Has any woman been accused of rape by an adult male?

Me

No Im being serious, my now ex is putting in a charge of me drugging and raping him...the police are laughing but I feel like a complete monster

Yes. Though rare, I can remember one case in callifornia, and one in florida. that was a while ago.

Yikes, I'm sorry to hear that

Thats frightening...I didnt think such a thing was possible

It has been documented that just because a man can get his penis errect it doesn't make it consentual. it has been proven that it can become errect as a response to stimiulous.

Do you know what he couldnt even get it up he was that out on booze...and crying his eyes out that he was gay...then this!

I don't know what to tell ya, I mean I have never had whiskey di ck. No matter how much i drink, I have always been able to get it up. so saying it is impossible isn't gonna hold up.

we were not even in bed, like I said we were talking, he was in floods of tears talking about some painful issues for him...I didnt make a move on him apart from cuddle him, as any friend would do

What the devil is he saying you drugged him with?

That's the funniest thing I've ever heard.

You can't rape the willing

But I thought when a man.....oh never mind!

Thats exactly what the police said when they questioned me...apparently its impossible for a woman in the UK to rape a man...But still it was a horrible experience to go through...

No Idea

Weird! Sorry for the hassle you're going through.

Sometimes it doesn't matter how much you loved or how close you were...when ya take the "L" out of lover things go south. Sometimes too south. Sorry you have to have an UGLY ENDING.

OK....So, just for the sake of argument here (devils advocate), wouldn't sodomy be considered rape?

So then I guess it is possible for a man to scream rape, ya think?

never..i dont think its possible

Just because it is rare and hasn't happened in your neighborhood doesn't make it impossible to happen. Some women are big, mean, heartless and very strong. Alot of men live in abusive relationships. They get slapped around and verbally abused and possibly raped all the time. To stereotype men and women and place them in their 'traditonial' roles is idiotic. And it is true that just because a man gets erect does NOT mean he is consenting. Don't your nipples sometimes get hard for no reason? does it always mean you're ready and willing to go? you'd think that if a man wasn't enjoying it then he'd lose his erection but sometimes when you stimulate something that was made to engorge when stimulated....it does what it's supposed to do but that does not mean the man has any control over it. I'm only 24 and I know this. Sheesh people, grow up. Some men are in real need of our understanding and compasion but some women think it's real funny and say harsh things like, 'well it's about time they see what its like' the thing is, you can't punish an innocent man for what some other guilty man does. My cousin as a young boy was raped by my grandfather and he was taunted and told by my grandfather that 'he (my cousing)must be wanting it because his penis was hard when he was getting it'. That's bull. And he's grown up to be a very sensitive and cautious adult male and if he ever fell into the hands of an abusive woman I wouldn't be surprised if he got 'raped' because his body parts betray him and he's too insecure to tell her that, no, it doesn't mean you are turning me on. Rape isn't always being held down while you scream and struggle while someone has their way with you. Sometimes you can feel too much pressure to say no or you can be afraid of how the person will react if you were to say no and so you don't say anything and they aren't even aware that you are laying there completly frozen and in shock and unaware of what to do other than let them have their way and get the f*ck off of you.
Anyways, from what you are saying here in this topic though it does not sound like this man has been raped by you and I'm sorry you are being falsly accused I hope it all works out for you in the end but people its 2008 lets be a bit more open minded and lets not be quick to say something is impossible when in reality you don't have a f*cking clue!

let me clarify....she asked if anybody had ever been accused of raping a man...


i said no... it would be IMPOSSSIBLE for ME to rape a man...

not that the situation possible..



and u r right rape isnt about being held down and struggling..thats traumatic rape
there are lots of kinds of rape