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Topic: If the one you love leaves you....
Pete026 Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 14799	Wed 05/07/08 07:33 PM
For another, what would you do and how long would you do whatever it is to get that person back? I'd put a hit out on them both joke

sexxyandsingle Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 3283	Wed 05/07/08 07:45 PM
yea fu*k em what would ya want em back for,

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Wed 05/07/08 07:45 PM
For another, what would you do and how long would you do whatever it is to get that person back? I'd put a hit out on them both joke But then you would end up in prison with a NEW type of relationship!

Pete026 Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 14799	Wed 05/07/08 07:47 PM
For another, what would you do and how long would you do whatever it is to get that person back? I'd put a hit out on them both joke But then you would end up in prison with a NEW type of relationship! Yeeeeeeeah... I'd rather avoid THAT kind of "relationship"

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 05/07/08 07:49 PM
If they left me for any reason...wouldn't want em back. So they better be real darn sure before they leave.

johncarl Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 5074	Wed 05/07/08 07:49 PM
i never go back .if they leave good they did me a favor .

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Wed 05/07/08 07:51 PM
no matter what moves a person makes right after a break up they seem to be the wrong moves. You have to wait til time passes, then you can be more objective. very wise advice, it's the worst time....especially if you don't know why......

chriserwalk032786 Joined Thu 04/10/08 Posts: 105	Wed 05/07/08 07:51 PM
Why would you want to "make" them stay with you? If you did that then they'd just leave you some other time.

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24713	Wed 05/07/08 07:54 PM
Methinks people are being "idealistic and not realistic".

sandradee1961 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1411	Wed 05/07/08 07:57 PM
It happened to me 3 years ago, and the divorce was final just before our 25th anniversary. My youngest will be 18 in 2 months, and then I will be able to say good riddance.

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24713	Wed 05/07/08 08:00 PM
It happened to me 3 years ago, and the divorce was final just before our 25th anniversary. My youngest will be 18 in 2 months, and then I will be able to say good riddance. Now THAT'S "real"! Broken hearts SUCK

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 05/07/08 08:01 PM
I say good riddence, he is HER problem now.

sandradee1961 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1411	Wed 05/07/08 08:03 PM
I say good riddence, he is HER problem now. ...And she thinks he's not cheating on her.

sandradee1961 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1411	Wed 05/07/08 08:04 PM
It happened to me 3 years ago, and the divorce was final just before our 25th anniversary. My youngest will be 18 in 2 months, and then I will be able to say good riddance. Now THAT'S "real"! Broken hearts SUCK Thanks, but no broken heart here. Life is good!

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24713	Wed 05/07/08 08:06 PM
I say good riddence, he is HER problem now. I know...and I think everyone knows how we "should" handle it.. but I wonder if there is even 1 person here (who was REALLY in love) who would be as cavalier as they've posted.

sandradee1961 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1411	Wed 05/07/08 08:11 PM
I say good riddence, he is HER problem now. I know...and I think everyone knows how we "should" handle it.. but I wonder if there is even 1 person here (who was REALLY in love) who would be as cavalier as they've posted. It's not about being cavalier. Love isn't destroyed in the moment someone leaves, or it wasn't for me anyway. You have to remember who you are, and be true to that.

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24713	Wed 05/07/08 08:12 PM
I say good riddence, he is HER problem now. I know...and I think everyone knows how we "should" handle it.. but I wonder if there is even 1 person here (who was REALLY in love) who would be as cavalier as they've posted. It's not about being cavalier. Love isn't destroyed in the moment someone leaves, or it wasn't for me anyway. You have to remember who you are, and be true to that. after 3 years of reflection......no?

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Wed 05/07/08 08:14 PM
I say good riddence, he is HER problem now. I know...and I think everyone knows how we "should" handle it.. but I wonder if there is even 1 person here (who was REALLY in love) who would be as cavalier as they've posted. It's not about being cavalier. Love isn't destroyed in the moment someone leaves, or it wasn't for me anyway. You have to remember who you are, and be true to that. Is the love ever destroyed or just out of reach? Always have tried to be civil.

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Wed 05/07/08 08:16 PM
For another, what would you do and how long would you do whatever it is to get that person back? Sometimes, you have to lose to win. If a woman were that fickle, I'd be happy to know it so I could save my energies for someone worth my time.

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24713	Wed 05/07/08 08:17 PM Edited by Beachfarmer on Wed 05/07/08 08:18 PM
NOW...I go fishing with my exes husband and adore her (not my) kids. More than "civil"....you remember your "friend"...but initially ( I ) was torn up, did and said the wrong things, hurt incredibly. No...I didn't go.."oh well..your loss".