive...it is what you do with it then...and if your cheating looks have nothing to do with it, my dad used to cheat with some of the nastiest women around...it was that it was available...and a self esteem issue

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Tue 07/01/08 08:36 AM
On the other hand, when a man asks a woman to marry him, he is making the decision to forfeit these instincts and choosing to have sex with one woman forever. Once he has chosen that path for himself, I don't feel that he deserves a medal each time he does not screw another woman. That is putting it harshly and was meant to be funny...sorry. He doesn't deserve a metal, but he does deserve a caring and loyal spouse in return. Just trying to shed some light on why men have trouble committing as well as why they are more likely to cheat when drunk. Again not that it is an excuse, but it is definitely different than a sober, conscious choice. Ok...I'll buy that...and will go drinking with him always!!!!

germansangel Joined Mon 06/30/08 Posts: 32	Tue 07/01/08 08:37 AM
as a matter of fast he said that just last week to a woman..he was standing in line at the store and she asked him what he was doing that her baby needed a daddy..he said yeah so does mine, and my wife would be pissed...she said so what...he told her that at another time in his life she might have been good for a one night stand...she got angry and left...lol...i thought it was funny

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Tue 07/01/08 08:40 AM Edited by No1sLove on Tue 07/01/08 08:41 AM
ok i see where he is coming from and come on ....women do it too.... i know my husband looks at other women and thinks"at an earlier time in my life" but i too have looked at other men and thought "Damn!!!" its part of being alive...it is what you do with it then...and if your cheating looks have nothing to do with it, my dad used to cheat with some of the nastiest women around...it was that it was available...and a self esteem issue I was once told by a cheating man, that some men subconsciously choose nasty women they cannot respect to cheat with, to insure they will not imagine they are falling for her. I asked him if this was somehow supposed to make my friend (the one he cheated on) feel better.

ThicknDelicious Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 125	Tue 07/01/08 08:41 AM
Never ever use kids as a pick up line...that was her downfall, LOL

ThicknDelicious Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 125	Tue 07/01/08 08:43 AM Edited by ThicknDelicious on Tue 07/01/08 08:44 AM
ok i see where he is coming from and come on ....women do it too.... i know my husband looks at other women and thinks"at an earlier time in my life" but i too have looked at other men and thought "Damn!!!" its part of being alive...it is what you do with it then...and if your cheating looks have nothing to do with it, my dad used to cheat with some of the nastiest women around...it was that it was available...and a self esteem issue I was once told by a cheating man, that some men subconsciously choose nasty women they cannot respect to cheat with, to insure they will not imagine they are falling for her. I asked him if this was somehow supposed to make my friend (the one he cheated on) feel better. My ex husband called all his "skeezers" pieces of trash. Of course, usually he said it because one of them had dumb him and he was wanting me back. LOSER!!!

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Tue 07/01/08 08:44 AM
Never ever use kids as a pick up line...that was her downfall, LOL I think she had fallen plenty far enough before mentioning the kids. I spose if he was not wearing a ring, then she might not have known, but the attitude after he said he was married is pretty low in my book.

germansangel Joined Mon 06/30/08 Posts: 32	Tue 07/01/08 08:44 AM
ok i see where he is coming from and come on ....women do it too.... i know my husband looks at other women and thinks"at an earlier time in my life" but i too have looked at other men and thought "Damn!!!" its part of being alive...it is what you do with it then...and if your cheating looks have nothing to do with it, my dad used to cheat with some of the nastiest women around...it was that it was available...and a self esteem issue I was once told by a cheating man, that some men subconsciously choose nasty women they cannot respect to cheat with, to insure they will not imagine they are falling for her. I asked him if this was somehow supposed to make my friend (the one he cheated on) feel better. yeah one of the ones dad cheated with was my step moms friend that was staying with them...step mom said i should ahve known better she was always a tramp

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Tue 07/01/08 08:46 AM
ok i see where he is coming from and come on ....women do it too.... i know my husband looks at other women and thinks"at an earlier time in my life" but i too have looked at other men and thought "Damn!!!" its part of being alive...it is what you do with it then...and if your cheating looks have nothing to do with it, my dad used to cheat with some of the nastiest women around...it was that it was available...and a self esteem issue I was once told by a cheating man, that some men subconsciously choose nasty women they cannot respect to cheat with, to insure they will not imagine they are falling for her. I asked him if this was somehow supposed to make my friend (the one he cheated on) feel better. My ex husband called all his "skeezers" pieces of trash. Of course, usually he said it because one of them had dumb him and he was wanting me back. LOSER!!! Guess he should have thought bout that before his trousers hit the floor, huh?

