To a B*tch, only long enough to strip the layers off. Nice Guy's shouldnt have to pay for some other guy screwing a Woman over.

Well let me give you a hint, being a b*tch, keeps away the "nice" guys, cuz self proclaimed "nice" guys, are never all that "nice"

Ah, Lily, you wound me. I do so try...

You added the "warning label" that excuses you from the "nice" guy catagory.

How?


tryin to be something I wasn`t -- I felt like I was playin games

Two things I've learned:

1) NEVER think being nice to someone who isn't nice to you will make them later become nice to you.

My biggest mistakes in dating would be meeting women who start off as cool and great, but then turn into either royal headcases or snobby princesses. So now they are not treating me as well as I would treat them...usually being wishy-washy and then later flaking out on me/blowing me off for some new guy.

What was my mistake? Sticking around when she "changed". I learned that it's ok to drop something, even when it's only been a few weeks and the "decent person" suddenly changes into the "bad person". Look out for yourself first.


2) Be patient. Rome wasn't built in a day, and a good mate doesn't come easily. I heard from an "expert" the other day how we will work our tails off for that job promotion, or work hard in the gym to look good, but we won't work hard for love. We tend to think it's all supposed to come easily, naturally, and instantaneously.

You're going to meet some bad apples. Eventually you will meet a good one and then it comes down to both of you working at it to make it a strong relationship.

Simple. Some dudes are vultures who swoop in for what they want, get it, and then fly away. Guys who are like this prey on nice people. Sad world we live in, but it is true. Now, women who do this are called Succubuses. They will drain you dry (in a bad way....not the good way that all us guys want).