Topic: Confused.....
Bigreye's photo
Thu 05/08/08 07:25 PM
I'm a tad confused as to were i might stand with her. A few weeks back i ran into a woman i went to high school with at a local bar. We were pretty good friends until she graduated and moved off to get married. We had a few drinks and were just kinda chatting it up. She mention that she filed for divorce. He's a real asshole tosses her around and what not. She told me to meet up with her for her birthday the next weekend. We'll we went out and drank a few too many. Some old feelings of mine slipped out. and to my suprise she said she felt the same. But i dunno if she was in the best condition to beleave her. We ended up getting a little heated outside the bar by my car and i told her to call me. Well for the past few weekends we've been together. i asked her to go out to eat with me and she said yes. but I told her earlier this weekend i didn't wanna rush her into anything. And she said she understood what i meant and that she wasn't quite sure how she feels. We ended up cuddling on her couch th rest of the night and not one word was said of it since. i really have feelings for her and o'mcompletly retarded when it comes to reading women. I know I was kinda rambling a bit but any advice or anything would be greatly appricited..

barefootbaby78's photo
Thu 05/08/08 07:27 PM
go with the flow...its obviously moving smoothlyflowerforyou

Derekkye's photo
Thu 05/08/08 07:27 PM
Edited by Derekkye on Thu 05/08/08 07:28 PM
definately wait til divorce is official - or at least not living together and it is clear they are still not together

EtherealEmbers's photo
Thu 05/08/08 07:28 PM
She likes you... but could also be just using you to feel the love she was missing with her hubby... careful, you're in dangerous territory!

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/08/08 07:29 PM
1) To live one's life so that it is worthy of respect
and honor by all.

(2) Fair Play:
• Never attack an unarmed foe.
• Never charge an unhorsed opponent
• Never attack from behind
• Avoid cheating
• Avoid torture

(3) Nobility:
• Exhibit self discipline
• Show respect to authority
• Obey the law
• Administer justice
• Administer mercy
• Protect the innocent
• Respect women

(4) Valor:
• Exhibit courage in word and deed
• Avenge the wronged
• Defend the weak and innocent
• Fight with honor
• Never abandon a friend, ally, or noble cause

(5) Honour:
• Always keep one's word of honour
• Always maintain one's principles
• Never betray confidence or comrade
• Avoid deception
• Respect life

(6) Courtesy:
• Exhibit manners
• Be polite and attentive
• Respectful of host, authority, honour and woman

(7) Loyalty:
• To God, Sovereign, Country, and the codes of
Chivalry
• Always respect and obey the law unless the law is
wrongful.
• Always be kind and never cruel.
• Give mercy to those that ask for it.
• Always be truthful and never lie.
• Defend the Law of Good and seek to stop injustice.
• Have compassion to the weak, frail, and oppressed,
and seek to help them in any way.
• Be charitable to others and give to those in need.
• Always succor women when they are in distress.
• Love your country, family, religion, and uphold them
in any way.
• Always put the needs of others above the needs of
yourself.
• Live a pure and noble life.



EtherealEmbers's photo
Thu 05/08/08 07:32 PM
Mirror, you never cease to amaze me. laugh
So is that from a RPG? :tongue:

kriesybear's photo
Thu 05/08/08 07:33 PM
theres always two sides to her story and you only know one. proceed with caution.

MalenaC's photo
Thu 05/08/08 07:36 PM
SHE JUST PLAY YOU . IF SHE MARRIED , SHE DISRESPECTING HERSELF , HER HUSBAND AND YOU. TELL HER TO STAY AWAY TILL THE DIVORCE IS OVER . IF SHE IS HONEST ABOUT THAT ,:wink:

MsCarmen's photo
Fri 05/09/08 01:00 PM

SHE JUST PLAY YOU . IF SHE MARRIED , SHE DISRESPECTING HERSELF , HER HUSBAND AND YOU. TELL HER TO STAY AWAY TILL THE DIVORCE IS OVER . IF SHE IS HONEST ABOUT THAT ,:wink:


How is she disrespecting herself? How did she disrespect her husband? And how did she play him?

no photo
Fri 05/09/08 01:01 PM
married.noway noway noway noway noway noway noway ..run...run as fast as you can

franshade's photo
Fri 05/09/08 01:03 PM
sunshine, get off computer, be her friend, wait for her divorce, enjoy life!!! TGIF flowerforyou

downhomechik's photo
Fri 05/09/08 01:07 PM
Beware of rebounding. It's so easy to do even off the basketball court. It's especially easy with someone who is a blast from the past....there's a measure of comfort in it...just be careful.