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Really necessary? Whats wrong with just living together without signing any legal paperwork?
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thats what I always ask
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why do you even have to live together???
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I have wanted to get married for the longest time and I still do and have my own family
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Nope not necessary...Once you have lived together for 5yrs or more you are considered married anyway!!
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its a sin...your going to hell
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Nope not necessary...Once you have lived together for 5yrs or more you are considered married anyway!! (((jen))) well in Cali it's 7 I think all states are different... |
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Edited by
Queene123
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Thu 05/08/08 08:04 PM
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nothing is wrong just living together, best way to get to know the person better and if you end up going your separate ways then you have to deal with the divorce papers and such, but if you ever heard of palimony its sorta like alamony and if your with that person for over 3yrs then he would be liable to pay the other party if she ask for that..
i was in several relationships as where we had lived together.. and nothing is wrong with that.. my dad on the other hand thought it was a sin... but thats him.. its a not a sin |
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its a sin...your going to hell |
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it only matters if it matters to the two people involved
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its a sin...your going to hell You just made my list!!!! |
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Nope not necessary...Once you have lived together for 5yrs or more you are considered married anyway!! (((jen))) well in Cali it's 7 I think all states are different... actually it used to be 6months along time ago if you lived together it was declared legally married |
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Nope not necessary...Once you have lived together for 5yrs or more you are considered married anyway!! (((jen))) well in Cali it's 7 I think all states are different... in Canada it is 3 months to be considered a common law relationship |
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why do you even have to live together??? Even better!!! |
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Nope not necessary...Once you have lived together for 5yrs or more you are considered married anyway!! (((jen))) well in Cali it's 7 I think all states are different... actually it used to be 6months along time ago if you lived together it was declared legally married In Cali it's been 7 yrs since I can remember but hey I don't stay involved that long so never kept track... |
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There is nothing wrong with it. I'm just a traditional girl and it would make me happy.
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There is nothing wrong with it. I'm just a traditional girl and it would make me happy. So is it the whole white dress and ummm bridesmaids thing? |
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Nope. Been there, done that. This time it is going to be very simple, small and intimate. Maybe just the two of us and witnesses - maybe just closest of family and a few friends. It is more about us this time. Celebrating the right thing....
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why do you even have to live together??? Even better!!! I saw a lady this morning just looking for a "bed-friend" a designer from PA so I guess we are all heading as a society to that direction |
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i dont think 2 people need to live together to be in a good relationship. I think everyone needs their space.
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