Topic: girls and image issues
xander29's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:03 AM









you probably couldnt WALK 6 miles if you had the WHOLE DAY."


I am surprised you are admitting you were this horrible to another human being, this judgmental, this callous and shallow and superficial.

But then again, you are admitting it. So at least you're honest you are all those things.

Thanks for letting us know.


i suppose so, but i'm very athletic and smart + i will be a marine in a couple months from now so i think i have a right to be picky


why do you have the right to be picky?? because you will be a marine?


quite simply, yes


Oh, I see. You are better than other people.


you said it not me, but if you think marines are not held to a higher standard than anyone else on this planet, then i got 1 thing to say to you, find a new country if you hate it so much liberal


I am liberal because I don't appreciate arrogance? Ok.

I think we all have a right to be picky, not just you.


arrogance comes with the job, along with pride, discipline, and honor (and a six pack) i never said everyone doesnt have a right to be picky they do. i only implyed that if i am overly picky it shouldnt be suprising


Homie........my body will put you to shame and all the way around and I'm not a Marine...................but my cousin is.......Don't go to NC.....I have your pic now. bigsmile


I'm going to San Diego

lilith401's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:04 AM

arrogance comes with the job, along with pride, discipline, and honor (and a six pack) i never said everyone doesnt have a right to be picky they do. i only implyed that if i am overly picky it shouldnt be suprising


Arrogance comes with fear, ignorance, and an erroneous self-inflated view of yourself. Conceit is always false.

If you are overly picky it is because you are shallow, narrow minded, and superficial.

So tell me, what if you go into battle and your face gets scarred? And women tell you you are not their "type"? Or you get hit with mortar and lose a leg? And sitting in bed you gain weight. And then some woman says, oh, you are not my "type".... I don't date heavy guys.

no photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:04 AM







you probably couldnt WALK 6 miles if you had the WHOLE DAY."


I am surprised you are admitting you were this horrible to another human being, this judgmental, this callous and shallow and superficial.

But then again, you are admitting it. So at least you're honest you are all those things.

Thanks for letting us know.


i suppose so, but i'm very athletic and smart + i will be a marine in a couple months from now so i think i have a right to be picky


why do you have the right to be picky?? because you will be a marine?


quite simply, yes


you're an idiot dude. You have no morals or nothing inside. It doesn't matter really because with her 250 lbs....she will always be more beautiful and a better person than you. Would you like me to say everything that is wrong with you? Cause we haven't got all day........or screen room. I think that using this thread to boast up your image or get women........can you say backfire like a 1973 Gremlin? Speaking of....ya know....I see some Stripe in you.......anyways, I didn't think so....and by the way GQ wanna be.......you more like BO and you need to move on. She is better without you and so would the rest of the world. You are a disgrace to men and its guys like you that ruin it fer guys like me and every other "real" man out there. Play on Playboy.......cause sooner or later the player gets played. you just got played......."Play ball.............."


well said happy


bigsmile flowerforyou
Thanks


flowerforyou flowerforyou

IamMewhoRU's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:04 AM


Yeah, you're really such a jerk

All the good looking ones are


huh sad sad sad sad sad

hikerchick's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:04 AM



You think that's bad, try getting told that you were liked before posting your pic. lmao


ouch noway
I look at it as like this. People like that are just making it easier for me to kill the weeds. :wink:


How true. You wouldn't want to waste time like that anyway.

hikerchick's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:05 AM



You shouldn't judge people.

I walked a marathon at 230 pounds.

Wow!!Good for uflowerforyou bigsmile flowerforyou bigsmile


Hence the user name of HikerChick, get it now? laugh


A brilliant man.

I also climbed Crazy Horse! How many people can say that?

IamMewhoRU's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:05 AM










you probably couldnt WALK 6 miles if you had the WHOLE DAY."


I am surprised you are admitting you were this horrible to another human being, this judgmental, this callous and shallow and superficial.

But then again, you are admitting it. So at least you're honest you are all those things.

Thanks for letting us know.


i suppose so, but i'm very athletic and smart + i will be a marine in a couple months from now so i think i have a right to be picky


why do you have the right to be picky?? because you will be a marine?


quite simply, yes


Oh, I see. You are better than other people.


you said it not me, but if you think marines are not held to a higher standard than anyone else on this planet, then i got 1 thing to say to you, find a new country if you hate it so much liberal


I am liberal because I don't appreciate arrogance? Ok.

I think we all have a right to be picky, not just you.


arrogance comes with the job, along with pride, discipline, and honor (and a six pack) i never said everyone doesnt have a right to be picky they do. i only implyed that if i am overly picky it shouldnt be suprising


Homie........my body will put you to shame and all the way around and I'm not a Marine...................but my cousin is.......Don't go to NC.....I have your pic now. bigsmile


I'm going to San Diego


Many friends at camp Pendelton too my man. LOL. Best of luck now.

ElaineSeekingJerry's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:06 AM


arrogance comes with the job, along with pride, discipline, and honor (and a six pack) i never said everyone doesnt have a right to be picky they do. i only implyed that if i am overly picky it shouldnt be suprising


Arrogance comes with fear, ignorance, and an erroneous self-inflated view of yourself. Conceit is always false.

If you are overly picky it is because you are shallow, narrow minded, and superficial.

So tell me, what if you go into battle and your face gets scarred? And women tell you you are not their "type"? Or you get hit with mortar and lose a leg? And sitting in bed you gain weight. And then some woman says, oh, you are not my "type".... I don't date heavy guys.


