rushed into a marriage... the man only wanted me for immigration papers and cheated on me. i did some things wrong too, but my bible study group i go to is helping me learn not to do the same things again.

hey guys divorced its paifull, specially when yo have kids, you think you married the man of your life for ever, like the movies, but I think men have lost their commitment to a relationship, all they want is sex - what about emotion? personality? having fun? I havent found anyone that doesnt want sex first and then maybe a relationship, also guys are paranoic of loosing their freedom, we do to..but we see the positive side of it, you are a couple, you have a companion, to do thigs, I am not againts sex, dont take me wrong, I love it, but I think is better to know someone better and if you really will have things in common- besides just sex, makes us be like animals, like my little doggie that wants to f...the sofa leg every time he has a chance!!

My best friend is a divorced man. His alcoholic wife, who he could not seem to help, ran off with another man, abandoning his three children who he raised single handedly with more TLC than I thought existed in this world. Not exactly unfit.

Honestly, that is less of an issue for me than multiple children with multiple women and no marriages.

I suppose it is just individual, the number of times and why it ended is very important.

......don't care. Never had a divorce. Aint bitter. Still have all my stuff. The bloodsucking c*cksucker lawyer got nothing because I haven't got one of them divorces. And I don't intend to. No marriage- no divorce. Simple. No deposit- no return. Buuuuurrrrpp. Sorry not desperate. Not co dependent lonely. Not burdened with alimony or child support. I'm happy guy.

Too expensive

BEST $$$$$ I EVER SPENT!

What he said.

That too

i am not paying a dime :D the ex is! i told him to pay for it or i would take him for every penny (he is a helicopter pilot, they make good money). at this point i just want to sign the papers and move on. that's why i am not really going to fight. no kids, property, etc.

Romeooooooooooooooooooo

you don't need to be married to pay child support...FYI

Be cautious.

And I mean no offense. I'm sick of hearing the horror stories of marriage and divorce. Sick of 20 years of divorced men and women coming over to my house, drinkin my booze, cryin on my shoulder, and sleeping on my couch. These were the same people when happily married, told me I should be married- greatest thing that's ever happened to them- don't know what I'm missing! Yeah I know what I'm missing- impending doom and gloom.

Hey ((((GEHC)))))

LHB.... you are a bright ray of sunshine in the world of marriage....

But your stories crack me the heck up each and every time. Thanks!

you are perfectly ok to have your opinion. but some people aren't dooming and glooming. i am quite happy about my mistake. if i hadn't of made it, i would still be codependent. i am stronger because of it.

I'm divorced twice now, both times they realized they screwed up and wanted me back. Also both times they filed for bankruptcy afterwards, coincidence I think not. Wanted me back to help them out of their problems. Too bad, does this make me a bad relationship candidate.

Hey biker,

If you loved her and that was the one thing she wanted, would you?

JMO
*I've done the looking for love and all that crap.. now i'm just into the here and now... screw all the anxiety..
and guess what people... heartbreak is a fact of life... get over it and move on... there are plenty of fish out there if you are looking for a fishfry... I guess the hippie in me says screw it and get screwed.. its alot more fun than moping about the one that got away... enjoy life... cause when it comes right down to the nitty gritty.. you better have enjoyed some of it before it slips away.. *