I am sorry I will call you

Yeh, okay.Im waiting by the phone right now.

not.

SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME! except i met the guy IRL at the bar.. things were going great for 2 months then it was like he fell off the face of the planet, couldn't get him to respond to any messages or phone calls or anything.. he knows my friends bf though.. so eventually he made the guy feel really bad that he texted me and apologized for being an ass to me.. stupid guys

The not knowing is the worst, isn't it? I mean, rejection isn't exactly anyone's favourite pass-time, but at least then there's closure and you can move forward. Unresolved crap is my absolute worst nightmare ... I hope for your sake that when he's done with his little 'freakout' (oh, and I've been on the receiving end of MORE than my fair share ), he'll show you the courtesy and respect you deserve to at least explain his behaviour, if not apologize and seek your forgiveness.

My heart truly goes out to you -- this is the thing I fear most about online 'connections'.

Wow.........jerry springer!!! Whereeeeeeeeeeez my jerry beads????

Sorry about your problem. I've had a similiar thing happen too me, and I found out in the end that she got cold feet. I was told by a friend of hers, she NEVER contacted me again.

Thats what my problem is, the not knowing part of it.Its killing me inside not knowing why.If he would just even email me and say "F^&& off", its still something.Not really what I want to hear, but its better than nothing I suppose.

I do hope he has just had a "freak out" and can tell me soon whats going on in his head.Something to let me know its not over, he just needs time to think.

Thanks for your kind words.

All I want is an answer, something for closure really.If it is over.Hopefully its not though.

Youre too funny Gyps...

Same thing happened to me. Sucks big time.

I know exactly how you feel. The same thing happened not to long ago to me. Everything was fine Tuesday and Saturday he emailed me and siad "he has been thinking" so who knows. He went out of town and called me totell me he made it safe, honestly I didnt expect to hear from him while he was gone. He always told me to call him when I could or he would be home at a certain time to give him a call. Then he turned around saying it was to much and kinda making excuses.If his feelings changed then he could have just been honest. I would rather have honest(even if its not what I want to hear) then the unknown. Anyways I was going to say now I know to do things different next time, but I was just being myself and if I cant be myself then.....

Well I am sorry for you, and I hope that he is "man" enough to call you, answer, reply back to you. Maybe does have deep feelings for you and is just scared.

Today...we met and he explained things that were going on and it is a valid reason.However though, I told him that nothing will ever warrant silence with someone you care about short of being dead or incapacitated.He did apologize, yes, he is scared as well of this, as I am too, but we both want to try and work things out and see where it goes.Distance is a byt of a problem, he does live 2 hrs away, however, if its special enough to both of us, and we think it is,then its worth an adventurous drive or two to see eachother.

Everybody has five minutes to tell someone whats going on, wether it be a long explanation or a quick notice.In my opinion, it should be done so.Nobody wants silence from someone like that.

So this is what I always say...Do unto others as you wish they do unto you....

Thank you everybody for sharing your own stories and for your support and advice.I appreciate it very much.

wish us luck....

And yes, I do still hope to one day post in the "jsh success stories" with him...

He is that special to me...

I'm sorry that happened to you. I've had some pretty weird stuff with guys on here too. I just have fun and say the heck with much more than that!

Maybe it's for the better, I'm sorry it didn't work out