how good is the sex????????????????????????

Agreed

What if they where hot then became ugly by a freak accident?

I think romantic love inheritly involves romance (which means sexual attraction is a must) BUT, you can find other types of love in all sorts of places, even find a companion without being attracted to them.

I have been with men that I initially did not find attractive. Their hearts and minds made them the sexiest men I had ever been with!

The sex was..........AWSOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder......think shallow hal.

beauty is in the eyes of the beer holder

no, no how, no way, not possible, not gonna work, no no no no

yeah if you love them in the biblical sense...they are
attractive to you and you are to them.

oh c'mon!

yup...real love is not about how somebody looks..
it comes from within

If you love someone, truly love them it won't matter.

You know Frank Sinatra had a horrible but also kinda funny in a mean way saying about this subject. "Hey, just put a paper bag over her head and do your business!"

There has to be some level of attraction, but to me, physical attraction is way low on the list compared to mental stimulation, emotional availability, kind-heartedness, level of motivation, sense of humor, etc. - those are the attractive qualities to me.

I've dated hotties that never lasted long because some of the other elements weren't there.

True love comes from the heart, anyway, not the eyeballs.

Don't honestly think much about what people look like...in fact, i would be a terrible eye witness!!! I don't pay much attention...don't notice if a person wears glasses, has shaved off facial hair, gotten a haircut, has a pimple. Not that it doesn't register if someone is extremely good looking, but it isn't myy focus. Besides, don't we all have something about us physically that is truly beautiful? I'm more interested in people's hearts & minds. I'd be more turned off by an incredibly handsome, but stupid man...than by an ugly, but intelligent man.

I don't see how it's possible...

maybe with enough beer

You must be physically attracted to them.............no matter what they look like.........or you wouldn't want to be around them..........UNLESS YOU'RE REALLY HARD UP and don't give a ****tttttttttttt!!!!!!!!!! (I hate men like that......who only want ONE THING!!!) I don't have a "great" body, nor "Looks",....but anyone who gets to know me finds out how truly beautiful I really am.

BINGO! What she said!

if she has lots of money

it has to be some type of attraction
chemistry is a must have