Topic: would you..
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Sun 06/29/08 07:37 PM
date someone that was overweight??


im working really hard at losing weight (already lost 30 pounds!) but it seems like i get alot of views and no one even e-mails/instant messages me my guess is maybe my weight?huh

armbender's photo
Sun 06/29/08 07:38 PM
if someone was nice id still date her despite her weight :) i dated someone who was overweight so i have no problem

joshyfox's photo
Sun 06/29/08 07:39 PM
Edited by joshyfox on Sun 06/29/08 07:39 PM
I'm losing weight too, but I'm still in the mindset that if people can't love someone is overweight, there's just no hope for me.

Oh, and I would, but like everyone else, I'd have to get to know them first.

bluesunflower's photo
Sun 06/29/08 07:39 PM


i dont think it has anything to do with weight. you dont really have much up on your profile. try talking about yourself and see if that helps.

good luck

n your kids are adorableflowerforyou

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Sun 06/29/08 07:40 PM
You are a beautiful young woman. I think it's just dating sites in general.

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Sun 06/29/08 07:40 PM
It depends. I would have to get to know the person first. My views may change. I just love hugging a teddy bear!

angle22's photo
Sun 06/29/08 07:40 PM
I DONT REALLY THINK WEIGHT MATTERS IT HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THE PERSON. I KNOW THAT I AM STRUGGLING TO LOSE WEIGHT AFTER HAVING MY TWINS AN I HAVE THE SAME ISSUE BUT AS LONG AS YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOUR SELF THATS ALL THAT SHOULD REALLY MATTER AT THE END OF THE DAY.

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Sun 06/29/08 07:40 PM
i dated someone who was heavier once and i use to be over weight as well u keep working at it and just remember being happy with yourself is whats important if a guy won't date you b/c of your weight he doesn't know what he's missing out on...:smile:

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Sun 06/29/08 07:41 PM
Of course, but as a general rule people only date others they find attractive, so anyone thats unattractively overweight is gonna have problems finding others.

But thats not what's important, what's important is what you think of yourself, and what is healthy for you.
Go for the body that you want. If you want to lose weight for yourself more power too you, but don't let others tel you what is beautiful and what is not :smile:

68chevy's photo
Sun 06/29/08 07:41 PM
Beauty is on the inside, the person we are at our soul, not the person we see on the outside, so yes I have and would.

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Sun 06/29/08 07:43 PM
If it's about your weight Sweety, they just aren't worth the bother. You just keep smiling and congrats to you on the 30....took me 18 months...lost 140...they still pass me by...figure it's cause I'm not Barbie...don't want to be her...too much trouble....lol

HMontana's photo
Sun 06/29/08 07:43 PM
You're just great, sweets. There are a lot of 4's looking for a 10, physically.

Just be who you are, or else you will find yourself in a world of misery.


eileena9's photo
Sun 06/29/08 07:44 PM
Check out the pics on my profile......I am overweight and I am marrying a teddybear, as chickayoshi would describe him.

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Sun 06/29/08 07:44 PM
thanks guys--oh and i updated my profile more i forot i took everything out before!

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Sun 06/29/08 07:48 PM
I am 5'9" 185lbs Lg Top Lg Bottom. For relationship, I seek no one larger than I, but if I were in love and she was to grow bigger, than so be it.

msmyka's photo
Sun 06/29/08 07:50 PM

I am 5'9" 185lbs Lg Top Lg Bottom. For relationship, I seek no one larger than I, but if I were in love and she was to grow bigger, than so be it.


Oh darn guess that means I'm out ohwell













Bwhahahahahaha SOO kidding rofl

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Sun 06/29/08 07:51 PM


I am 5'9" 185lbs Lg Top Lg Bottom. For relationship, I seek no one larger than I, but if I were in love and she was to grow bigger, than so be it.


Oh darn guess that means I'm out ohwell











Nah you look good, you in like flint

Bwhahahahahaha SOO kidding rofl

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Sun 06/29/08 07:57 PM



I am 5'9" 185lbs Lg Top Lg Bottom. For relationship, I seek no one larger than I, but if I were in love and she was to grow bigger, than so be it.


Oh darn guess that means I'm out ohwell











Nah you look good, you in like flint

Bwhahahahahaha SOO kidding rofl



Did you see the nickname I gave you earlier?

Rzrback's photo
Sun 06/29/08 07:58 PM
Well, I am 6'1" 220 lbs., so I wouldnt have a problem with a "healthy" woman.

mlafolle's photo
Sun 06/29/08 08:02 PM
maybe im just an ass but i wouldnt want to go out with someone that is over weight. i work out four to five days a week so that i have the body i want. Maybe its my misconception but i believe that if i went out with a larger person that our life styles would conflict. i love to be out side riding my bike, swimming, boating, and what not and i dont see someone that is over weight being able to keeps up.