I sign onto myspace today for the 1st time in over a month, and I see no less than 4 different bulletins from female friends of mine saying that “all guys are assholes, all they do is play games, why can’t I find a good guy, ect”

The problem here ladies, is that the good guys almost always end up getting screwed over, and are insanely wary of relationships. I sure as hell know I am. We aren’t the only ones that play games, hell, I’m one of the nice ones, and have NEVER played any sort of game when it comes to relationships. I’ve always been with that girl 100% for however long we are together.

The problem is: women play the game just as badly as men do. Hell, women have the best game there is. I have seen it tons of times before, and I have had it happen to me plenty (ESPECIALLY with my last relationship). 9 times out of 10, a bat of the eyelashes and a flash of a great smile will get pretty much any man you are with to do almost anything for you. I did, and I ended up blowing thousands during the course of the relationship, only to be kicked to the curb like the opening scene of American History X, after finding out that she had been cheating on me the ENTIRE time we were together.

You wonder where all the good men are ladies? They’re right in front of you, just don’t *uck with their heads.


Ok, this rant might have worked for some more than others, but mostly I’m just pissed at the before mentioned situation and needed to vent a bit.

OH, Boy!!!!!!

Being a female I have to agree with you. It happens to and with both sexes. It makes it hard on those who just want to be loved for who they are and be committed in a relationship without fear.

assholes???? whoda thunk it???

Yea i feel ya,


Sick of mind games my self,

wow well believe it or not i agree with you, women have gone on forever always blaming the man...well i will tell you one thing women can be just as bad if not worse at playing head games...i know i am a women and saying this but its women like that that give us good ones a bad name.

Yeah I know several women that think they can get whatever they want from one guy then move on to the next. It's not right to use someone either way.

so why didnt ya be like your friends and post it on myspace? i guess its easy to complain about cause you are on here instead doing the same damn thing

so very true...i prefer physical games to mental ones myself

My advice to you for all it is worth
take no notice a lot of women and men for that matter are seeking attention in that way Plenty of fish in the sea keep looking and if you are discouraged by those words of the few you will never get any where

Using anyone regardless of gender, status, or method, is wrong.

Why are there so few honorable people now days?

I did post there as well. But since they’re friends of mine, all I got was “oh shut up Erik, you’re a douchebag” haha the jerks!

And I thought I would come onto here as I have been a member of this site for about a year now, and post it and see what others thought, get reactions and hopefully see what other women thought about my words, which has been pretty constructive actually, I expected to get slammed down within seconds hahaha

And thanks to all that have added in constructive remarks to my post, it is good to see that I am not the only one that thinks this way, especially from a woman’s point of view.


****DISCLAIMER****
This was never originally posted to poke at women, it was merely in defense of “the men always having to take a blame” for things like this

i never said it was a poke at women all i said is you are doing no different than what they did you just used different wording.... its called complaining.. like robert said

My advice to you for all it is worth
take no notice a lot of women and men for that matter are seeking attention in that way Plenty of fish in the sea keep looking and if you are discouraged by those words of the few you will never get any where

I'm sorry to hear about your situation, egoodrich!
I think everyone runs into bad situations in relationships. There is always two sides to a story. I also find that people try to rationalize cheating. I learned my lesson long ago. What goes around comes around. Just remember that and try to go into new relationships w/ a clean slate.
There aren't many good guys
There aren't many good girls
If you have a good one---keep them and treat them right!

i know you didnt, i was just making sure everyone knew that i wasn't just trying to take a jab at women as a collective

and yes, i know i'm just complaining, but after a while, it does kind of wear on you, and i just had to vent a little.

Well you are a good looking guy and yes I perved you...LOL..But I am sure when the time is right...you will have the one that is meant for you anyway. Not all women will do things to hurt you.

i think men learned i from women. i mean we use to just hit them over the head with clubs and say 'your my girlfriend!' ahhhh the old days! pretty soon the girls started asking if her loin cloth made her look fat.

historically women use sex and looks as a weapon

men use money and prestige.

That being said, im a firm believer that atleast 70% of all the games that are played arn't done intentionally at first. They are done by flakes, or flirty people and misunderstanding. flakes don't stop when they realize they are doing it, because they are either to scared, enjoying getting what they want, or just don't care.

Flakes and flirty people can be found with both sex's. Flirty people though will usually be honest when you ask. Flakes always hide behind something.

smart young man there