Topic: girls and image issues
RicJL's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:17 AM




You shouldn't judge people.

I walked a marathon at 230 pounds.

Wow!!Good for uflowerforyou bigsmile flowerforyou bigsmile


Hence the user name of HikerChick, get it now? laugh


A brilliant man.

I also climbed Crazy Horse! How many people can say that?


Fenk you, fenk you. In younger days, I used to walk from the bottom of one slope of Mt. St. Helene in Montreal to the other, does that count?

lilith401's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:17 AM

Give him a break people he really needs a beautiful woman on his arn to make him look good ..cuse he has nothing on his own to do that!!


Haha LMFAO!!!!! laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

IamMewhoRU's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:17 AM


I was a heavy gurl in my teen years because of meds...It doesn't last forever and neither does the weight.LIke don't judge a book by it's cover,you shouldn't judge a person from their appearance


If he wants to judge someone for their appearance, than fine. But he shouldn't be rude about it, and he shouldn't assume he's better than other people and think he can be "picky" because of the virtues he's listed (good looking, "smart," in the marines etc.) Everyone should have to right to go after whoever they're attracted to.


<<checking bottle fer glue>>

IamMewhoRU's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:18 AM

Give him a break people he really needs a beautiful woman on his arn to make him look good ..cuse he has nothing on his own to do that!!


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

ElaineSeekingJerry's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:18 AM
I think he's already gotten more attention than he deserves! *grabs shovel and pail and stomps out of the sandbox* Come on cool kids, let's play elsewhere!

no photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:19 AM

Give him a break people he really needs a beautiful woman on his arn to make him look good ..cuse he has nothing on his own to do that!!


lollaugh laugh

xander29's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:19 AM

You just continue to get uglier and uglier with every response xander...

Who do you really think you are to need anyone to fill an application to meet/get to know you. How superficial are you???

Physical beauty is only temporary while a great heart and a great pure soul lasts forever.

We are all entitled to like different things, people, sizes, etc, however you seem to get off by belittling others. Shame! You're just showing your age and maturity lever. flowerforyou




if you think that was a serious comment i'd rather not talk to you anyways

hikerchick's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:20 AM





You shouldn't judge people.

I walked a marathon at 230 pounds.

Wow!!Good for uflowerforyou bigsmile flowerforyou bigsmile


Hence the user name of HikerChick, get it now? laugh


A brilliant man.

I also climbed Crazy Horse! How many people can say that?


Fenk you, fenk you. In younger days, I used to walk from the bottom of one slope of Mt. St. Helene in Montreal to the other, does that count?


Indeed! Let's get together and scale the heights!

seahawks's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:20 AM



i'm so hurt i think im gonna go to the head and cry lol


We can only hope potential suitors who meet your "picky" standards will read this one day.


I'm just gonna follow his ass around JSH now and make his dating life hell
laugh laugh laugh

writer_gurl's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:21 AM


I was a heavy gurl in my teen years because of meds...It doesn't last forever and neither does the weight.LIke don't judge a book by it's cover,you shouldn't judge a person from their appearance


It's not only true but it goes away....I hope that girl that you hurt turns into a super model cause eventually you will be hugging an old barrell for heat yo.......get the pic?

MY poiny exactlylaugh :tongue: laugh bigsmile

xander29's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:21 AM



i'm so hurt i think im gonna go to the head and cry lol


We can only hope potential suitors who meet your "picky" standards will read this one day.


I'm just gonna follow his ass around JSH now and make his dating life hell


i dont date anyone on here, i just talk to people and seek advice, which is what i was trying to do in this thread until people starting bashing me relentlessly.

even the moderator said we were both at fault for not being honest up front

IamMewhoRU's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:21 AM

You know all at least he is being honest and deserves and honest opinion.

We don't have to lash back and put him down just because we feel the need to protect another from what he said.

There are ways to say things to get our point over without bringing ourselves down.

He is not attacking anyone here yes he was wrong in his choice of words.

But..........wisdom comes with age, as we grow older or by asking questions and others answering hopefully maybe someone will see down the road where they were wrong and not make that same mistake.

But if we lash out at him does he learn from us nooooooo.

Why not say what one should have said and the down fall of what ones words does to another.

If we bash back all that is going to do is make him bash back then all the words are lost and no one learns from what was said.flowerforyou


you're lucky she's talking mainly about me. LOL. She knows I will blow you up in here dude. One thing on JSH that will NOT be tolerated.....MODS or not.........that kind of treatment of anyone on this site. And I'm not the only one Junior.You are gonna run into many like me.

lilith401's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:22 AM
Yes, but keep in mind you posted this thread.

You had to have known you weren't going to get a pat on the back for being mean.

no photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:23 AM
Edited by debbie1980 on Mon 05/19/08 10:24 AM
xander,

what size would you like your women to be?? out of interest??

writer_gurl's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:24 AM



i'm so hurt i think im gonna go to the head and cry lol


We can only hope potential suitors who meet your "picky" standards will read this one day.


I'm just gonna follow his ass around JSH now and make his dating life hell

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh Sounds good tome

xander29's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:24 AM


You know all at least he is being honest and deserves and honest opinion.

We don't have to lash back and put him down just because we feel the need to protect another from what he said.

There are ways to say things to get our point over without bringing ourselves down.

He is not attacking anyone here yes he was wrong in his choice of words.

But..........wisdom comes with age, as we grow older or by asking questions and others answering hopefully maybe someone will see down the road where they were wrong and not make that same mistake.

But if we lash out at him does he learn from us nooooooo.

Why not say what one should have said and the down fall of what ones words does to another.

If we bash back all that is going to do is make him bash back then all the words are lost and no one learns from what was said.flowerforyou


you're lucky she's talking mainly about me. LOL. She knows I will blow you up in here dude. One thing on JSH that will NOT be tolerated.....MODS or not.........that kind of treatment of anyone on this site. And I'm not the only one Junior.You are gonna run into many like me that will and can put you in your place and face down.


Junior? nevermind, look. i came on here looking for advice because i realized i didnt handle it well, i don't know what else i can say

IamMewhoRU's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:25 AM




i'm so hurt i think im gonna go to the head and cry lol


We can only hope potential suitors who meet your "picky" standards will read this one day.


I'm just gonna follow his ass around JSH now and make his dating life hell

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh Sounds good tome


bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile drinker drinker drinker flowerforyou

no photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:25 AM


xander,

what size would you like your women to be??


0-6 no bigger is my guess.


probably

writer_gurl's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:25 AM

xander,

what size would you like your women to be?? out of interest??

probably a twig

SweetButSpoiled's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:26 AM
The sad thing with this is that it obviously took this girl a while to share her pic. And I am sure the reason for that is because you aren't the first and certainly won't be the last to ridicule this girl for her weight. All you did was prove to her one more time that people can be cruel and shallow and more concerned with the look of a person rather than their soul.

I have a friend who is desperately working to lose weight and is a big girl herself. Sometimes it isn't as simple as eating too much. And she has been treated badly for her appearance. You could easily be in the same boat. Think about that.