is it that no matter how nice I am or how much I do for someone..... I always end up alone? This bites!!

maybe you're too nice, dunno though. When you find the right one, things will work out!

ah sorry to hear about that. I guess you shouldn't expect too much and maybe just simply enjoy life's pleasures

Stop being so nice and letting others take advantage of your goodness (kindness).. you'll find you're respected a whole lot more.. yet it still takes time to find someone who appreciates such characteristics.

when u get the answer let me know cause i ask myself the same question

that's why they have bit*h classes...jk....after awhile you get really sick of being a door mat so you have to toughen up.

Luck of the draw I suppose.

I might me too nice I dunno.... try to be everything for a special someone

Hmmm.. you just stated (you try to be everything) for a special someone..
Why don't you just try being "yourself" and allow others to befriend and commit to the real you You shouldn't have to try to impress someone and/or to do things to keep them around.. it's a wonder why you're asking this question.

Good point thanks!

If you were mean and selfish, you'd always be alone.

Sometimes when your nice and giving, people try to take advantage.

Finding the one who truly appreciates you for who you are and what you have to give...priceless.

sorry that stinks


maybe not try so hard....men like the pursuit

wow! pick me! pick me ! i need nice in my life.hang in there what goes around comes around, hope all your good comes back to you.

sometimes being a b!tch is the only thing a woman has to hold on to.

Because you are not meeting the right guy. If you are really committed to someone, and it doesn't work out, it's because for whatever reason you and them = no.

You seem like a really nice person . Yet... I can say that smoking would be a reason why I would say no. Probably the guys had their own reasons. You'll find someone great, just keep looking and be yourself!

Speaking as a fella who's often made the mistake of being overly nice to the opposite sex (especially in a dating situation), I can say that I've often failed in my dating attempts as well.

So there are two avenues to take as far as this is concerned-

- Keep being nice and maybe... JUST maybe... you'll find THAT person.

or

- STOP being nice and start treating everyone poorly. You'll probably get the attention of those with lowered self-esteem, but you probably will get a date in a sooner frame of time.

drink beer and forget about it

God i know the feeling all too well but it seems to be as they say nice guys finish last or in your case nice girls

This is typical, we that trust leave ourselves open to be hurt.

Its hard sometimes to find someone that really understands who you really are, and what your about. Just take it slow, and pace your good deeds, so you dont feel like your wasting you Beautiful Heart Good Luck