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Topic: Is marriage
MrWrongman's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:02 PM

the bottom line is.. marriage should be between the two that are in love and their choice BUT as we age and go into retirement when you're not married and one spouse dies it leaves the other without social security to help them survive.. that is a scary thought for the elderly that aren't married but just living together..


I got 33 years to go before I get married:wink:

MrWrongman's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:02 PM


Really necessary? Whats wrong with just living together without signing any legal paperwork?


Sounds like a good idea to me!


I'll drink to thatdrinker

Citizen_Joe's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:03 PM

Really necessary? Whats wrong with just living together without signing any legal paperwork?


I've done it both ways. To date, divorce has been cheaper. One ex-gf sued me for back pay $4980, and the judge said, what for? As for the loyalty that is supposed to come with marriage, I've had just as much loyalty either way, but am thinking my IQ has dropped like a rock twice. :wink:

Citizen_Joe's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:18 PM

Marriage is still a commitment with God as your witness and invited guest of honor.
I don't know anymore how to do this stuff. I've been so solidly single for just over ten years. I'm so used to being by myself, I hope I can share what I have, and let go of my fears, GOD willing....... flowerforyou :heart:


Fear of what? A friend once defined intimacy as "Into me see". The only real difference between being married and living in sin is the stygma that one doesn't get by being married and divorced 5 times. laugh laugh It's sortof ironic that people who believe in no sex before marriage end up getting married to have sex and then find out they hate the other person. I say, test the waters, long term, and as long as you can get away with it or until the wabbit dies.

On a similar note, isn't the dad the real bastard when he bails on the kid, and yet the kid gets the label? Something's just wrong with this label.

Tanzkity's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:19 PM





Really necessary? Whats wrong with just living together without signing any legal paperwork?


You sound bitter but one of the advantages of getting married so that your kids dont end up becoming BASTARDS (for a lack of better words) and its sad that people dont believe in marriage..........but I used to be a divorcee who believed that but I have started to see the benefits of marriage outweigh the so called committed relationship..........

Oh so cynical you are what every woman wants I cant will this argument you are def stubborn and hardheaded...........lol

Men have no benefits when it comes to mariage......And if you belive kids are bastards because the man and woman dosent get married thats your opinion :wink:

I think that is what a child out of wedlock used to be called .............there is a benefit in being married especially when you get old and no young woman wants to be near you or touch you so who you going to turn to who ,your wife to wipe your wrinkled and delapitated butt..........and this is true since we live longer than you.............laugh



I'll take my chances

MrWrongman's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:23 PM






Really necessary? Whats wrong with just living together without signing any legal paperwork?


You sound bitter but one of the advantages of getting married so that your kids dont end up becoming BASTARDS (for a lack of better words) and its sad that people dont believe in marriage..........but I used to be a divorcee who believed that but I have started to see the benefits of marriage outweigh the so called committed relationship..........

Oh so cynical you are what every woman wants I cant will this argument you are def stubborn and hardheaded...........lol


LOL!!! And you love it

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:29 PM


the bottom line is.. marriage should be between the two that are in love and their choice BUT as we age and go into retirement when you're not married and one spouse dies it leaves the other without social security to help them survive.. that is a scary thought for the elderly that aren't married but just living together..


I got 33 years to go before I get married:wink:


Actually more than that... they changed the retirement age... laugh laugh

no photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:30 PM
Thats what Life insurance is for...take care of your loved ones.

MrWrongman's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:33 PM



the bottom line is.. marriage should be between the two that are in love and their choice BUT as we age and go into retirement when you're not married and one spouse dies it leaves the other without social security to help them survive.. that is a scary thought for the elderly that aren't married but just living together..


I got 33 years to go before I get married:wink:


Actually more than that... they changed the retirement age... laugh laugh


LOL!!! Lets get married

MrWrongman's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:34 PM

Thats what Life insurance is for...take care of your loved ones.


Dont have any kids yet but when I do, they'll be taken care of

Tanzkity's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:36 PM



the bottom line is.. marriage should be between the two that are in love and their choice BUT as we age and go into retirement when you're not married and one spouse dies it leaves the other without social security to help them survive.. that is a scary thought for the elderly that aren't married but just living together..


I got 33 years to go before I get married:wink:


Actually more than that... they changed the retirement age... laugh laugh
I think this guy is using reverse psychology to get at women................IndPmcs he is so into you and he is too chicken to ask the right way...............oh thats cutelaugh laugh

MrWrongman's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:40 PM




the bottom line is.. marriage should be between the two that are in love and their choice BUT as we age and go into retirement when you're not married and one spouse dies it leaves the other without social security to help them survive.. that is a scary thought for the elderly that aren't married but just living together..


I got 33 years to go before I get married:wink:


Actually more than that... they changed the retirement age... laugh laugh
I think this guy is using reverse psychology to get at women................IndPmcs he is so into you and he is too chicken to ask the right way...............oh thats cutelaugh laugh


LOL!!!! Ewwww she wants me hunny

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:43 PM




the bottom line is.. marriage should be between the two that are in love and their choice BUT as we age and go into retirement when you're not married and one spouse dies it leaves the other without social security to help them survive.. that is a scary thought for the elderly that aren't married but just living together..


I got 33 years to go before I get married:wink:


Actually more than that... they changed the retirement age... laugh laugh
I think this guy is using reverse psychology to get at women................IndPmcs he is so into you and he is too chicken to ask the right way...............oh thats cutelaugh laugh


You're so cute Tanz.. Not sure what makes you think that but it was cute.... flowerforyou

MrWrongman's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:45 PM
love I want you Princess and I need you love

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:47 PM
Edited by IndnPrncs on Thu 05/08/08 10:51 PM

love I want you Princess and I need you love



laugh laugh laugh laugh where's my knee boots, the poo is getting deep in here.. laugh laugh

Tanzkity's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:51 PM


love I want you Princess and I need you love



laugh laugh laugh laugh where's my knew boots, the poo is getting deep in here.. laugh laugh

I think that he has found his match..........you have him blushing lolblushing blushing blushing blushing drinker drinker

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:52 PM



love I want you Princess and I need you love



laugh laugh laugh laugh where's my knew boots, the poo is getting deep in here.. laugh laugh

I think that he has found his match..........you have him blushing lolblushing blushing blushing blushing drinker drinker


he's playing Tanz.. He thinks he's all that and a bag of fritos...

MrWrongman's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:53 PM



love I want you Princess and I need you love



laugh laugh laugh laugh where's my knew boots, the poo is getting deep in here.. laugh laugh

I think that he has found his match..........you have him blushing lolblushing blushing blushing blushing drinker drinker


Dammm thats a bold statementblushing

MrWrongman's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:54 PM




love I want you Princess and I need you love



laugh laugh laugh laugh where's my knew boots, the poo is getting deep in here.. laugh laugh

I think that he has found his match..........you have him blushing lolblushing blushing blushing blushing drinker drinker


he's playing Tanz.. He thinks he's all that and a bag of fritos...


I dont think I am, I know I am:wink:

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:55 PM





love I want you Princess and I need you love



laugh laugh laugh laugh where's my knew boots, the poo is getting deep in here.. laugh laugh

I think that he has found his match..........you have him blushing lolblushing blushing blushing blushing drinker drinker


he's playing Tanz.. He thinks he's all that and a bag of fritos...


I dont think I am, I know I am:wink:



wrrrrrrrrrrronnnnnnnnnnnnnggggggggggggggggggg laugh laugh laugh well one thing we know.. I'm not the "match"... No kids in this one's future... :wink: laugh

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