Every one says Virginia is for lovers... UMMM have you all looked around. So far all I have learned about VA is MOST of the women want there cake and eat it too. Another words they want a handsome man and be very nice you know like a prince charming. HELLO women you can't have both. If the women would actually take the time and get to know the man that doesn't look like a model they would find there quoto and unquote MR RIGHT!!! I have been on here for a long time and many woman have looked at my info but that has been it. People need to realize NOT to judge a book by its cover cause you will never know the story. IT might be the best one you were ever involved.

Thanks for reading, no hard feelings towards the women that read this. I am just venting.

Ken

That goes both ways.But hear what your saying.

Is this another one of those "no one likes me cause i'm a nice guy" threads?

nice guys finish last, left old and alone...its true

with that attitude, they might.

Attitudes will float or sink your boat!!!Chin-up and be a fun/entertaining....they will cum...lol

There's a difference between a nice guy and a nice guy with a negative attitude. Women want nice guys but if you come across as whiny, feel sorry for me, desperate and negative, then, no, we tend to move on. Something to think about

exactly!

Born in raised in Virginia, as were my parents, siblings and children. There are great people here and sucky people. It's just like everywhere. Pick the nice ones. With dating it is a toss anywhere you go. Virginia is for lovers. I love Virginia.

see my latest problem is the women who say they want a long term relationship then awhile later say oh im not ready, why would you say that you were then, honestly i am to trusting and open myself up to a woman if i think she may be the one and usually i end up picking up the pieces after relationships and wishing they would have done what your talking about and just said hey hes ugly no thanks but i aint that lucky just think about it, the way your talking about may be lonely but it isnt as painful.

They certainly CAN have both, but that doesn't stop them from picking the wrong men. I am always wandering into the wake of another man's boat. The women mess around with the wrong men and then complain to me about. I mean, I have to deal with all the fallout / aftermath. New rules. Circling the wagons. Suspicion.

Nobody ever told me that Virginia is for lovers. So far I have seen that Virginia is for Coal Miners, Loggers, Truck Drivers, Rodeo Riders, Hunters, Mechanics and on the downside Hillbillies and Rednecks.

I like all of those but where are the lovers? I confess I am not a VA native but only been here 6 mos.