Topic: Why.....
mzrightkris's photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:29 PM
Thanks for the advise..... I 'm gonna try being tougher, maybe itll help me find someone that wants me for me, we'll see how that goes....

Lily0923's photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:29 PM
Get the book "Why men love b*tches" it will change your world.

Robm248's photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:29 PM


is it that no matter how nice I am or how much I do for someone..... I always end up alone? This bites!!


Speaking as a fella who's often made the mistake of being overly nice to the opposite sex (especially in a dating situation), I can say that I've often failed in my dating attempts as well.

So there are two avenues to take as far as this is concerned-

- Keep being nice and maybe... JUST maybe... you'll find THAT person.

or

- STOP being nice and start treating everyone poorly. You'll probably get the attention of those with lowered self-esteem, but you probably will get a date in a sooner frame of time.


Or: BE YOURSELF. If they like you fine, if they don't it's their problem.

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Sun 05/18/08 07:30 PM
grumble




Get the book "Why men love b*tches" it will change your world.

Lily0923's photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:31 PM

grumble




Get the book "Why men love b*tches" it will change your world.



Don't grumble, worked for me... I'm not a doormat anymore....

briancarr's photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:32 PM

sometimes being a b!tch is the only thing a woman has to hold on to.
That and the empty space next to her at nighthappy

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Sun 05/18/08 07:32 PM

i can see where it could help....have read parts of it....

i, just, like 'em sweet...ohwell



grumble




Get the book "Why men love b*tches" it will change your world.



Don't grumble, worked for me... I'm not a doormat anymore....

Lily0923's photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:33 PM


i can see where it could help....have read parts of it....

i, just, like 'em sweet...ohwell



grumble




Get the book "Why men love b*tches" it will change your world.



Don't grumble, worked for me... I'm not a doormat anymore....



I'm sugar darlin' but I learned who gets the sugar and who gets the sh*t.....

no photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:34 PM

is it that no matter how nice I am or how much I do for someone..... I always end up alone? This bites!!
:heart: You might be picking the guys who will only do that to you?
Or you might be so giving they feel your to easy going and they feel they can walk all over you,,and so they do?
Or you might just be like the rest of us nice people and get used because YOU let it happen.lol
Being nice is the way I will die, and though I feel some women have used me and just played me..It won't change me as to my being nice is ME, and no one will change that nor take that out of me..so BE YOU, and real love will find your heart in another person.:heart: :wink: flowerforyou
Just don't feel YOU need to change from being nice because a few jerks have used you,wink,..:heart: :wink:

May777's photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:35 PM

I might me too nice I dunno.... try to be everything for a special someone



more important to just be yourself,..to try and be something else why ? what do you want in return ?

May777's photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:36 PM

Get the book "Why men love b*tches" it will change your world.


I hated that book !!! grumble

Lily0923's photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:36 PM


Get the book "Why men love b*tches" it will change your world.


I hated that book !!! grumble


Why???????

Robm248's photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:38 PM



i can see where it could help....have read parts of it....

i, just, like 'em sweet...ohwell



grumble




Get the book "Why men love b*tches" it will change your world.



Don't grumble, worked for me... I'm not a doormat anymore....



I'm sugar darlin' but I learned who gets the sugar and who gets the sh*t.....


Doormat = turnoff. Be self-confident, and deal with people fairly = turnon. laugh
Be a jerk to people = turnoff. Telling off a jerk = turnon.
:smile: laugh :smile:

briancarr's photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:40 PM

Get the book "Why men love b*tches" it will change your world.
Its so much fun to break B*tches down, and then get rid of themhuh This way its out of your system when you meet a nice womanflowerforyou

May777's photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:40 PM



Get the book "Why men love b*tches" it will change your world.


I hated that book !!! grumble


Why???????


made my situation worse,..sad

no photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:42 PM
I'll tell you one thing no man will ever understand me devil devil laugh laugh laugh



I have more sides to me than a rubiks cube laugh laugh laugh

Lily0923's photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:42 PM




Get the book "Why men love b*tches" it will change your world.


I hated that book !!! grumble


Why???????


made my situation worse,..sad


How?

Lily0923's photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:43 PM


Get the book "Why men love b*tches" it will change your world.
Its so much fun to break B*tches down, and then get rid of themhuh This way its out of your system when you meet a nice womanflowerforyou


Awe, are you a "nice" guy????

Lily0923's photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:45 PM

I'll tell you one thing no man will ever understand me devil devil laugh laugh laugh



I have more sides to me than a rubiks cube laugh laugh laugh


Usually people who say that are pretty easy to figure out.

Robm248's photo
Sun 05/18/08 07:47 PM



Get the book "Why men love b*tches" it will change your world.
Its so much fun to break B*tches down, and then get rid of themhuh This way its out of your system when you meet a nice womanflowerforyou


Awe, are you a "nice" guy????


I am if you don't upset me. "You won't like me when I am angry."laugh No, really... I'm generally a really nice guy unless you do something really bad!