BRILLIANT, Lilith ... he'll completely miss the point, but it was the perfect reply! drinker

missy51970's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:06 AM


arrogance comes with the job, along with pride, discipline, and honor (and a six pack) i never said everyone doesnt have a right to be picky they do. i only implyed that if i am overly picky it shouldnt be suprising


Arrogance comes with fear, ignorance, and an erroneous self-inflated view of yourself. Conceit is always false.

If you are overly picky it is because you are shallow, narrow minded, and superficial.

So tell me, what if you go into battle and your face gets scarred? And women tell you you are not their "type"? Or you get hit with mortar and lose a leg? And sitting in bed you gain weight. And then some woman says, oh, you are not my "type".... I don't date heavy guys.


Lilith.. well said my love well said... KARMAs a ***** !!!

auburngirl's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:07 AM
Don't put so much emphasis on that pretty face. You could be injured in a car accident, injured, not killed, and it be gone tomorrow. Then how would you feel when someone wouldn't take the time to get to know you for YOU?

writer_gurl's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:07 AM



Yeah, you're really such a jerk

All the good looking ones are


huh sad sad sad sad sad

I didn't mean you...I meant you know who

lilith401's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:07 AM

BRILLIANT, Lilith ... he'll completely miss the point, but it was the perfect reply! drinker


Thank you, Elaine....blushing bigsmile

no photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:07 AM


And the fact it was her meds thats caused the weight gain, you should have been more understanding. you are a jerk!!


im so sure it was noway


so are you saying it WASNT her meds that cause weight gain?? if so how do you know???

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:08 AM
Humm okay my opinion on the situation.

Yeah you were honest but a bit brutal.grumble

Where did you mess up right from the very beginning by not being honest what your looking for.noway

We all have that right to have a preference, some say it is what is within. To a degree I will agree with that but...if there is not an attraction with the one you're looking at then most want take the time to see what is within.noway

To some of us weight is not an issue maybe it is their teeth or their manners or their reactions to problems. What ever it is we all have our own standards.flowerforyou

Problem is the way we handle situations as this. If you were honest up front by saying what you wanted and next time tell them to produce a picture first or see them on cam so you can see them first hand.

Not saying that is shallow just that you want to see whom you're talking to first.happy

I can't blame you for not wanting someone overweight if you're into fitness. That is your choice and whom you have to deal with. If a person does not look good within your eyes it will never work.noway

Yeah I'm a full figured woman and have been passed by due to my weight. Have I always been this size Hummm no age and letting it catch up with me had a lot to do with it and a few medical issues in the past.

But I would rather someone pass me up then stay with me and try to change me. For that is something I must do not someone else. I'm very aware of my weight and don't need anyone to remind me. But I don't need pity either. For I'm a whole lot more of a person within if only one could see past my weight. bigsmile

So with that said I would say be more honest up front that way down the road things don't get so complicated.noway

Myself that is the reason I put up a full body shot of me that way if my size bothers them they will not even bother to e-mail me instead they will pass me up. So in reality she was not being honest either the way I see it. noway

Honesty is the best policy!!bigsmile

missy51970's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:08 AM


And the fact it was her meds thats caused the weight gain, you should have been more understanding. you are a jerk!!


im so sure it was noway



And youre so sure it wasnt..

you said you were smart... when do we get to see that side of you??

Just curious is all !! Think Ill take my chubby ass and go get a burrito!!! Im starving!!! Anyone else hungry?

writer_gurl's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:08 AM




You shouldn't judge people.

I walked a marathon at 230 pounds.

Wow!!Good for uflowerforyou bigsmile flowerforyou bigsmile


Hence the user name of HikerChick, get it now? laugh
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A brilliant man.

I also climbed Crazy Horse! How many people can say that?

Still not manybigsmile flowerforyou bigsmile

xander29's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:09 AM



arrogance comes with the job, along with pride, discipline, and honor (and a six pack) i never said everyone doesnt have a right to be picky they do. i only implyed that if i am overly picky it shouldnt be suprising


If you are overly picky it is because you are shallow, narrow minded, and superficial.



shallow... probably
superficial... maybe
narrow minded... i dont think so


besides if she was so honest why didnt she tell me about her weight the whole time we were talking? you people are making a commoner into a saint

IamMewhoRU's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:09 AM



And the fact it was her meds thats caused the weight gain, you should have been more understanding. you are a jerk!!


im so sure it was noway



And youre so sure it wasnt..

you said you were smart... when do we get to see that side of you??

Just curious is all !! Think Ill take my chubby ass and go get a burrito!!! Im starving!!! Anyone else hungry?


flowerforyou bigsmile drinker MEEEEEEEE!!!!

no photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:10 AM




arrogance comes with the job, along with pride, discipline, and honor (and a six pack) i never said everyone doesnt have a right to be picky they do. i only implyed that if i am overly picky it shouldnt be suprising


If you are overly picky it is because you are shallow, narrow minded, and superficial.



shallow... probably
superficial... maybe
narrow minded... i dont think so


besides if she was so honest why didnt she tell me about her weight the whole time we were talking? you people are making a commoner into a saint


why didnt YOU ask her, if its such a big issue??

hikerchick's photo
Mon 05/19/08 10:10 AM
As a heavy woman, all I can say is that I am grateful for the men who take the time to look inside and see the real me, and define my worth in terms of my character, and not my weight.

I know some tricks I could blow your mind with!!!:tongue: