Topic: Honestly...what would you do?
littleike's photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:29 AM
go! he could have a verry good reason for not contacting you. and sometimes men just need space a their own down time and privacy. dont take it personaly and go! see what he says

coquibella's photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:30 AM


When you don't get answers you will eat up inside with all those wonderful doubts that may cause you harm. Just be out with it. You have your answer... good or not and you can decide to move on from there.


Well I dont want to seem like a spaz and interogate him after hes made the bold move of contacting me again. I thought Id let him talk. If he provided an explanation or says sorry, then thats something to work on. If he is going act like nothing happened and say nothing ...then we are hanging out tonight, but not dating again.


I'm sure whatever choice you make will be the best one for you. :smile:

littleike's photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:30 AM

THIS is why men are AZZHEADS!!!explode
women can be azzheads also, were all human. not a man or woman thing but human thing

YourLove1's photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:31 AM


THIS is why men are AZZHEADS!!!explode
women can be azzheads also, were all human. not a man or woman thing but human thing
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Lily0923's photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:31 AM


it was just two months...like whats the big deal? where you making wedding plans already?? did you hire the caterer and send out invitations?? It was just four weeks, not enough time to develop anything except having a few laughs...
Lighten up, have a good time and dont worry about anything..


have a question for ya, when is the last time you spent any time with somone and be honest?


that's not a fair question, to some people 2 months is an eternity, to others it's a drop in the bucket.

It depends on how emotionally involved YOU got with the person, vs. how emotionally involved THEY got.

For me, and based on what the OP describes they were very "close" so I might be a bit upset about it, but if she likes him, and is willing to give him another chance... Ok.

but true, it was only 2 months, I've had longer relationships with telemarketers...laugh laugh

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:32 AM

it was just two months...like whats the big deal? where you making wedding plans already?? did you hire the caterer and send out invitations?? It was just four weeks, not enough time to develop anything except having a few laughs...
Lighten up, have a good time and dont worry about anything..


well like 2 1/2 months so...11 weeks:tongue:

I dont know, i really thought there was something there that was different

TheShadow's photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:32 AM

sorry but i would want an explanation before meeting him..hes messed you around hun..its like im back so jump..my opinion though so go with your gut feelings


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DebbieJT's photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:33 AM


sorry but i would want an explanation before meeting him..hes messed you around hun..its like im back so jump..my opinion though so go with your gut feelings


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hi hun hows youbigsmile

littleike's photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:33 AM

I would expect nothing less than diamonds.....after 2 weeks!!!:wink: laugh
you sound like a gold digger and its all about you, no wonder your still single

EquineEngineer's photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:33 AM
Give him ONE more chance. Thats IT. ONE more. If he does it again, tell him to go find a woman who likes being treated like sh*t. One time... maybe he got cold feet for a week or so. Any more than that... Hes taking advantage of you and your good nature. You deserve better than that. Don't ever settle for less than you deserve. EVER!

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:33 AM

go! he could have a verry good reason for not contacting you. and sometimes men just need space a their own down time and privacy. dont take it personaly and go! see what he says


I hoping he just needed to evaluate things...He was married for 8 years, Im his first girlfriend since the big D

no photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:34 AM


I would expect nothing less than diamonds.....after 2 weeks!!!:wink: laugh
you sound like a gold digger and its all about you, no wonder your still single
Ya Im just a gold digger!!! laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Lily0923's photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:35 AM


go! he could have a verry good reason for not contacting you. and sometimes men just need space a their own down time and privacy. dont take it personaly and go! see what he says


I hoping he just needed to evaluate things...He was married for 8 years, Im his first girlfriend since the big D


Well then ya... and honestly, be glad he does that, I've dated guys who didn't question things after marriage...and let me tell you the other way is worse...

You're a smart girl, You'll know when you see him.flowerforyou

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:35 AM



I would expect nothing less than diamonds.....after 2 weeks!!!:wink: laugh
you sound like a gold digger and its all about you, no wonder your still single
Ya Im just a gold digger!!! laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


and all I dig is iron orelaugh

franshade's photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:36 AM



I would expect nothing less than diamonds.....after 2 weeks!!!:wink: laugh
you sound like a gold digger and its all about you, no wonder your still single
Ya Im just a gold digger!!! laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


hey Gypsy, they even made a song about ya... laugh laugh laugh laugh

TwilightsTwin's photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:36 AM



go! he could have a verry good reason for not contacting you. and sometimes men just need space a their own down time and privacy. dont take it personaly and go! see what he says


I hoping he just needed to evaluate things...He was married for 8 years, Im his first girlfriend since the big D


Well then ya... and honestly, be glad he does that, I've dated guys who didn't question things after marriage...and let me tell you the other way is worse...

You're a smart girl, You'll know when you see him.flowerforyou


thanks Lilyflowerforyou

and thanks to everyone!flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

no photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:37 AM
stupid people cant see a wink??? a laugh???? huh ya no wonder Im single!!!noway









Lily0923's photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:37 AM



I would expect nothing less than diamonds.....after 2 weeks!!!:wink: laugh
you sound like a gold digger and its all about you, no wonder your still single
Ya Im just a gold digger!!! laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


Gold is at an all time high, you know a good place to dig? I'll bring the shovels... you bring the water and the treasure chest to put all of our precious in....:wink:

no photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:37 AM




I would expect nothing less than diamonds.....after 2 weeks!!!:wink: laugh
you sound like a gold digger and its all about you, no wonder your still single
Ya Im just a gold digger!!! laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


hey Gypsy, they even made a song about ya... laugh laugh laugh laugh
Is it maneater??? because they made that for me didnt they????laugh drinker :wink:

YourLove1's photo
Thu 06/12/08 10:38 AM

stupid people cant see a wink??? a laugh???? huh ya no wonder Im single!!!noway









laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh