Topic: Hmm this should get some heads rolling..
TheShadow's photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:31 AM

CONFUSCIOUS SAY.......MAN WHO IS CONFUSED ABOUT LIFE NEEDS WOMAN TO TELL HIM!!!laugh laugh drinker drinker


Thank god i'm not confused, if needed a women to tell me then i would belaugh laugh

yantraimages's photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:33 AM

im more confused then anyone right now...i just got back from the most technolically impaired place in the world


I'll bet we can find someone more confused than you
Why isn't Confucious Confused?

TheShadow's photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:33 AM


I think it actually knowing who you are. Not many are intouch with themselves. So it leads to not knowing what you want or looking for.
.....not true.....i touch myself all the time....now im just looking for someone else to really touch me!!!laugh


it would be a very touching moment!bigsmile


Go to vegas and you'll find all the touching you wantlaugh

ljcc1964's photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:33 AM
Huh? huh

TheShadow's photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:34 AM

Huh? huh


Just made my pointlaugh

Wiccancowboy's photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:34 AM
home home home...lonely lonely lonely

No1sLove's photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:36 AM
I think we all know how we would like to feel in a relationship, but how to achieve that and keep it flowing is the confusing part...we may put too much stock in the who we choose and not enough emphasis on the how to offer what is needed to make it happen.

Not that who is irrelevant by any means. :wink:

no photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:37 AM
to quote a song......its not having what you want....its wanting what you got

no photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:39 AM

Now i know this is going to go back and forth, but my question is who is more confused in life as far as what they want or looking for. Men or women?





Cross dressers.

TheShadow's photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:42 AM

I think we all know how we would like to feel in a relationship, but how to achieve that and keep it flowing is the confusing part...we may put too much stock in the who we choose and not enough emphasis on the how to offer what is needed to make it happen.

Not that who is irrelevant by any means. :wink:


Sorry ill have to disagree on the first part. I have met alot of peple that say they do but there actions show different. As for the second part about how to achieve and keep it flowing i will agree. It takes works and most want things to be easy in life and thats just somthing that will never happen.

TheShadow's photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:43 AM


Now i know this is going to go back and forth, but my question is who is more confused in life as far as what they want or looking for. Men or women?





Cross dressers.


Now how would you think that, when they get the best of both worlds laugh

s1owhand's photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:44 AM
The Shadow - The Shadow is clearly the most confused! bigsmile

no photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:45 AM
Morning (((((Shadow)))))

How's you and le bebe? flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

As for your question, I think both sexes are equally confused, we think we know ourselves, know what we want etc but things change sometimes. And I think Lilith made an excellent point of being able to recognize it when we see it, it's not always so easy to do.

no photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:49 AM
Thinking you have it all figured out is the most obvious guarantee of impending confusion, isn't it? Only when we realize we'll never completely lack confusion can we start being satisfied in ours lives.

hunky62's photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:52 AM

I know some believe that men all just want a hot bod, pretty face and great sex, but I truly believe that when it comes to choosing a life partner, we all want the same thing....someone we are compatible with that touches our hearts in a special way and loves us for who we are...as we do them. flowerforyou

Answer...equally confusing. happy


DAMN...you see right through my facade No1sLove...that is exactly what I really want...

the great SEX will take care of itself once my pretty face and your HOT bod get together...

Joaverage's photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:53 AM

I think women are more confused. Men pretty much know what they want, SEX.laugh


And women know what they want is: Good Sex
No confusion here

Scinn's photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:53 AM
When we dwell on confusion, we only confuse.

It's like looking for the needle in the haystack. You can hunt and hunt...and hunt again, and when you finally give up, all hot and sweaty, frustrated and confused. You sit down on the needle.

As to who's more confused than another...men and women are equally confused about things...some of those things are the same, and some are different...but in the most basic of break-downs of the long laundry list of things we want and think we want and know we want, and want but don't know we want....it all boils down to the same cup of tea.

TheShadow's photo
Tue 06/03/08 08:56 AM
Edited by TheShadow on Tue 06/03/08 08:59 AM

Morning (((((Shadow)))))

How's you and le bebe? flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

As for your question, I think both sexes are equally confused, we think we know ourselves, know what we want etc but things change sometimes. And I think Lilith made an excellent point of being able to recognize it when we see it, it's not always so easy to do.


Far as i know, he is doing fine:smile: Expecting a call today from the ex because she is out of town with him.

what Lilith said is truedrinker

what Vfury said i have to agree with to. I never think i have it all figured out. Life is a never ending growing process and when you stop growing is when you lose a grip on life...

No1sLove's photo
Tue 06/03/08 09:00 AM


I think we all know how we would like to feel in a relationship, but how to achieve that and keep it flowing is the confusing part...we may put too much stock in the who we choose and not enough emphasis on the how to offer what is needed to make it happen.

Not that who is irrelevant by any means. :wink:


Sorry ill have to disagree on the first part. I have met alot of peple that say they do but there actions show different. As for the second part about how to achieve and keep it flowing i will agree. It takes works and most want things to be easy in life and thats just somthing that will never happen.
ohwell Yeah....see your point about that. I guess I'm fantasizing about ppl who respect themselves enough to hold out for what is true to them and not just accept whatever is offered them out of loneliness. frown

No1sLove's photo
Tue 06/03/08 09:01 AM


I know some believe that men all just want a hot bod, pretty face and great sex, but I truly believe that when it comes to choosing a life partner, we all want the same thing....someone we are compatible with that touches our hearts in a special way and loves us for who we are...as we do them. flowerforyou

Answer...equally confusing. happy


DAMN...you see right through my facade No1sLove...that is exactly what I really want...

the great SEX will take care of itself once my pretty face and your HOT bod get together...
laugh Smarty pants! laugh flowerforyou