germansangel Joined Mon 06/30/08 Posts: 32	Tue 07/01/08 08:47 AM
Never ever use kids as a pick up line...that was her downfall, LOL I think she had fallen plenty far enough before mentioning the kids. I spose if he was not wearing a ring, then she might not have known, but the attitude after he said he was married is pretty low in my book. well he loves his wedding ring and acually has two...one for the states that sliver with blue dragons on it..and another black titanium one because its tactically sound when he is deployed. LOLOL

ThicknDelicious Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 125	Tue 07/01/08 08:48 AM
Hey, women who have never been married and cheated on by their spouse are awful about wanting married men. It is like 'DER, woman, if he cheats on his wife, then whatcha think he will do to you?' I have had married men hit on me and I am sorry, but that is a BIG no no in my book.

germansangel Joined Mon 06/30/08 Posts: 32	Tue 07/01/08 08:48 AM
ok i see where he is coming from and come on ....women do it too.... i know my husband looks at other women and thinks"at an earlier time in my life" but i too have looked at other men and thought "Damn!!!" its part of being alive...it is what you do with it then...and if your cheating looks have nothing to do with it, my dad used to cheat with some of the nastiest women around...it was that it was available...and a self esteem issue I was once told by a cheating man, that some men subconsciously choose nasty women they cannot respect to cheat with, to insure they will not imagine they are falling for her. I asked him if this was somehow supposed to make my friend (the one he cheated on) feel better. My ex husband called all his "skeezers" pieces of trash. Of course, usually he said it because one of them had dumb him and he was wanting me back. LOSER!!! Guess he should have thought bout that before his trousers hit the floor, huh?

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Tue 07/01/08 08:50 AM
ok i see where he is coming from and come on ....women do it too.... i know my husband looks at other women and thinks"at an earlier time in my life" but i too have looked at other men and thought "Damn!!!" its part of being alive...it is what you do with it then...and if your cheating looks have nothing to do with it, my dad used to cheat with some of the nastiest women around...it was that it was available...and a self esteem issue I was once told by a cheating man, that some men subconsciously choose nasty women they cannot respect to cheat with, to insure they will not imagine they are falling for her. I asked him if this was somehow supposed to make my friend (the one he cheated on) feel better. yeah one of the ones dad cheated with was my step moms friend that was staying with them...step mom said i should ahve known better she was always a tramp I had a friend who for some reason turned into a real slut...it was sad to watch, but I had to lose her. I was not the least bit worried about my b/f at the time taking her up on her flirtations...I just didn't feel he deserved to have to put up with it and I had lost respect for her to the point of no return.

germansangel Joined Mon 06/30/08 Posts: 32	Tue 07/01/08 08:51 AM
i asked my step mom that once ( i have had 3) ( and completely off subject all their names are nancy which is just funny) why did whe think he wouold stop??? she said "well i thought i was different and was going to change that"

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Tue 07/01/08 08:54 AM
Hey, women who have never been married and cheated on by their spouse are awful about wanting married men. It is like 'DER, woman, if he cheats on his wife, then whatcha think he will do to you?' I have had married men hit on me and I am sorry, but that is a BIG no no in my book. I have never been married, but know how I feel about marriage. That is enough to keep me from ever being remotely attracted to any man who is in a relationship...hell, even dating others and not committed is not attractive to me. Even if the guy were spectacular, how could the situation not send you running? How could you have an ounce of respect for him? I just don't get it!

ThicknDelicious Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 125	Tue 07/01/08 08:54 AM
Oh we women can be so naive. And, damn, I will never be able to date a man who has the same name as my ex husband. Just the thought makes me almost vomit in my mouth....

germansangel Joined Mon 06/30/08 Posts: 32	Tue 07/01/08 08:56 AM
Oh we women can be so naive. And, damn, I will never be able to date a man who has the same name as my ex husband. Just the thought makes me almost vomit in my mouth.... we pick on him and ask him if its so he doent forget their names lol loving the disscussion but i have to go feed the kids

ThicknDelicious Joined Sat 06/14/08 Posts: 125	Tue 07/01/08 08:57 AM
I hear ya. I have to take the youngest to the doctor. Good day German and NO1

missy51970 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 12712	Tue 07/01/08 09:03 AM
Oh we women can be so naive. And, damn, I will never be able to date a man who has the same name as my ex husband. Just the thought makes me almost vomit in my mouth.... I totally understand that!!! Met a man, gorgeous, sweet, all the good stuff.. I asked his name he said TONY, (my ex'sname) I said CYA!!!..