Ive been chatting and talking, LITERALLY for hours n hours n hours on the phone everyday with this guy for about 2 wks before we finally met.We talked about every little thing, our past, present, our futures and what we wanted out of them.No fights, no arguments, nothing to constitute what has happened now.

We met, it was great, wasnt nervous, and it felt as we both thought it would beforehand, like we knew eachother forever.

Last wk I went out of town from Sat til Fri night to see family in KY.I called him from there, he called me up there(on my sisters home phone even) as well.nothing had changed in our talks.Msgs were left on myspace, the works.It was still as it was before I left, hours and hours of talking about my trip, family,his work, and how much we missed eachother.

So I come back Fri.night and call him at work as he asked me to do to let him know I got home safely.He said hed call me back after he got off.

Those were the last words I have heard from him.


Hes been on his myspace, has left my pics up on there as well,comments n all.Headline stated that he's falling for me fast.

Im utterly and completely flabergasted, hurt, purely in shock about him just ending all contact with me.He will not respond to my calls, emails, nothing.

Anybody have any thoughts on why someone would do such a thing ??? Its not like it would hurt HIM to just email me and tell me he doesnt like me all of the sudden etc etc.or whatever is going on.

I fell for him, hook, line and sinker.He kept telling me he felt the same as well.

I am devastated with this.

p.s. this is my first time starting my own thread...please bare with me here...I never thought itd be something like this.I really thought Id be posting in the "jsh success stories" to be completely honest with you.


thanks ahead of time for reading and any thoughts or comments given.

hope he was in your favorite 5

He could be busy, but more than likely he has evaluated the fact that he was spending so much time on you

Did you find him on your Mutual Match.

He did have plenty of time for what he wanted to do with his day as well though.And I know his schedule, not busy enuf to constitute no email or no call.Everyone has 5 minutes to spare somewhere.

Yes, we did.

i talk to a lot of girls on these sites and usally it dont work out...a few yrs back i met a girl from ohio i drove there a lot to see her,,,one day i went there and she had a bf ....and it was a hurt to me...just use your bad relationships to make you better...wish you the best and keep tring....maybe it wasnt sopose to be??

Does seem strange and I understand your confussion....have you sent him messages or tried calling? Maybe he was testing the waters with a few and got scared at how fast you both were hitting it off?

Maybe he was killed in a horrific water slide accident???

Who knows? Maybe there was a family emergency or he was sick or something. Or maybe he is married and his wife found his acct and put an end to it. Either way there is plenty of fish in the sea so don't let it make you feel bad about your self.

Yes, I hve tried everything I know.No, it was just me and him.If it was so fast, then why cant/wont he just email me (if he doesnt want to talk yet) and tell me he needs a few days.Im a very understanding person.Im am just completely broken over this.I saw a future with him as I never have with anyone else at all.Yeh, I know it seems quick, but we both, or so I was told, felt it.He said he wants a real relationship to last with all that stuff.

I just want an answer.I need to know whats happened.

actually he probably got scared with his feelings.......dont call him anymore......... He will come around.....they always do!!!

Stop calling him. Let him call you, and if he doesn't that is his bad.

Nope Gyps..Thanks anyways.Hes quite alive and well.

on-line dating is way cool!! ....or not?

Nope, no wife.I know that for sure.No emergency.Hes still hanging around his computer.

Im taking a break from fishing for quite a while.Cant think of moving on right now, not anytime soon either.

Thanks, much better Gyps.I know youre trying to make me smile with your last comment.I appreciate it.


I just want/need some kind of response...you have no idea how much I much I feel for him.I need him to come around and quick before I get worse than I already am now.

Thanks.I appreciate it.

You guys have been great.Thank you all for trying to help and/or make me feel better.

Ive just never felt this way about someone, not so quickly, not so strongly, not so perfectly...but not so much that its too perfect though.

I am trying not to laugh but Gypsy ya just gotta stop girl I can't keep cleaning up water I keep spewin