I have always been TERRIFIED when I met someone that I talked to online. Most times it worked out well and I really was over reacting. I met a guy from here. We talked and talked and talked before we actually met. We are still together and everything is great. You 2 will be fine I promise

I have always been TERRIFIED when I met someone that I talked to online. Most times it worked out well and I really was over reacting. I met a guy from here. We talked and talked and talked before we actually met. We are still together and everything is great. You 2 will be fine I promise

I think the defining moment was when you got into that accident and called me and I saw you on the cam all bloody and thought, I could have lost you...and that scared me...right then, I knew that I loved you

thats good to be honest with each other ,but honesty to yourself also...as for the intimacy thing everyone wants that..physical contact!!!..is just another form of communication

sorry for the double postings

lilangel, girl!!!! stop thinking so much about what others say!

You need to focus on what you are telling yourself and work with that, not what others say.

There is a very good reason that me and my lovie aren't a known thing in the public threads, b/c its our business not anyone else what our relationship is becoming.

And doubts, fears, or worries dicuss that with peccy.

breath and see what is there, not what you want to see.

angel, I just perved your profile you're cute as a button. You should have no worries

But regardless don't go into it with doubts of what if. Go into it with an open mind and heart one never knows till you try.

Life nor Love has any guarantees if that is what one is looking for they are in for a big disappointment.

One must take a chance at times in their life or they will never know.

To try to find the doubt in life or to anaylize it

Besides who is there to tell you what you feel in your heart but yourself.

Well, do people think we don't know how to get it on??? HA! Like we will meet and the sex will be so horrible that all of our love over the months will just fly out the window???

If anything the sex will be GREATER because of the long wait and the desire and the love...

ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You KNOW I heard THAT!!

here here !!

You made a very good point here. We probably should not have been so forthcoming about our relationship on here. But Peccy and I are both like that...really open sharing people. We are happy so we try to share that with our friends. One problem...everyon is not our friend and don't wish us the best. And even those that are our friends might just be worried about us. So, in a way I wish we had not been so public about it. But, since we have been...do ya'll even know how much I love that man!

IMO... peccy is a great guy and you seem like a doll yourself. You should be more excited than scared

who said that !!!

AAAAAH,"internet relationships and their transferance into REAL LIFE relationships". And they are not one in the same, specifically due to the nature of "entangables". The law of attraction is not logical. Like Food, it can neither be appreciated and or completely disgarded until it has been seen, felt, smelt, tasted and heard."

Does any of this sound familuar Peccy?

Lilangle .... just take it one day at a time! You can't sweat the stuff you have no control over, entagables are outside of all our grips. Just hold on tight, enjoy the ride. And either the begining or the end, remember ONE THING...Keep the love in your heart regardless the outcome , be friends and know you are both just people searching for the same thing....Another hand that fits like a glove.

angel - just smile at the advice; ignore negative feedback (altogether)

follow your head and your heart


here's to you both

i had an instant connection with mark when i chatted with him online and when we met it just confirmed my feelings for him...you can love a person for their personality and not looks so why do you have to meet in person before you love them....through the computer you love the personality and that's what really matters anyway

TY

but, dontcha think Peccy is cute as a button as well

there is nothing wrong with being public about things, however if you can't take the heat stay out of the kitchen.

my good friends from here know about me and lovie, but that's it!

But there is nothing wrong with sharing with everyone, but it helps to know that your relationship is solid before you throw it out there to the wolves. Because we all know that there are people on here that will try there best to make other unhappy.

I will say it again, and this has to do with any long distance relationship... any worry, fear, doubt, negative feeling, any little waiver should be talked about between you two! that is the only way that a long distance relationship will survive and when you meet and everything goes well and until one of your can relocate keep that in mind that you have to continue the open honest communication.

Mandy has a point. Not only the personality but if you talk long and hard enough, you connect to their very soul. Somebody told me recently that "a spiritual and emotional connection is a beautiful thing", and I agree!