Ok here lies a serious ?

Why is it that when guys see's tht a girl has kids they run like hell.

SMB

A.K.A Angel

HUMM there not ready to go that route and if so let them run cause kids
are part of the package if you single with kids!

Do you really want a man that runs as soon as he finds out you have
children?? I know I don't..it just shows me that he is not willing or
able to accept me for me and all that comes along with me...if they run
let them go..they weren't worth your time any way

HMMM maybe they are not ready to settle down yet?? Its better to find
out now then a year from now! Besides, do you really want someone that
doesn't want a part of you? I know, I always accept someones kids...kids
don't bother me, but sometimes the man does..haha

To me, dating a lady w/children puts a different twist on things. Very
hard to leave kids out if you date very long. Having kids around, calls
for more family type things. Maybe guys want to keep their dating more
wild & loose, which you can't do w/kids. Have heard complaints, from
guys, about behavior, costs, private time, etc. Gwen had a daughter, I
knew it was a package thing. There are guys out there that like kids,
you just have to keep looking. Guys that do may be older, poss. more
stable. Take your time, you have some very special little people
involved & they have to live w/your choice also.

SMB....

screw him.... he is not needed. You will find someone better.


(sorry if that sounded harsh, I am sick!!!)

T

Your kids are an extention of you....a part of you...those who run away
because of them aren't interested in getting to know the real you to
begin with.

When I date someone, I always keep my boys out of my dating for as long
as I can! I sometimes date and they are not even aware that I am dating.
I try to keep my personal life private from my kids...unless I know its
going somewhere!
Why drag them into every situation?

I never get my children involved unless I know forshure, But I always
tell them in the begining that I have kids and if that a problem. The
thing is some say no and then run.

The reason why they run, is because the only thing they really wonted to
do anyway, was hit it and run anyway. This is coming from a man, who's a
father his self.

haha so most men just want to "hit it" and run??

yes that's right, i'm sorry to say, but it's the truth.

One I never sleep with a guy on the first date. And two that is so
tipical. There is alot more to a person than just getting in there pants
and most woman find that very offensive.

I have someone in my family, who's like that.

The only reason why he sleep with woman, is to see how many womens he
can get. some times he sleep with more then one lady at a time.

it makes me to even say he is part of my family

If I could, I wouldn't clame him, but I can not

do anyone else have a person like that in their family?

not all of them are like that, but yes most men, don't want the
responsibility to raise someone else kids,
so I think for me will be best to meet someone who already has kids and
who is oriented on what it is to be a parent!!

If I could find someone to love me and my son, they wouldn't be sorry.