What kinda guy do you realllyyy want? Felon or Law abiding? Honest or
tells little white lies? Aloof or there all the time? What are the
limits an boundries? Are there any?

I think that there are boundries, but it just depends on the type of
woman she is. Some like the bad boys, others don't. I have my own
personal set of boundries, things I can live with, and things I
absolutely will not put up with. They work for me, and I don't stray
from them (usually). Granted, these rules, if you will, have left me
alone quite a bit, but I would rather be alone then be with someone who
has qualities I can't live with, because those relationships never work.

i think you have the right idea strbryblonde and i hope it works out for
you

Hello,
The kind of man I want is someone who follows the laws, who is honest,
reliable, nice, good hearted, but I also understand people make
mistakes, the main thing I am looking for is someone who learns from the
mistakes they make.
I am NOT looking for a goody goody as a lot of them have not experienced
life, If you dont fuck up here and there how do you learn to jump over
hurdles to make it a learning experience?
I like a rugged man who is all around a decent person as that is what
they get from me, Down to earth, good hearted but knows how to have fun
without being boring.

it all depends on the woman..my current g/f's ex husband was quite well
off but the money didn't make her happy or the material BS that it
bought..what DOES make her happy is the attention I give her and the way
I treat her,like the lady she is. I finally found a woman that claimed
to want a nice guy..and actually meant it.
My previous g/f said all she wanted was a nice guy..but what she really
wanted was somoene that wouldn't hit her when she acted like an
asshole...she figured a nice guy would be easier to control, well I may
be nice..but I sure ain't stupid ;-) and she was a case of: She ain't
pretty, she just looks that way

i have the same type of boundries, and again it depends on what type of
girl she is

anyone ever heard the expression, 'nice guy's finish last'?

I have to agree with strbryblonde, however I will go a step further, as
long as you are straight honest, you will never have to dodge
acqusations or remember what lies to who you have made, I learned this
lesson long ago---also I would think if you are acceptive of this
behavior, then you are allowed to also act likewise. what kind of a
relationship are you wanting? and how long will it last?
treat others like you expect to be treated, I think the laws are the
same still---an eye for an eye---could you live with only one eye? it is
your lifI want my mate to believe what I tell her, and again, likewise

I WANT A MAN WHO HAS POWER NOT SO MUCH CONTROLLING BUT A STRONG
PRESENCE,INDEPENDENCE IS IMPORTANT TO ME,I DONT WANT TO BE HIS MOM,HE
SHOULD KNOW WHAT IT TAKES TO MAKE ME HAPPY AS I SHOULD KNOW
EVERYTHING,IT MUST BE MUTUAL,HE SHOULD BE PROTECTIVE,TRUE,AND LOYAL TO
ME.AND ALOT OF TATTOOS HELPS!!

SOOO, do most woman want a guy that plays by the rules or one that makes
up his own?

i think that all depends on what the rules are

I don't know if there are any really. I think at the start each person
goes into it with a few but I think they change or evolve as time and
the relationship progress. If your mate, partner or whatever satisfies a
need in some area( this ain't just about sex) then the other is more
likely or there is at least a tendancy to give up some ground in some
other area that you might not of before.

Well sure, if he can't give me what I require to keep me interested I
would give up. I like a man to show affection, married to one that
thought that meant weakness, no need to say, he is no longer around.

See now I'm getting closer to an answer for the original question.So
maybe I shoulda said what kinda guy keeps a woman interested the most a
good guy or a not so good guy/

A good guy, why would a woman want a not so good guy.

mysterious past, excitement of a lifestyle they've never known

that works two ways though

how so?

i've met some girls that have this mental image of what a nice guy is
and they see him as weak

some women can have a mysterious side and a life men have not lived yet.
And good men are not weak.