Topic: ughhhhh
Winx's photo
Thu 05/01/08 07:49 PM




Talking about if they are legal, they can buy their own: You know that in St. Louis, the firefighters put smoke detectors in houses that have low-income, elderly and/or disabled persons living in them. They don't want anybody to die in a fire on their watch.
I want to know how to get on this list of freebies. I am tired of paying for my own food, gas, housing and furniture. Seems like there is a program out there to get everything free if you are willing to take handouts


People don't choose to be low-income, elderly or disabled.
Most of them have worked and paid taxes.
and I didn't choose not to be who I am, but I was smart with my money, and worked my arse off to get where I am at. So why should I pay for social programs for others who are content to stay in their rut of a life?


You could someday become low-income or disabled. It only takes an instant for something to happen to change one's life.

I am sad for you that you think that "people are content to stay in their rut of a life" when they are low-income, elderly or disabled.

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Thu 05/01/08 07:50 PM






Rob there is nothing wrong with that, who said they were illegally here?
if they were legal they would be able to speak english. English is required through naturalization.


Doesn't mean all of them keep it up. Some traditions die hard and they want to speak their home language. And there is nothing wrong with that either.
Lol, not the english is not the official language of the unites states argument again. If they are not respectful enough to "keep up" the language of the country, then they need to go back where it is appropriate to speak their native tongue for everything
Why don't you go back to where it's appropriate to misspell things and speak grammatically incorrect. Apparently you aren't respectful enough. We're talking about lives here, OK? Not freaking handouts
when you have nothing of substance to offer a rebuttle, by all means resort to personal attacks. Have a great night
First off, my rebuttal was that these are lives, OK??

You are the one who brought up "keeping with the language". You can't even do that yourself. If that's a personal attack, my sincerest apologies.

Good night, I'm done. I've said what I needed to say.


Single_Rob's photo
Thu 05/01/08 07:52 PM





Talking about if they are legal, they can buy their own: You know that in St. Louis, the firefighters put smoke detectors in houses that have low-income, elderly and/or disabled persons living in them. They don't want anybody to die in a fire on their watch.
I want to know how to get on this list of freebies. I am tired of paying for my own food, gas, housing and furniture. Seems like there is a program out there to get everything free if you are willing to take handouts


People don't choose to be low-income, elderly or disabled.
Most of them have worked and paid taxes.
and I didn't choose not to be who I am, but I was smart with my money, and worked my arse off to get where I am at. So why should I pay for social programs for others who are content to stay in their rut of a life?


You could someday become low-income or disabled. It only takes an instant for something to happen to change one's life.

I am sad for you that you think that "people are content to stay in their rut of a life" when they are low-income, elderly or disabled.

I will never again be low income, unless the financial institutions of this country completely collapse (which could happen the way things are going, lol) I have taken steps to protect myself. Sorry, I see things differently than you do, but I will not apologize anymore for feeling that way

dae11x's photo
Thu 05/01/08 07:54 PM





Talking about if they are legal, they can buy their own: You know that in St. Louis, the firefighters put smoke detectors in houses that have low-income, elderly and/or disabled persons living in them. They don't want anybody to die in a fire on their watch.
I want to know how to get on this list of freebies. I am tired of paying for my own food, gas, housing and furniture. Seems like there is a program out there to get everything free if you are willing to take handouts


People don't choose to be low-income, elderly or disabled.
Most of them have worked and paid taxes.
and I didn't choose not to be who I am, but I was smart with my money, and worked my arse off to get where I am at. So why should I pay for social programs for others who are content to stay in their rut of a life?


You could someday become low-income or disabled. It only takes an instant for something to happen to change one's life.

I am sad for you that you think that "people are content to stay in their rut of a life" when they are low-income, elderly or disabled.
Thank you, Winx. It's all about "but for the Grace of God, that could be me." And I'm an agnostic!!

Single_Rob's photo
Thu 05/01/08 07:54 PM







Rob there is nothing wrong with that, who said they were illegally here?
if they were legal they would be able to speak english. English is required through naturalization.


Doesn't mean all of them keep it up. Some traditions die hard and they want to speak their home language. And there is nothing wrong with that either.
Lol, not the english is not the official language of the unites states argument again. If they are not respectful enough to "keep up" the language of the country, then they need to go back where it is appropriate to speak their native tongue for everything
Why don't you go back to where it's appropriate to misspell things and speak grammatically incorrect. Apparently you aren't respectful enough. We're talking about lives here, OK? Not freaking handouts
when you have nothing of substance to offer a rebuttle, by all means resort to personal attacks. Have a great night
First off, my rebuttal was that these are lives, OK??

You are the one who brought up "keeping with the language". You can't even do that yourself. If that's a personal attack, my sincerest apologies.

Good night, I'm done. I've said what I needed to say.



These are your opinions, and you are welcome to them. You seem to have understood everything I have said with no problem, so I think I can communicate with my fellow citizens with realtive ease. You should check the spelling, and structure of your own posts, you are not innocent of mistakes yourself. I do not worry too much about structure, and spelling on this, or any other forum. But if you just wish to resort to insulting me to make yourself feel better, by all means do so

Winx's photo
Thu 05/01/08 07:56 PM








Rob there is nothing wrong with that, who said they were illegally here?
if they were legal they would be able to speak english. English is required through naturalization.


