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it was just two months...like whats the big deal? where you making wedding plans already?? did you hire the caterer and send out invitations?? It was just four weeks, not enough time to develop anything except having a few laughs... Lighten up, have a good time and dont worry about anything.. have a question for ya, when is the last time you spent any time with somone and be honest? last nite..does that give more credibility to my post? |
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I would expect nothing less than diamonds.....after 2 weeks!!!  
hey Gypsy, they even made a song about ya...
You Rock!!!  
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I would expect nothing less than diamonds.....after 2 weeks!!!
hey Gypsy, they even made a song about ya...
You Rock!!!
awwwwwwwwwww thanks!!! But Im really busy right now.......digging for gold......and eating up men with my rather large lizard like tongue!!! 
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THIS is why men are AZZHEADS!!! 
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it was just two months...like whats the big deal? where you making wedding plans already?? did you hire the caterer and send out invitations?? It was just four weeks, not enough time to develop anything except having a few laughs... Lighten up, have a good time and dont worry about anything.. have a question for ya, when is the last time you spent any time with somone and be honest? that's not a fair question, to some people 2 months is an eternity, to others it's a drop in the bucket. It depends on how emotionally involved YOU got with the person, vs. how emotionally involved THEY got. For me, and based on what the OP describes they were very "close" so I might be a bit upset about it, but if she likes him, and is willing to give him another chance... Ok. but true, it was only 2 months, I've had longer relationships with telemarketers...
I kinda disagree on if it's a fair question or not. Unless your heartless then yeah i can see the part about being droped. But there are not many on this form that are that way. it's easy to say AHH forget about it and have fun when your not the one goping through it and then some time down the line that same person that said it's no big deal is in the same situation or somthing like it, but its there turn now. So hpow how is it so easy to say things when your not in it but when you are it's a whoile different story? |
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it was just two months...like whats the big deal? where you making wedding plans already?? did you hire the caterer and send out invitations?? It was just four weeks, not enough time to develop anything except having a few laughs... Lighten up, have a good time and dont worry about anything.. have a question for ya, when is the last time you spent any time with somone and be honest? that's not a fair question, to some people 2 months is an eternity, to others it's a drop in the bucket. It depends on how emotionally involved YOU got with the person, vs. how emotionally involved THEY got. For me, and based on what the OP describes they were very "close" so I might be a bit upset about it, but if she likes him, and is willing to give him another chance... Ok. but true, it was only 2 months, I've had longer relationships with telemarketers...
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THIS is why men are AZZHEADS!!!
so they are indigonous to Cali are they? |
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it was just two months...like whats the big deal? where you making wedding plans already?? did you hire the caterer and send out invitations?? It was just four weeks, not enough time to develop anything except having a few laughs... Lighten up, have a good time and dont worry about anything.. have a question for ya, when is the last time you spent any time with somone and be honest? last nite..does that give more credibility to my post? Yeah right lmao. I'm talkijgn abot spending time with somone. Not a one night stand. |
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it was just two months...like whats the big deal? where you making wedding plans already?? did you hire the caterer and send out invitations?? It was just four weeks, not enough time to develop anything except having a few laughs... Lighten up, have a good time and dont worry about anything.. have a question for ya, when is the last time you spent any time with somone and be honest? that's not a fair question, to some people 2 months is an eternity, to others it's a drop in the bucket. It depends on how emotionally involved YOU got with the person, vs. how emotionally involved THEY got. For me, and based on what the OP describes they were very "close" so I might be a bit upset about it, but if she likes him, and is willing to give him another chance... Ok. but true, it was only 2 months, I've had longer relationships with telemarketers...
I kinda disagree on if it's a fair question or not. Unless your heartless then yeah i can see the part about being droped. But there are not many on this form that are that way. it's easy to say AHH forget about it and have fun when your not the one goping through it and then some time down the line that same person that said it's no big deal is in the same situation or somthing like it, but its there turn now. So hpow how is it so easy to say things when your not in it but when you are it's a whoile different story? Of course its very easy to say things when you're not in it..the OP asked what would you do...not give me support because Im in love and got dumped...whats the big frigg'n deal here? Some people are more in control of their feelings than others and dont get so caught up in them as others, the replies on this thread give evidence to that neither is better than the other. |
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Give him ONE more chance. Thats IT. ONE more. If he does it again, tell him to go find a woman who likes being treated like sh*t. One time... maybe he got cold feet for a week or so. Any more than that... Hes taking advantage of you and your good nature. You deserve better than that. Don't ever settle for less than you deserve. EVER! |
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I know I took almost 2 years after splitting up with my sons dad before i could date again...and even now being in a relationship can freak me out a bit. It scares me to give someone my heart, but you have to be so vulernable to experience love again.
