Topic: Friends with "benefits"
DebbieJT's photo
Sun 05/11/08 08:48 AM


i have one it sits in a draw by my bed


most of us have them too... but they just dont cuddle the same bigsmile
i have the man for that hun..unfortunatley only get to see him every couple of weeks.boo hoo...not for long though i hope...and yeh like the cuddles toobigsmile

irad8you's photo
Sun 05/11/08 08:48 AM

Friends with benefits are pretty cool..no strings..
what are you doing next friday? laugh

DebbieJT's photo
Sun 05/11/08 08:49 AM


i have one it sits in a draw by my bed

Debbs shockinglaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
:tongue: laugh laugh

Derekkye's photo
Sun 05/11/08 08:49 AM


I think if you give into having sex with friends that you somehow forsake love, and love eludes you ??

Is that better No1slove? :smile:
laugh laugh laugh laugh
Ummm...thanks for breakin' that down for me babe! Smartazz! laugh :tongue:


Just call me No1s - hope I don't have to break this one down. :smile: flowerforyou

Jim519's photo
Sun 05/11/08 08:51 AM
Edited by Jim519 on Sun 05/11/08 08:51 AM
It has to be a mutual understanding between both parties

If not it will never work obviously...With mine I have not gotten attached to her or jealous of her actions, and vice versa

It just is what it is

DebbieJT's photo
Sun 05/11/08 08:52 AM

It has to be a mutual understanding between both parties

If not it will never work obviously...With mine I have not gotten attached to her or jealous of her actions, and vice versa

It just is what it is
thats cool does she like the van lol:tongue: laugh

irad8you's photo
Sun 05/11/08 08:52 AM


It has to be a mutual understanding between both parties

If not it will never work obviously...With mine I have not gotten attached to her or jealous of her actions, and vice versa

It just is what it is
thats cool does she like the van lol:tongue: laugh
laugh

Jim519's photo
Sun 05/11/08 08:52 AM
laugh laugh Yes...she loves the A/C as well!



It has to be a mutual understanding between both parties

If not it will never work obviously...With mine I have not gotten attached to her or jealous of her actions, and vice versa

It just is what it is
thats cool does she like the van lol:tongue: laugh

DebbieJT's photo
Sun 05/11/08 08:53 AM

laugh laugh Yes...she loves the A/C as well!



It has to be a mutual understanding between both parties

If not it will never work obviously...With mine I have not gotten attached to her or jealous of her actions, and vice versa

It just is what it is
thats cool does she like the van lol:tongue: laugh

thats cool as long as she doesnt get to nipply hun:tongue: laugh

Jim519's photo
Sun 05/11/08 08:54 AM


laugh laugh Yes...she loves the A/C as well!



It has to be a mutual understanding between both parties

If not it will never work obviously...With mine I have not gotten attached to her or jealous of her actions, and vice versa

It just is what it is
thats cool does she like the van lol:tongue: laugh

thats cool as long as she doesnt get to nipply hun:tongue: laugh



Heck! Thats the best part!

DebbieJT's photo
Sun 05/11/08 08:55 AM



laugh laugh Yes...she loves the A/C as well!



It has to be a mutual understanding between both parties

If not it will never work obviously...With mine I have not gotten attached to her or jealous of her actions, and vice versa

It just is what it is
thats cool does she like the van lol:tongue: laugh

thats cool as long as she doesnt get to nipply hun:tongue: laugh



Heck! Thats the best part!
lol i was waiting for that laugh laugh

No1sLove's photo
Sun 05/11/08 08:55 AM



I think if you give into having sex with friends that you somehow forsake love, and love eludes you ??

Is that better No1slove? :smile:
laugh laugh laugh laugh
Ummm...thanks for breakin' that down for me babe! Smartazz! laugh :tongue:


Just call me No1s - hope I don't have to break this one down. :smile: flowerforyou
bigsmile is all I can say to that!

BTW...just reported this by a slip of the mouse...oops! Is the sky going to open now? Ok, I was really reporting you for being so adorable...hey, someone had to do it! laugh

LookinForSparks's photo
Sun 05/11/08 08:59 AM
I was burned pretty badly and deceived on a huge scale in my last two attempts at a relationship and there is no way I could give all of my heart or all of my trust to ANY woman right now which is required for a real relationship, so I am actually looking for a friends with benefits type of situation right now and see nothing wrong with that as long as it's open and honest and both people wants that! That's way better than me acting like I could be in a real relationship when I know damn good and well I can't right now!

bastet126's photo
Sun 05/11/08 09:02 AM

I was burned pretty badly and deceived on a huge scale in my last two attempts at a relationship and there is no way I could give all of my heart or all of my trust to ANY woman right now which is required for a real relationship, so I am actually looking for a friends with benefits type of situation right now and see nothing wrong with that as long as it's open and honest and both people wants that! That's way better than me acting like I could be in a real relationship when I know damn good and well I can't right now!


is there a bottom 1/2 to that pic??!! love blushing :tongue:

Sexyklp4U's photo
Sun 05/11/08 09:03 AM
all friends w/bennies does is hurtbrokenheart the last couple of guys i dated only wanted to be friends and i felt deeper for them..they didnt feel the same.. so all it does is hurtnoway

thats y i wont do that againnoway laugh

Silntstrnger's photo
Sun 05/11/08 09:04 AM
dang maybe that is that i am doing wrong..lol

no photo
Sun 05/11/08 09:06 AM

Fridge benefits?

She going to store my beer for me?


exactly---smokin

franshade's photo
Sun 05/11/08 09:07 AM

It has to be a mutual understanding between both parties

If not it will never work obviously...With mine I have not gotten attached to her or jealous of her actions, and vice versa

It just is what it is

wtg Jim :wink:

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 05/11/08 09:08 AM
I wish I could do that but I get too emotionally invested in the person and honestly don't enjoy it much if I'm not.

As you say Jim it is what it is. :wink:

Jim519's photo
Sun 05/11/08 09:09 AM


It has to be a mutual understanding between both parties

If not it will never work obviously...With mine I have not gotten attached to her or jealous of her actions, and vice versa

It just is what it is

wtg Jim :wink:



Franflowerforyou