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Topic: If someone lied
beachbum069 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 14325	Mon 05/12/08 06:04 AM
Yes, cuz I'm actually a 400 lb man in my mom's basement... I figured i'd spill it now. Then I'm definitely wearing the long gloves.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 05/12/08 06:18 AM
EXCATLY what I'm saying Lily and Lilith I beleive people take advantage of the core,,and the "pure" unconditional love. They KNOW they are not being totally honest, but TRUST us to BELEIVE in them. Most of the times it turns out,,,thats different than beleiving them Which is PRECISELY why there are single sites like JSH Exactly! So glad you're with me here....I'm a believer at this point of only believing what can be verified. Sad but true, and my unconditional trusting skills are are on probation.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 05/12/08 06:21 AM
Exactly! So glad you're with me here....I'm a believer at this point of only believing what can be verified. Sad but true, and my unconditional trusting skills are are on probation. OMG can I be your Jimminie Cricket? I would be so good at that. I wanted to be Paris Hilton's Jimminie Cricket, that girl needs one bad.

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Mon 05/12/08 06:22 AM
well there is always a level of trust given upon meeting some one and that trust can either grow or deminish depending upon actions of the individual

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 05/12/08 06:23 AM
well there is always a level of trust given upon meeting some one and that trust can either grow or deminish depending upon actions of the individual Wow that deserves some lasagna... I hear Olive Garden has great lasagna....

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 05/12/08 06:24 AM Edited by lilith401 on Mon 05/12/08 06:30 AM
Lily~ I bet you'd look darling in a top hat and cane, surely you can be my Jiminy Cricket! Caam... of course. The issue is that you want to believe, to trust, and at times little flags can add up and then you are wrapped up in red and everyone else saw it but you.

beachbum069 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 14325	Mon 05/12/08 06:25 AM
EXCATLY what I'm saying Lily and Lilith I beleive people take advantage of the core,,and the "pure" unconditional love. They KNOW they are not being totally honest, but TRUST us to BELEIVE in them. Most of the times it turns out,,,thats different than beleiving them Which is PRECISELY why there are single sites like JSH Exactly! So glad you're with me here....I'm a believer at this point of only believing what can be verified. Sad but true, and my unconditional trusting skills are are on probation. My 1st date since my divorce goes like this: 1.I drive 1.5 hours to meet her because she doesn't like to drive-she actually has no car 2.I look into the place where we are suppose to meet and don't see her-she's sitting right in front of me and I don't notice since her picture was about 10 years old. 3.She talks about her college degrees(a Masters and 2 bachelors) and everything-she is a secretary for an insurance company. 4.She talks about her son-her profile said she had no kids. 5.She talks about her weight loss-her profile said average body-she had to weigh at least 240 and is only 5'3" I could go on and on, but lets just sayit's our only date.

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Mon 05/12/08 06:26 AM
well there is always a level of trust given upon meeting some one and that trust can either grow or deminish depending upon actions of the individual Wow that deserves some lasagna... I hear Olive Garden has great lasagna.... Fezzolie's is better

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 05/12/08 06:28 AM
well there is always a level of trust given upon meeting some one and that trust can either grow or deminish depending upon actions of the individual Wow that deserves some lasagna... I hear Olive Garden has great lasagna.... Fezzolie's is better Ya, they closed the one by me....

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Mon 05/12/08 06:29 AM
Lily~ I bet you'd look darling in a top hat and cane, surely you can be my Jiminy Cricket! Caam... of course. The issue is that you want to believe, to trust, and at times little flags can add up and then so you you're wrapped up in red and everyone else saw it but you. I supose but I sit there and evaluate everything when a person speak's with me. I try to listen closely and understand. Cause has Lily's earlier thread about get a sign really I am pretty clueless in real life about hiden agenda's so I don't hesitate to ask for a sentence to be clarified. Just for that reason. and 9 time out of 10 they are found out

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 05/12/08 06:31 AM
Lily~ I bet you'd look darling in a top hat and cane, surely you can be my Jiminy Cricket! Caam... of course. The issue is that you want to believe, to trust, and at times little flags can add up and then so you you're wrapped up in red and everyone else saw it but you. I supose but I sit there and evaluate everything when a person speak's with me. I try to listen closely and understand. Cause has Lily's earlier thread about get a sign really I am pretty clueless in real life about hiden agenda's so I don't hesitate to ask for a sentence to be clarified. Just for that reason. and 9 time out of 10 they are found out Don't ever call yourself thick skulled again... Most of what people say is in what they don't actually speak.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 05/12/08 06:32 AM
Lily I love you in that hat!

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 05/12/08 06:33 AM
Lily I love you in that hat! I'm so sexy huh?

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Mon 05/12/08 06:38 AM
well Lilly I do believe that and I can judge facial expressions and body movement well but the problem here is i can not see either I mean has some of us post alot we can tell who is always serious and whom clowns around and through that we can interpet ones post but with out any other interactions it is tough and hell someone can tell me you are the president/CEO of some huge corporation but more than likely I will not meet them

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 05/12/08 06:38 AM
Uh huh.... Beachbum.... I am not really surprised. I had a guy tell me about the restraining orders he had on him in the past once he found out I worked in the court system, and talked about how the women were crazy. It was the only date.

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Mon 05/12/08 06:39 AM
so let them be what they want

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Mon 05/12/08 06:40 AM
Uh huh.... Beachbum.... I am not really surprised. I had a guy tell me about the restraining orders he had on him in the past once he found out I worked in the court system, and talked about how the women were crazy. It was the only date. Lilith you promiced not to tell on me

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 05/12/08 06:41 AM
well Lilly I do believe that and I can judge facial expressions and body movement well but the problem here is i can not see either I mean has some of us post alot we can tell who is always serious and whom clowns around and through that we can interpet ones post but with out any other interactions it is tough and hell someone can tell me you are the president/CEO of some huge corporation but more than likely I will not meet them I'm the Queen of Egypt.

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Mon 05/12/08 06:44 AM
Egypt?????? cool beans did the Nile ever turn back to blue after it was turned red

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 05/12/08 06:46 AM
Egypt?????? cool beans did the Nile ever turn back to blue after it was turned red uhm ,uh, uhm, uh...this is how people get found out huh?