Topic: Honestly...what would you do? | |
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go! he could have a verry good reason for not contacting you. and sometimes men just need space a their own down time and privacy. dont take it personaly and go! see what he says
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When you don't get answers you will eat up inside with all those wonderful doubts that may cause you harm. Just be out with it. You have your answer... good or not and you can decide to move on from there. Well I dont want to seem like a spaz and interogate him after hes made the bold move of contacting me again. I thought Id let him talk. If he provided an explanation or says sorry, then thats something to work on. If he is going act like nothing happened and say nothing ...then we are hanging out tonight, but not dating again. I'm sure whatever choice you make will be the best one for you. |
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THIS is why men are AZZHEADS!!! |
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THIS is why men are AZZHEADS!!! |
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it was just two months...like whats the big deal? where you making wedding plans already?? did you hire the caterer and send out invitations?? It was just four weeks, not enough time to develop anything except having a few laughs... Lighten up, have a good time and dont worry about anything.. have a question for ya, when is the last time you spent any time with somone and be honest? that's not a fair question, to some people 2 months is an eternity, to others it's a drop in the bucket. It depends on how emotionally involved YOU got with the person, vs. how emotionally involved THEY got. For me, and based on what the OP describes they were very "close" so I might be a bit upset about it, but if she likes him, and is willing to give him another chance... Ok. but true, it was only 2 months, I've had longer relationships with telemarketers... |
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it was just two months...like whats the big deal? where you making wedding plans already?? did you hire the caterer and send out invitations?? It was just four weeks, not enough time to develop anything except having a few laughs... Lighten up, have a good time and dont worry about anything.. well like 2 1/2 months so...11 weeks I dont know, i really thought there was something there that was different |
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sorry but i would want an explanation before meeting him..hes messed you around hun..its like im back so jump..my opinion though so go with your gut feelings |
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sorry but i would want an explanation before meeting him..hes messed you around hun..its like im back so jump..my opinion though so go with your gut feelings |
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I would expect nothing less than diamonds.....after 2 weeks!!! |
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Give him ONE more chance. Thats IT. ONE more. If he does it again, tell him to go find a woman who likes being treated like sh*t. One time... maybe he got cold feet for a week or so. Any more than that... Hes taking advantage of you and your good nature. You deserve better than that. Don't ever settle for less than you deserve. EVER!
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go! he could have a verry good reason for not contacting you. and sometimes men just need space a their own down time and privacy. dont take it personaly and go! see what he says I hoping he just needed to evaluate things...He was married for 8 years, Im his first girlfriend since the big D |
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I would expect nothing less than diamonds.....after 2 weeks!!! |
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go! he could have a verry good reason for not contacting you. and sometimes men just need space a their own down time and privacy. dont take it personaly and go! see what he says I hoping he just needed to evaluate things...He was married for 8 years, Im his first girlfriend since the big D Well then ya... and honestly, be glad he does that, I've dated guys who didn't question things after marriage...and let me tell you the other way is worse... You're a smart girl, You'll know when you see him. |
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I would expect nothing less than diamonds.....after 2 weeks!!! and all I dig is iron ore |
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I would expect nothing less than diamonds.....after 2 weeks!!! hey Gypsy, they even made a song about ya... |
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go! he could have a verry good reason for not contacting you. and sometimes men just need space a their own down time and privacy. dont take it personaly and go! see what he says I hoping he just needed to evaluate things...He was married for 8 years, Im his first girlfriend since the big D Well then ya... and honestly, be glad he does that, I've dated guys who didn't question things after marriage...and let me tell you the other way is worse... You're a smart girl, You'll know when you see him. thanks Lily and thanks to everyone! |
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stupid people cant see a wink??? a laugh???? ya no wonder Im single!!!
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I would expect nothing less than diamonds.....after 2 weeks!!! Gold is at an all time high, you know a good place to dig? I'll bring the shovels... you bring the water and the treasure chest to put all of our precious in.... |
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I would expect nothing less than diamonds.....after 2 weeks!!! hey Gypsy, they even made a song about ya... |
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stupid people cant see a wink??? a laugh???? ya no wonder Im single!!! |
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