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Topic: Daughter on Self-destruct
hikerchick's photo
Mon 05/12/08 09:04 PM




She was out of control and violent, threatening suicide. I called the police and she told the officer she wanted to commit suicide. She is in isolation now; waiting to be transferred to an inpatient facility. I came home to pack some clothes and wait for them to call me and tell me where to go.


(((Hiker))) She needs help.flowerforyou She will be safe there and will be taken care of properly. Hopefully, she will be back to her old self soon. My heart goes out to you.flowerforyou


I can finally really rest now that I know she is safe. I always worry about her.


I can imagine that it's like a weight off of your shoulders.flowerforyou


Of course, now she has ramped up from mere contempt to blazing hatred of me.

Winx's photo
Mon 05/12/08 09:11 PM





She was out of control and violent, threatening suicide. I called the police and she told the officer she wanted to commit suicide. She is in isolation now; waiting to be transferred to an inpatient facility. I came home to pack some clothes and wait for them to call me and tell me where to go.


(((Hiker))) She needs help.flowerforyou She will be safe there and will be taken care of properly. Hopefully, she will be back to her old self soon. My heart goes out to you.flowerforyou


I can finally really rest now that I know she is safe. I always worry about her.


I can imagine that it's like a weight off of your shoulders.flowerforyou


Of course, now she has ramped up from mere contempt to blazing hatred of me.


Hiker, I've worked in a psych. ward. The anger is temporary.
As she gets better and sees more clearly what happened, she should start to realize that it was for her own good. You need a good nights' sleep tonite.flowerforyou

hikerchick's photo
Mon 05/12/08 09:20 PM






She was out of control and violent, threatening suicide. I called the police and she told the officer she wanted to commit suicide. She is in isolation now; waiting to be transferred to an inpatient facility. I came home to pack some clothes and wait for them to call me and tell me where to go.


(((Hiker))) She needs help.flowerforyou She will be safe there and will be taken care of properly. Hopefully, she will be back to her old self soon. My heart goes out to you.flowerforyou


I can finally really rest now that I know she is safe. I always worry about her.


I can imagine that it's like a weight off of your shoulders.flowerforyou


Of course, now she has ramped up from mere contempt to blazing hatred of me.


Hiker, I've worked in a psych. ward. The anger is temporary.
As she gets better and sees more clearly what happened, she should start to realize that it was for her own good. You need a good nights' sleep tonite.flowerforyou


Winx, you are such a comfort. Thank you so much for being so sweet. I have been at this since 11 this morning and got home just a little while ago. I am tired.

Winx's photo
Mon 05/12/08 09:32 PM







She was out of control and violent, threatening suicide. I called the police and she told the officer she wanted to commit suicide. She is in isolation now; waiting to be transferred to an inpatient facility. I came home to pack some clothes and wait for them to call me and tell me where to go.


(((Hiker))) She needs help.flowerforyou She will be safe there and will be taken care of properly. Hopefully, she will be back to her old self soon. My heart goes out to you.flowerforyou


I can finally really rest now that I know she is safe. I always worry about her.


I can imagine that it's like a weight off of your shoulders.flowerforyou


Of course, now she has ramped up from mere contempt to blazing hatred of me.


Hiker, I've worked in a psych. ward. The anger is temporary.
As she gets better and sees more clearly what happened, she should start to realize that it was for her own good. You need a good nights' sleep tonite.flowerforyou


Winx, you are such a comfort. Thank you so much for being so sweet. I have been at this since 11 this morning and got home just a little while ago. I am tired.


Let the professionals do their job now. You need to take care of yourself or you won't be any good for her when she gets out and no good to yourself. Sleep for alot of hours and tomorrow's a new day.flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Mon 05/12/08 09:32 PM
Edited by Winx on Mon 05/12/08 09:34 PM
Double post. grumble

Brenda_Darling's photo
Tue 05/13/08 08:03 PM
Edited by Brenda_Darling on Tue 05/13/08 08:08 PM
i went through something like this...and now i'm trying to help a 17 year old who dropped out of school and is doing everything i used to do...drugs, drinking, sex with random ppl... it took me a trip to the hospital with an overdose for me to come to my senses. and i'm trying to show this girl that ppl do care... its easy for teens to fall into the temptation of trying new things, like drugs. once they do...everything changes. maybe try and see if theres some one around her age thats been through those things and could talk to her.

i've gone throught it...failed collage, and dropped out cuz of the wrong ppl in my life. and now i'm doing my best to get my life back to normal, and reaching out to those who need me.


hikerchick's photo
Tue 05/13/08 08:09 PM

i went through something like this...and now i'm trying to help a 17 year old who dropped out of school and is doing everything i used to do...drugs, drinking, sex with random ppl... it took me a trip to the hospital with an overdose for me to come to my senses. and i'm trying to show this girl that ppl do care... its easy for teens to fall into the temptation of trying new things, like drugs. once they do...everything changes. maybe try and see if theres some one around her age thats been through those things and could talk to her.

i've gone throught it...failed collage, and dropped out cuz of the wrong ppl in my life. and now i'm doing my best to get my life back to normal, and reaching out to those who need me.




She went through these things herself, when she was 13.

She is in the hospital now. Maybe they can help her.

Brenda_Darling's photo
Tue 05/13/08 08:12 PM
I hope so...i know for me no amout of other ppl talking to me could make me change. it was something i had to come to...but maybe being there will help her...I wish u both luck

Tanler's photo
Tue 05/13/08 08:12 PM
Hi I raised my 3 daughters by myself. Sometimes you need to give them alittle room. If you hold on to tight it doesn t work and keeping them from friends doesn t. She will get thru it. Wish you the best.

hikerchick's photo
Tue 05/13/08 08:20 PM

I hope so...i know for me no amout of other ppl talking to me could make me change. it was something i had to come to...but maybe being there will help her...I wish u both luck


I agree with you. She will be ready when she is ready. I had to put her in the hospital for her own safety, though.

hikerchick's photo
Tue 05/13/08 08:22 PM
Brenda I think it is really commendable that you are taking your experiences and sharing them to help others. the world needs more people like you.flowerforyou

Brenda_Darling's photo
Tue 05/13/08 08:25 PM

Brenda I think it is really commendable that you are taking your experiences and sharing them to help others. the world needs more people like you.flowerforyou


i dont want to see young girls mainly but guys too throw away their lifes like i did...i mean i know ur only young once and all that but theres ways to enjoy it and ways that will make u regret things when u get older. if i can help just one person not do what i did. i'll be happy

Winx's photo
Tue 05/13/08 08:46 PM


Brenda I think it is really commendable that you are taking your experiences and sharing them to help others. the world needs more people like you.flowerforyou


i dont want to see young girls mainly but guys too throw away their lifes like i did...i mean i know ur only young once and all that but theres ways to enjoy it and ways that will make u regret things when u get older. if i can help just one person not do what i did. i'll be happy


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Sammie519's photo
Tue 05/20/08 05:50 AM
through personally experience it sounds to me like drugs ... thats what made me`suddenly stop going to class at failing ..... its a faze with people whom are smart .. they want a taste of what thery dont know .. i was always doing what i was told then one day i met sum people and it wad gone i didnt do as told nemore.... butthis faze could last a while .... with a few of my friends it was a couple weeks with me a few years .... dont worry to much until she starts covering up in sweaters in way to hot weeather there should be nohing to worry to much about

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