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Topic: RED FLAGS
buttons's photo
Tue 02/20/07 09:49 AM
when they only wear cologne on special occasions when they go out with
you. and go out without you and dont invite you to go<if ya lived with
them> and wear their "special" calogne

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 02/20/07 10:24 AM
They start taking there clothes to the cleaners to have then starched
and you never could get them to do it before and now all of a sudden
phoof they have to take them there all the time.

FedMan's photo
Tue 02/20/07 10:32 AM
the cell number and no home number is not all that good I used to have
only cell numbers and no home phone and know people who still have their
lives like this with the free nights and weekends and no long distance
it kinda makes home phones obsolete. The only reason I have gotten one
recently was for the kids.

krowraven7's photo
Tue 02/20/07 01:51 PM
red flags are the signs of a pending issue,the determining factor in
whether you want to work that out or get out..Alot of people tend to
foll themselves and over look red flags,or accept them to avoid
loneliness..

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 02/20/07 01:58 PM
Fedman your very right on that one for I had my home phone taken out
almost 2 years ago due to the kids and I all have cell phones and its
free minutes phone to phone so the house phone was just an extra bill
that no one was using since internet is same as the cable tv is so ya I
got rid of my home phone.

purplecat's photo
Tue 02/20/07 02:00 PM
um .....lets ,see ,,they rip up all your clothes so you cant leave the
house ?

or they kick you from one end of the house to the other ,

um ,,what else......


oh even though you are disabled they make you do all the work while they
do nothing ,, or have little parties while you are at work

um...jeez I could write a book on this one........

FariesDoFly's photo
Wed 02/21/07 04:41 PM
damn it you got me again!!!

no photo
Wed 02/21/07 04:51 PM
hmmm,*thinks*
well I guess if they chase ya with a meat cleaver , that's bad
right????????

bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

redmange420's photo
Wed 02/21/07 04:52 PM
Red flag- when your woman throws her used tampon or pad at ya.

FedMan's photo
Wed 02/21/07 06:23 PM
yeah you think with all the new competition with cable phone providers
and Voip providers the mother phone companies would lower their prices
huh? lol

sweetcountrygirl's photo
Wed 02/21/07 06:43 PM
jadedwstone, txs, and buttons...WOW!!!

great red flags...ya'll named most of em I came up with already...

if you have a funny feeling about something, always investigate it, do
not ignore it!...It's called instinct...ohwell

sweetcountrygirl's photo
Wed 02/21/07 06:46 PM
hey purple, where is this jacka__...I'll show him what it feels like to
get kicked around buy a Louisianian...
Ever watch the burning bed with farrah faucet...man, now I'm really
tellin my age...but I watched that when i was younger and swore a man
would never treat me or anyone I care about that way...
So glad you found the courage and strength to get away from
it!...flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou Much
love girl!:heart: drinker :tongue:

Marie55's photo
Wed 02/21/07 07:04 PM
How about when he brings a woman home and tries to sneak her into the
spare bedroom because he thinks you are asleep in the other bedroom with
the baby - ahhhh, catch yah. Tried to lie his ass out of that one.

Pulling out guns and butcher knives - definite red flags.

Hitting - yup.

Taking his mom to the bar - leaving wife at home - yup.

Having mom set him up with dates with her friends - after we were
married - yup - gross as hell too.

Morena350's photo
Wed 02/21/07 07:08 PM
when they don't want to do things you used to do together,
they don't want to go out, when you want to
they are always tired, for you but for others ready and willing
spontaneous, sleepiness or pain everywhere
and all of the other answers to this post as well,
a red flag is a sign that things are not going well, as they use to,

FariesDoFly's photo
Wed 02/21/07 10:07 PM
I hate it when their with you and are amazing then when they get around
other people espeically friends and act like complete assholes... thats
a red flag for me I prefer people that are true to themselves and
wouldn't care what anyone thought.

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