Topic: why do we do this?
Lily0923's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:20 AM



Sometimes even those who are bad for us....are good for us......
....if not for "those moments".....for lessons learned.


:heart: Marry Me :heart:



laugh Masochistlaugh


God you know the way to my heart....flowerforyou

Goofball73's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:21 AM

(Just a warning I'm going to be sensitive here for a sec)

Why when you know there is no hope to have someone, do you stay in contact with them?

They irritate you, they annoy you, but overall, you know the day will come when you won't talk to them anymore, but you carry this hope that someday.......




Sigh......you just never will be over me will you babe?:wink: bigsmile

No1sLove's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:22 AM
I don't know why people do that and it's a source of constant confusion to me when I see my friends doing it.

I personally don't have the stomach for it, and would rather swallow the bitter truth once and be done with it. I can not say I have not held on to crushes for long periods, but prefer to enjoy them for the silly fantasies that they are and would never actively pursue them with any hopeful delusions. I am a realist if nothing else.

Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:22 AM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Mon 06/02/08 07:22 AM




Sometimes even those who are bad for us....are good for us......
....if not for "those moments".....for lessons learned.


:heart: Marry Me :heart:



laugh Masochistlaugh


God you know the way to my heart....flowerforyou



Perhaps I'll show you the time of your life....say I'll call...and won't for a week.....then show up drunk.laugh laugh laugh

Lily0923's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:24 AM

Sigh......you just never will be over me will you babe?:wink: bigsmile


Never baby, NEVER...sad sad sad sad sad sad sad

Lily0923's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:24 AM

Perhaps I'll show you the time of your life....say I'll call...and won't for a week.....then show up drunk.laugh laugh laugh


You'll call....

brooke007's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:26 AM

(Just a warning I'm going to be sensitive here for a sec)

Why when you know there is no hope to have someone, do you stay in contact with them?

They irritate you, they annoy you, but overall, you know the day will come when you won't talk to them anymore, but you carry this hope that someday.......




totally depends on the situation..
If I have "feelings" for them..I wld probably avoid contact...
but overall I dont like losing people outta my life...sometimes thats worse than never getting serious about somebody...

doesnt usually work out thataway though..
most people gotta have it one way or the other...
(me included I guess)
flowerforyou flowerforyou

Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:27 AM


Perhaps I'll show you the time of your life....say I'll call...and won't for a week.....then show up drunk.laugh laugh laugh


You'll call....



....and you'll be "washing your hair"

(because 2 can play at that game)


(for "thread's sake"....not suggesting ANYONE cares for "games")

Goofball73's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:28 AM


Sigh......you just never will be over me will you babe?:wink: bigsmile


Never baby, NEVER...sad sad sad sad sad sad sad


There can be only one!:wink:

Lily0923's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:28 AM



Perhaps I'll show you the time of your life....say I'll call...and won't for a week.....then show up drunk.laugh laugh laugh


You'll call....



....and you'll be "washing your hair"

(because 2 can play at that game)


(for "thread's sake"....not suggesting ANYONE cares for "games")


I like reindeer games.....:heart:

Lily0923's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:29 AM



Sigh......you just never will be over me will you babe?:wink: bigsmile


Never baby, NEVER...sad sad sad sad sad sad sad


There can be only one!:wink:


and you're it for me, my little f'tard.....love love

Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:31 AM



I like reindeer games.....:heart:




Then Christmas will be full of passion, joy, pain, drama, etc...


laugh Sounds par for the course for the season.drinker

missy51970's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:34 AM




I like reindeer games.....:heart:




Then Christmas will be full of passion, joy, pain, drama, etc...


laugh Sounds par for the course for the season.drinker



Isnt Christmas already all those things??frown

Lily0923's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:36 AM
It's Missy, it's Missy I'm talking about....embarassed

Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:37 AM





I like reindeer games.....:heart:




Then Christmas will be full of passion, joy, pain, drama, etc...


laugh Sounds par for the course for the season.drinker



Isnt Christmas already all those things??frown





Sorry for the lame golf metaphor (((Missy))), but yah...that's what I said.

no photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:37 AM

(Just a warning I'm going to be sensitive here for a sec)

Why when you know there is no hope to have someone, do you stay in contact with them?

They irritate you, they annoy you, but overall, you know the day will come when you won't talk to them anymore, but you carry this hope that someday.......


What I do is I say things, let's say for an example, the qualities that they are looking for in someone, I will tell them that I am the opposite of what they are looking for, and usually they will stop talking with me. flowerforyou

Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:40 AM
Strange how "I'm not what you need" is more of an enticement that detourant.

Goofball73's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:40 AM




Sigh......you just never will be over me will you babe?:wink: bigsmile


Never baby, NEVER...sad sad sad sad sad sad sad


There can be only one!:wink:


and you're it for me, my little f'tard.....love love


Ahhhhhh....so I never reached Stage 5 did I? :wink: laugh

Lily0923's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:42 AM

Ahhhhhh....so I never reached Stage 5 did I? :wink: laugh


Nope, I adore you....flowerforyou

Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 06/02/08 07:46 AM
Sucha a Playa......SO bad for me!