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Topic: Deceitful Encounter
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 06/27/08 01:44 AM Edited by MirrorMirror on Fri 06/27/08 01:45 AM
What if you met someone online from another state and you are both really attracted to each other and so you meet for an intimate encounter at a motel but a few days later you find out that the person you met was married and didnt tell you? What would you say ?

Random_Stranger Joined Wed 05/02/07 Posts: 2409	Fri 06/27/08 01:52 AM Edited by Random_Stranger on Fri 06/27/08 01:53 AM
I would tell them to GTFO ........ Nah, more like "Whoops!" but I couldn't keep it going, that is just wrong.

sum14u2c Joined Sat 08/04/07 Posts: 754	Fri 06/27/08 01:56 AM
i have to know someone pretty well for intimacy to occur, that's just me...i would think that if someone's first actual encounter was to jump each others bones the married thing wouldn't be an issue cuz they can't have much for morals to start with...jmo

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Fri 06/27/08 01:58 AM
it does happen

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Fri 06/27/08 01:58 AM
talk to them as a friend, and ask why they feel that they have to do this, and not end the marriage, have dinner at another table from her and then leave.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 06/27/08 04:10 AM
I wouldn't meet someone at a motel for an intimate encounter. That's the first problem here.

transientmind Joined Sat 03/10/07 Posts: 4827	Fri 06/27/08 04:13 AM
Not into intimate encounters but if they lied about that to you, it's over. Easy come, easy go. So to speak.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 06/27/08 04:18 AM
I wouldn't meet someone at a motel for an intimate encounter. That's the first problem here.

Army_Strong Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 1254	Fri 06/27/08 04:20 AM Edited by Army_Strong on Fri 06/27/08 04:25 AM
lol it wouldnt happen. If it did.. I'd end it. And be farely upset. But what can ya do? It happens I guess

OneOfAKind4U Joined Sun 09/23/07 Posts: 688	Fri 06/27/08 04:20 AM
i say what blanking player lol and hi everyone longtime no see

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Fri 06/27/08 04:20 AM
Am not even going to touch that one. That is why I usually do a background check on anyone I meet out of state these days.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 06/27/08 05:22 AM
Am not even going to touch that one. That is why I usually do a background check on anyone I meet out of state these days. it happened to you ?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 06/27/08 05:45 AM
Am not even going to touch that one. That is why I usually do a background check on anyone I meet out of state these days. Don't forget HIV testing, and other STD testing, plus setting up a lie detector test as well. You gotta be careful these days.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76393	Fri 06/27/08 07:05 AM
What if you met someone online from another state and you are both really attracted to each other and so you meet for an intimate encounter at a motel but a few days later you find out that the person you met was married and didnt tell you? What would you say ? Humm well in the first place if you have only talked to them online ect but never met. And you make plans to meet for and intimate encounter only then it don't seem either really cares the situation the other is in they are only out for sex. Due to most actually meet first without plans of hopping in the bed right off the bat.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Fri 06/27/08 07:07 AM
I would say Hello to the wife and tell her who/what/where/when/how it happened... and walk away.

lov2fish Joined Wed 06/11/08 Posts: 549	Fri 06/27/08 07:21 AM
i have to know someone pretty well for intimacy to occur, that's just me...i would think that if someone's first actual encounter was to jump each others bones the married thing wouldn't be an issue cuz they can't have much for morals to start with...jmo oooooooooooooooooooooH.......well put!!

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Fri 06/27/08 07:29 AM
I would say, I can't believe she used me...............................YES!!!!

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Fri 06/27/08 07:56 AM
What if you met someone online from another state and you are both really attracted to each other and so you meet for an intimate encounter at a motel but a few days later you find out that the person you met was married and didnt tell you? What would you say ? Earlier this year, a friend told me he was going to a motel with a female to just talk. Later, he said, "Why didn't you kick me and tell me what I was doing was stupid". I said, "I did. You can't teach stupid."

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Fri 06/27/08 07:57 AM
I would say, I can't believe she used me...............................YES!!!!

MyrtleBeachDude Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 4028	Fri 06/27/08 08:02 AM
I would call her husband up and say .. Dude, me and Captain Kirk have a lot in common. We've both gone where no man has gone before! How does my d*** taste? Does she scream like that all the time? Don't worry she didn't even remember my name. She kept calling me Oh GOD Isn't it cute the way her toes curl up? Thank you for the hotel room.