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Topic: Friends with "benefits"
LookinForSparks's photo
Sun 05/11/08 10:05 AM
There's even one pic on my profile that is a salute pic I took for a site called Fubar and it has the date on the sign in case ya think I'm fibbing about the pics being recent.... I'm not... they are all recent, I hate it when folks post old pics of them selves on line..... hell if you ever meet anyone, they are going to see what you really look like anyway, so why deceive anyone that way, know what I mean?

buttons's photo
Sun 05/11/08 10:08 AM
Edited by buttons on Sun 05/11/08 10:09 AM
oh know what ya mean happened to me before... his pic was 10 yrs old or more!!! unreal fit his azz personality toolaugh laugh mine are between 4 months old and a yr.... the most recent are the blurry ones with the bad hair daylaugh laugh they got ruined from me transfering them...grumble grumble time for new pics for meflowerforyou other than my baby pics that islaugh laugh and the xmas one i was 5 there

DebbieJT's photo
Sun 05/11/08 10:09 AM
it is silly to post old photos agrred..mine are all tecent some just a few weeks old...cant see the point of fibbing

LookinForSparks's photo
Sun 05/11/08 10:10 AM
Too bad you're so far away, I'd take some pics of ya in person!

Not sure we could post all that I'd wanna take on here, but bet it would be fun taking them anyway... lol

buttons's photo
Sun 05/11/08 10:15 AM

Too bad you're so far away, I'd take some pics of ya in person!

Not sure we could post all that I'd wanna take on here, but bet it would be fun taking them anyway... lol
noway noway noway laugh laugh im sure u meant..... that it holds only 18!laugh laugh

LookinForSparks's photo
Sun 05/11/08 10:20 AM


Too bad you're so far away, I'd take some pics of ya in person!

Not sure we could post all that I'd wanna take on here, but bet it would be fun taking them anyway... lol
noway noway noway laugh laugh im sure u meant..... that it holds only 18!laugh laugh


Yeah, of course, what else could I have possibly meant? lmfao!

DebbieJT's photo
Sun 05/11/08 10:23 AM



Too bad you're so far away, I'd take some pics of ya in person!

Not sure we could post all that I'd wanna take on here, but bet it would be fun taking them anyway... lol
noway noway noway laugh laugh im sure u meant..... that it holds only 18!laugh laugh


Yeah, of course, what else could I have possibly meant? lmfao!
those pigs are sure flying today hunlaugh laugh

buttons's photo
Sun 05/11/08 10:29 AM
laugh laugh

christyc's photo
Sun 05/11/08 10:29 AM

Not a good idea (except fridge benefits) - what do you think?

I think friends should not take each others clothes off.


I agree. But I have heard that there can be but it is not a good idea to have a friend in benefit if you romantically like them and they don't feel the same. That just makes cause for more pain, plus if they are both romantically in love then they need to decide to be a couple or split (not on the verge of staying friends, that is just kind of messed up.)

LookinForSparks's photo
Sun 05/11/08 10:41 AM


Not a good idea (except fridge benefits) - what do you think?

I think friends should not take each others clothes off.


I agree. But I have heard that there can be but it is not a good idea to have a friend in benefit if you romantically like them and they don't feel the same. That just makes cause for more pain, plus if they are both romantically in love then they need to decide to be a couple or split (not on the verge of staying friends, that is just kind of messed up.)


I agree that if you both aren't on an equal level about the feelings for each other the friends with benefits things won't work, but several years ago I had this kind of situation and it actually worked great for both of us, we had a great time together when we did spend time together, yet neither of us tried to dictate or control the other in any way.... we did have great "feeling" for each other, so it wasn't JUST sex.... yet it left us both the freedom we both wanted and needed at that time. And it lasted for a while until she was ready to find something different and we parted that relationship on very good terms and remain great friends even today, even though she now is in a relationship with another guy.... we just don't share the sex part any more.... but from that experience, I know it can work!

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 05/12/08 05:11 AM
The top 3 takin on my profile were in the past 3 days .. this one yesterday. Guess that's recent enough eh? laugh laugh

Deb, Buttons you 2 do look great as well flowerforyou

beachbum069's photo
Mon 05/12/08 05:22 AM
My new picture was taken on Mothers Day, my oldest only a cople months ago. Unfortunately the only difference between the pictures is my hairline. Friends with benefits is OK if both parties agree on the priniciples. If one of them wants more then it'll never work.

tearsofblood666's photo
Mon 05/12/08 05:38 AM
Friends are "friends".
There's the line on the sand drawn right there.

I don't wanna sleep with my friends and I don;t like people who do that.
Sick assholes.

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 05/12/08 05:44 AM
Well I think referring to them as sick a-holes is a bit over the top hon .. but I could never sleep with someone I didn't have an attraction to, and they wouldn't be just a friend if I was attracted.

ohwell

Jtevans's photo
Mon 05/12/08 05:50 AM

Not a good idea (except fridge benefits) - what do you think?

I think friends should not take each others clothes off.



uhh no especially if it's guy friends noway noway noway

no photo
Mon 05/12/08 05:54 AM

The top 3 takin on my profile were in the past 3 days .. this one yesterday. Guess that's recent enough eh? laugh laugh

Deb, Buttons you 2 do look great as well flowerforyou

Nice pics Fade.
No F**k buddies or friends with Benifits here.

no photo
Mon 05/12/08 07:31 AM
I had a relationship Like that for 2 years and it was great we understood where stood, I can see where it might not work for everyone!!

Vegasman27's photo
Mon 05/12/08 07:56 AM
i think in the past and now of day's there's been some people i'd like to see in the nude , but there to much of a friend to me.

s1owhand's photo
Mon 05/12/08 09:36 AM

Not a good idea (except fridge benefits) - what do you think?

I think friends should not take each others clothes off.


:wink:

I think ONLY friends should take each others clothes off! drinker
of course, that's takin it to a whole new level bigsmile

laugh
drinker

no photo
Mon 05/12/08 09:42 AM
I think the strongest relationships start as friends, but Ive also seen awsome friendships fall apart because of sex...
its all in the communication..I have an intimate friend..its great, we keep it real and its wonderful.

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