ok hold on here. i happen to know that little people are ALWAYS going to
be part of the deal/package. if a guy CANNOT accept that then just tell
him to move on. that you won't be part of his "hoe train". if the guy
does not like it then just tell him where the bears sh$t in the
buckwheat. no offence cybear.

Because when a lady date me, they not only have to love me, but my son.
On top of that, they have to deal with me being disable.

smb i would prefer a woman with kids, as they are in touch with what
they want.....and i have 2 girls that some lady has to accept or it is
by.

SMB, if you ever meet a REAL dude he will be all about YOU, but also
will be EXCITED about YOUR children.
THAT is one thing as a parent to always watch for and feel, about any
guy ya meet!
If ya find a dude with his own child like Morena has said, then he will
already be a daddy and then it just depends on the both of you to CLICK
or NOT click,lol..
All I can tell ya is,,,,GOOD-LUCK!! And hold YOUR heart back always
until you really KNOW that the person is trully REAL and not just
PLAYING YA!!!!!

that's right, you should never give your heart to someone who's not true
to you or your kids.

I agree but were the hell are you all at

i don't know where they went to

SMB

I haven't said this to anyone on here, but I think it might give you
another spin on things. (if I can type)

I was married for 4 1/2 years. Physical abuse started just after the
wedding. You name it I have been through it. Then the mental abuse
started just after I found out I was pregnant. the fact that I was
carring his child didn't stop ANY of the abuse.
Then I had my daughter, she was 8 weeks early and weighed in at 2 lbs,
12 ounces. Finally I had enough and left him. I can hear the questions
already, Fine, why the he** didn't you leave him sooner? Because I
thought for a while that if I did, I would be alone, nobody wants a lady
with a child.
Ok, to make a long story short, (should have done this along time ago),
I now have 2 beautiful kids, and a man who has waited almost a year for
me and my kids to come around, and he can't wait for them to call him
dad.

They ARE out there, you just have to be patient, it took me 10 years to
find this one. ( wasn't really looking, it just happened.)

FINE, Your heart is that of a PRINCESS, and I am sooooo HAPPY for you to
have found THAT PEACE and LOVE!!!!!!!
WE ARE BOTH BLESSED!!!!!
AND your story of LIFE "HAPPENS" EVERYDAY IN this WORLD, AND IT IS
SOOOOO-SAD!!!!!
bUT NOW YOU NEVER HAVE TO 'LOOK' BACK,,,,,,JUST TO YOUR FUTURE!



SOOOOOOOOOOO-COOOOOOOOL!!!!!!!

I am sorry about what you went through and I have much respect for you.
From a woman to a woman going trough things like this make you a much
stronger person.

Sweetie, This man has already made me so very happy, and to know that I
will spend the rest of my life with him is just a major bonus for me and
my kids. My daughter already adores him, he is teaching her to play
chess whenever he is in town. Yes, for now he is a long haul truck
driver. All the good ones are, right LA?


Thank you T. For everything.

fine and smb...i will let you in on this from this guys point of view.

it's been almost 15 months since she left me, we are divorced now. and
yes well i want a lady it is not for sex. because as i believe and i
live by these beliefs. that next lady that sleeps in my bed, will be the
lady i spend the rest of my time on this god's given earth with. i only
seek a lady for the companionship. an no i'm no saint..lol i'm just old
fashioned.
i hear it all the time from the guys i work with, did you, did you ,did
you. i only care about what her and i think......and kids are welcome,
because i'm a big kid myself...only difference is i have home and a
job....lol

fp i'm so sorry to hear that some guy would do that to such a beautiful
person.

and another reason not to have sex before your hooked..lol
say sex backwards

sex=xes.....yikesssssss...lolol

I'd wonder at a man eager to pursue a relationship w/ me that included actively participating in my child's life. Not to be trusted.

Mothers need sleep too. Step-father #2 was a good example to me in this area. After he married my mom, he considered me one of his own. He is the best man my mom ever married.

I'm confident you'll find her here.

You must've been an especially cuuuute baby, then. Your mom deserved to find someone so perfect for she and her child. However, I believe most men in this situation are generally just dangerous fiends, eager for a chance to ruin the family's peaceful dynamic. OK, I don't believe myself... I don't know. There are possibly good true family type men. Agh. Maybe.

I have 5 kids .. I don't think any guys that find that out run like hell ... sorry

IVE GOT 2 KIDS OF MY OWN, IF IM RUNNIN LIKE HELL,ITS TO SOMEONE ELSE THAT DOES HAVE KIDS

AND THAT WORKS BOTH WAYS, WOMEN TEND TO RUN TOO