Doesn't mean all of them keep it up. Some traditions die hard and they want to speak their home language. And there is nothing wrong with that either.
Lol, not the english is not the official language of the unites states argument again. If they are not respectful enough to "keep up" the language of the country, then they need to go back where it is appropriate to speak their native tongue for everything


I didn't know that you were prejudiced. I thought that you only disliked having illegals here.
Prejudiced? How does that make me prejudiced? Why do I have to press buttons to hear something in english? Why do I have to push a button on the atm to see english? I have no problem with legal immigrants, or other races. You accusing me of being prejudice is unfounded, and insulting


I did not mean to insult you. I was calling it as I see it. Saying that a race needs to go back to their country if they can't keep the language up is prejudiced IMO.

I have Hispanic friends that own a restaurant. They struggle with their English. They have taken English classes. I have helped them too. It is harder for the adults to learn than the children. The main customers of their restaurant are Hispanic. They are around Spainish speaking people all day. Their English is getting worse now. Should they go back to Mexico because of that. NO.

I have a friend from Vietnam. She sometimes has trouble with her English. She is married to a Dr. and is a biologist. Should she go back home. NO.

I understand them having problems remembering English when they are awakened from sleep.flowerforyou
that doesn't change the fact that a beep is universal, or that they should work harder on their english skills. I seriously have no problems with people of other races, I am not prejudiced, or racist in any manner. I think that those here without legal status make everyone suffer, the legal immigrants the most. I am sorry if I think that the laws of this country should be respected, and folowed. I am sorry if I see things different than you. I am sorry if all the above leads you to believe I am racist.


I don't think that the illegals should be here either.

Do you know that they have made smoke detectors with the parent's voices telling their children to get up - there is a fire? They found out that chldren sleep through the beeps and wake up easier when they hear their parent's voices.

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Thu 05/01/08 07:56 PM
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Single_Rob's photo
Thu 05/01/08 07:58 PM









Rob there is nothing wrong with that, who said they were illegally here?
if they were legal they would be able to speak english. English is required through naturalization.


Doesn't mean all of them keep it up. Some traditions die hard and they want to speak their home language. And there is nothing wrong with that either.
Lol, not the english is not the official language of the unites states argument again. If they are not respectful enough to "keep up" the language of the country, then they need to go back where it is appropriate to speak their native tongue for everything


I didn't know that you were prejudiced. I thought that you only disliked having illegals here.
Prejudiced? How does that make me prejudiced? Why do I have to press buttons to hear something in english? Why do I have to push a button on the atm to see english? I have no problem with legal immigrants, or other races. You accusing me of being prejudice is unfounded, and insulting


I did not mean to insult you. I was calling it as I see it. Saying that a race needs to go back to their country if they can't keep the language up is prejudiced IMO.

I have Hispanic friends that own a restaurant. They struggle with their English. They have taken English classes. I have helped them too. It is harder for the adults to learn than the children. The main customers of their restaurant are Hispanic. They are around Spainish speaking people all day. Their English is getting worse now. Should they go back to Mexico because of that. NO.

I have a friend from Vietnam. She sometimes has trouble with her English. She is married to a Dr. and is a biologist. Should she go back home. NO.

I understand them having problems remembering English when they are awakened from sleep.flowerforyou
that doesn't change the fact that a beep is universal, or that they should work harder on their english skills. I seriously have no problems with people of other races, I am not prejudiced, or racist in any manner. I think that those here without legal status make everyone suffer, the legal immigrants the most. I am sorry if I think that the laws of this country should be respected, and folowed. I am sorry if I see things different than you. I am sorry if all the above leads you to believe I am racist.


I don't think that the illegals should be here either.

Do you know that they have made smoke detectors with the parent's voices telling their children to get up - there is a fire? They found out that chldren sleep through the beeps and wake up easier when they hear their parent's voices.
ok, but I am sure that the taxpayers didnt pay for them. I am betting that the parents payed ofr them. If they didn't, then they should have

Lindyy's photo
Thu 05/01/08 07:58 PM
Edited by Lindyy on Thu 05/01/08 08:00 PM







Rob there is nothing wrong with that, who said they were illegally here?
if they were legal they would be able to speak english. English is required through naturalization.


Doesn't mean all of them keep it up. Some traditions die hard and they want to speak their home language. And there is nothing wrong with that either.
Lol, not the english is not the official language of the unites states argument again. If they are not respectful enough to "keep up" the language of the country, then they need to go back where it is appropriate to speak their native tongue for everything


I didn't know that you were prejudiced. I thought that you only disliked having illegals here.
Prejudiced? How does that make me prejudiced? Why do I have to press buttons to hear something in english? Why do I have to push a button on the atm to see english? I have no problem with legal immigrants, or other races. You accusing me of being prejudice is unfounded, and insulting


I did not mean to insult you. I was calling it as I see it. Saying that a race needs to go back to their country if they can't keep the language up is prejudiced IMO.