I dunno! My friends think Im being too nice. Thats the shrink in me I guess, always wanting to find the root of the problem and how to help fix it. They think it was pretty sh*tty of him to do to me, but its nice to get a guys opinion on this as well. That some of the men are saying that some guys dont do it to be mean, just to think. |
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i had a similiar scenario, only much shorter time frame than yours.he dipped out for about a week, no calls, no emails, zilch.
well, since i felt like we really deep down hit it off(talked on phone literally for hrs n hrs everyday), i decided to confront him and find out what happened. and well, it was a family problem and some other stuff. but----as i told him--i will say this...if someone truly cares for you, nothing short of them being dead or incapacitated warrants them to not respond to you at all.a phone call, an email, takes 5 minutes...just to let you know stuff is going on and they need time.5 minutes is not, in my book, ever too much to ask. he gets this one last chance to make it right and so far we're back to where we were before, all is well. so when you see him, talk to him, ask him what he was thinking/what happened and go with your gut on if you really want to accept his reasons/excuses for ignoring you. wish you the best of luck tonight and happy belated birthday |
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I kinda disagree on if it's a fair question or not. Unless your heartless then yeah i can see the part about being droped. But there are not many on this form that are that way. it's easy to say AHH forget about it and have fun when your not the one goping through it and then some time down the line that same person that said it's no big deal is in the same situation or somthing like it, but its there turn now. So hpow how is it so easy to say things when your not in it but when you are it's a whoile different story? I agree it's always easier to dool out advise, and much harder to take it... I've learned in my 26 years of life, you gotta know when to hold em' know when to fold em' know when to walk away, and know when to run.... You never count your money when you're sitting at the table. There'll be time enough for counting when the dealing's done.
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I don't think you should give in and do anything physical or profess your undying love or give him any kind of satisfaction of knowing he got under your skin... I think u should just go and try to get whatever answers you can for your own peace of mind but just keep a guard up....
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you're young and beautiful, you are probably very smart and have a warm heart..dont be so willing to give yourself away so easily..if you're working harder at the relationship than he is, then its not worth it...whether its two hours, two weeks, two months or two years...
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I would expect nothing less than diamonds.....after 2 weeks!!!
Gold is at an all time high, you know a good place to dig? I'll bring the shovels... you bring the water and the treasure chest to put all of our precious in....
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i had a similiar scenario, only much shorter time frame than yours.he dipped out for about a week, no calls, no emails, zilch. well, since i felt like we really deep down hit it off(talked on phone literally for hrs n hrs everyday), i decided to confront him and find out what happened. and well, it was a family problem and some other stuff. but----as i told him--i will say this...if someone truly cares for you, nothing short of them being dead or incapacitated warrants them to not respond to you at all.a phone call, an email, takes 5 minutes...just to let you know stuff is going on and they need time.5 minutes is not, in my book, ever too much to ask. he gets this one last chance to make it right and so far we're back to where we were before, all is well. so when you see him, talk to him, ask him what he was thinking/what happened and go with your gut on if you really want to accept his reasons/excuses for ignoring you. wish you the best of luck tonight and happy belated birthday Thank you for sharing your story
&& I need the luck 
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I don't think you should give in and do anything physical or profess your undying love or give him any kind of satisfaction of knowing he got under your skin... I think u should just go and try to get whatever answers you can for your own peace of mind but just keep a guard up.... That was my thoughts exactly! Im not giving him anything & letting him do all the talking. If it wants this relationship to work...he better start opening up to me. |
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it was just two months...like whats the big deal? where you making wedding plans already?? did you hire the caterer and send out invitations?? It was just four weeks, not enough time to develop anything except having a few laughs... Lighten up, have a good time and dont worry about anything.. have a question for ya, when is the last time you spent any time with somone and be honest? that's not a fair question, to some people 2 months is an eternity, to others it's a drop in the bucket. It depends on how emotionally involved YOU got with the person, vs. how emotionally involved THEY got. For me, and based on what the OP describes they were very "close" so I might be a bit upset about it, but if she likes him, and is willing to give him another chance... Ok. but true, it was only 2 months, I've had longer relationships with telemarketers...
I kinda disagree on if it's a fair question or not. Unless your heartless then yeah i can see the part about being droped. But there are not many on this form that are that way. it's easy to say AHH forget about it and have fun when your not the one goping through it and then some time down the line that same person that said it's no big deal is in the same situation or somthing like it, but its there turn now. So hpow how is it so easy to say things when your not in it but when you are it's a whoile different story? |
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i had a similiar scenario, only much shorter time frame than yours.he dipped out for about a week, no calls, no emails, zilch. well, since i felt like we really deep down hit it off(talked on phone literally for hrs n hrs everyday), i decided to confront him and find out what happened. and well, it was a family problem and some other stuff. but----as i told him--i will say this...if someone truly cares for you, nothing short of them being dead or incapacitated warrants them to not respond to you at all.a phone call, an email, takes 5 minutes...just to let you know stuff is going on and they need time.5 minutes is not, in my book, ever too much to ask. he gets this one last chance to make it right and so far we're back to where we were before, all is well. so when you see him, talk to him, ask him what he was thinking/what happened and go with your gut on if you really want to accept his reasons/excuses for ignoring you. wish you the best of luck tonight and happy belated birthday Thank you for sharing your story
&& I need the luck
youre welcome...see what he says to you for a while then if he doesnt say why he dipped out on ya, ask him.get all the questions out then have fun if you accept the answers.
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