Topic: What does it take?
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Sat 05/10/08 10:21 AM

the whole distance issue...it's more like a safety cussion...




...look at it this way...if there's really something there...distance won't matter
drinker drinker drinker

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Sat 05/10/08 10:21 AM

the whole distance issue...it's more like a safety cussion...




...look at it this way...if there's really something there...distance won't matter


But I disagree. The distance does matter. It makes the logistics daunting at the least and in some cases next to impossible.

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Sat 05/10/08 10:25 AM


the whole distance issue...it's more like a safety cussion...




...look at it this way...if there's really something there...distance won't matter


But I disagree. The distance does matter. It makes the logistics daunting at the least and in some cases next to impossible.




poo...:tongue:


yeah, uhm...i perceive distance differently i guess...i crossed an ocean to get here...lol

JMO

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Sat 05/10/08 10:25 AM
distance is a tremendous issue.
When one is not in a position to relocate for some undeterimined amount of time.
I have met a couple of really sweet ladies on JSh.
Have I attempted anything beyond friendship with them?? NO
why set each other up for disappointment when you are thousands of miles away from each other.
I have seen enough people on here get hurt like that already.
JMO smokin

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Sat 05/10/08 10:27 AM



the whole distance issue...it's more like a safety cussion...




...look at it this way...if there's really something there...distance won't matter


But I disagree. The distance does matter. It makes the logistics daunting at the least and in some cases next to impossible.




poo...:tongue:


yeah, uhm...i perceive distance differently i guess...i crossed an ocean to get here...lol

JMO



You are making me think of that song...

Ain't no mountain high
Ain't no valley low
lalalalalala

floh's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:29 AM


the whole distance issue...it's more like a safety cussion...




...look at it this way...if there's really something there...distance won't matter


But you need to touch someone sometime. Distance is an issue when it gets past the online attraction and you cant know without meeting in person. Ive been there.




i touch myself...laugh


uhm...sorryembarassed

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Sat 05/10/08 10:29 AM
It's too easy to be picky and critical in a forum such as this. Meeting someone in person is where you develope chemistry, or not. You have to be in person to "read " someone. So much is missed out on this way. Smile's, easy conversation, sitting a little closer, etc. So much. I realy do prefer the old fashioned way.

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Sat 05/10/08 10:30 AM
Offer them money!drinker

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Sat 05/10/08 10:32 AM

Offer them money!drinker



Hell, I'd fly to see you if it was on your dime...

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:32 AM


Offer them money!drinker



Hell, I'd fly to see you if it was on your dime...


See.smokin

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Sat 05/10/08 10:33 AM
I will tell you it is distance and I live in MO too and can tell you that pickens are slim here, even tho I am a lesbian they are even slimmer had to find my love in Ohio. Good luck sweetie!

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Sat 05/10/08 10:35 AM

I will tell you it is distance and I live in MO too and can tell you that pickens are slim here, even tho I am a lesbian they are even slimmer had to find my love in Ohio. Good luck sweetie!


Ohio seems like the place to be, I've been talking to someone there...let's all move to Ohio!drinker

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Sat 05/10/08 10:35 AM


I will tell you it is distance and I live in MO too and can tell you that pickens are slim here, even tho I am a lesbian they are even slimmer had to find my love in Ohio. Good luck sweetie!


Ohio seems like the place to be, I've been talking to someone there...let's all move to Ohio!drinker


drinker sounds like a great idea to me!drinker

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Sat 05/10/08 10:36 AM


I will tell you it is distance and I live in MO too and can tell you that pickens are slim here, even tho I am a lesbian they are even slimmer had to find my love in Ohio. Good luck sweetie!


Ohio seems like the place to be, I've been talking to someone there...let's all move to Ohio!drinker



love Kansaslove

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Sat 05/10/08 10:36 AM
Wow.....Im amazed that you guys live in the same country and a plane ticket or bus ride would daunt you!!!noway noway noway

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Sat 05/10/08 10:37 AM

Wow.....Im amazed that you guys live in the same country and a plane ticket or bus ride would daunt you!!!noway noway noway


I will probably be getting one soon as I can figure out the best date to get out there...and if she doesn't mind.drinker

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Sat 05/10/08 10:37 AM

Wow.....Im amazed that you guys live in the same country and a plane ticket or bus ride would daunt you!!!noway noway noway


hey I drive 10.5 hours to see my love all the way up in Ohio, if it is love you have to be willing to travel! If you skip a person just cause they dont live in the same state or 100miles away "the one" may pass you by!

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:38 AM


Wow.....Im amazed that you guys live in the same country and a plane ticket or bus ride would daunt you!!!noway noway noway


hey I drive 10.5 hours to see my love all the way up in Ohio, if it is love you have to be willing to travel! If you skip a person just cause they dont live in the same state or 100miles away "the one" may pass you by!


Exactly. Although I still say we all move to Ohio.smokin

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Sat 05/10/08 10:39 AM

Wow.....Im amazed that you guys live in the same country and a plane ticket or bus ride would daunt you!!!noway noway noway



It is not always quite so simple as that Gypsy. Schedules and such are a factor. Then what about the unrealistic expectations that so many bring to such meetings. And then what if you do click and everything is wonderful? Which one is going to uproot their life??

These are daunting questions. Not impossible, but not so easy as some portray it to be.

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Sat 05/10/08 10:41 AM


Wow.....Im amazed that you guys live in the same country and a plane ticket or bus ride would daunt you!!!noway noway noway


hey I drive 10.5 hours to see my love all the way up in Ohio, if it is love you have to be willing to travel! If you skip a person just cause they dont live in the same state or 100miles away "the one" may pass you by!
Bravo!!!! My thoughts exactly!!!!!!!