I have Hispanic friends that own a restaurant. They struggle with their English. They have taken English classes. I have helped them too. It is harder for the adults to learn than the children. The main customers of their restaurant are Hispanic. They are around Spainish speaking people all day. Their English is getting worse now. Should they go back to Mexico because of that. NO.

I have a friend from Vietnam. She sometimes has trouble with her English. She is married to a Dr. and is a biologist. Should she go back home. NO.

I understand them having problems remembering English when they are awakened from sleep.flowerforyou


Winx,

I KNOW you have a good heart, but from working with people coming here legally and going through what they have to, you would develope a different attitude.

I take the bus to work. Years ago there were several Chinese people who took the bus with me. All very polite humble people. EXCEPT they would start talking in their native language deliberately so no one could understand what they were talking about.

One day I got soooo mad I said out loud for the entire bus passengers to hear "Excuse me, but this is the United State and we speak English." Dead silence.

But, let me tell you. The one woman who did this quite frequently, well the Park 'n Ride where we park our cars and catch the bus to downtown PGH. would get very crowded at times, yet I was always there to direct her into getting into a spot and avoid smashing into another car. She was always late and in a hurry. I always got out of line and went and helped her. No one else would.

Eventually she apologized to me for deliberately speaking her native language to her friends so no one would know what was being said.:smile:


End of my story.

Lindyy
:heart:

Single_Rob's photo
Thu 05/01/08 08:00 PM








Rob there is nothing wrong with that, who said they were illegally here?
if they were legal they would be able to speak english. English is required through naturalization.


Doesn't mean all of them keep it up. Some traditions die hard and they want to speak their home language. And there is nothing wrong with that either.
Lol, not the english is not the official language of the unites states argument again. If they are not respectful enough to "keep up" the language of the country, then they need to go back where it is appropriate to speak their native tongue for everything


I didn't know that you were prejudiced. I thought that you only disliked having illegals here.
Prejudiced? How does that make me prejudiced? Why do I have to press buttons to hear something in english? Why do I have to push a button on the atm to see english? I have no problem with legal immigrants, or other races. You accusing me of being prejudice is unfounded, and insulting


I did not mean to insult you. I was calling it as I see it. Saying that a race needs to go back to their country if they can't keep the language up is prejudiced IMO.

I have Hispanic friends that own a restaurant. They struggle with their English. They have taken English classes. I have helped them too. It is harder for the adults to learn than the children. The main customers of their restaurant are Hispanic. They are around Spainish speaking people all day. Their English is getting worse now. Should they go back to Mexico because of that. NO.

I have a friend from Vietnam. She sometimes has trouble with her English. She is married to a Dr. and is a biologist. Should she go back home. NO.

I understand them having problems remembering English when they are awakened from sleep.flowerforyou


Winx,

I KNOW you have a good heart, but from working with people coming here legally and going through what they have to, you would develope a different attitude.

I take the bus to work. Years ago there were several Chinese people who took the bus with me. All very polite humble people. EXCEPT they would start talking in their native language deliberately so no one could understand what they were talking about.

One day I got soooo mad I said out loud for the entire bus passengers to hear "Excuse me, but this is the United State and we speak English." Dead silence.

But, let me tell you. The one woman who did this quite frequently, well the Park 'n Ride where we park our cars and catch the bus to downtown PGH. would get very crowded at times, yet I was always there to direct her into getting into a spot and smashing into another car. She was always late and in a hurry. I always got out of line and went and helped her. No one else would.

Eventually she apologized to me for deliberately speaking her native language to her friends so no one would know what was being said.:smile:


End of my story.

Lindyy
:heart:
I have no problem with them talking their native tongue to one another, that is their free speech right. I think it is disrespectful to tell them they shouldnt.

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Thu 05/01/08 08:03 PM








Rob there is nothing wrong with that, who said they were illegally here?
if they were legal they would be able to speak english. English is required through naturalization.


Doesn't mean all of them keep it up. Some traditions die hard and they want to speak their home language. And there is nothing wrong with that either.
Lol, not the english is not the official language of the unites states argument again. If they are not respectful enough to "keep up" the language of the country, then they need to go back where it is appropriate to speak their native tongue for everything


I didn't know that you were prejudiced. I thought that you only disliked having illegals here.
Prejudiced? How does that make me prejudiced? Why do I have to press buttons to hear something in english? Why do I have to push a button on the atm to see english? I have no problem with legal immigrants, or other races. You accusing me of being prejudice is unfounded, and insulting


I did not mean to insult you. I was calling it as I see it. Saying that a race needs to go back to their country if they can't keep the language up is prejudiced IMO.

I have Hispanic friends that own a restaurant. They struggle with their English. They have taken English classes. I have helped them too. It is harder for the adults to learn than the children. The main customers of their restaurant are Hispanic. They are around Spainish speaking people all day. Their English is getting worse now. Should they go back to Mexico because of that. NO.

I have a friend from Vietnam. She sometimes has trouble with her English. She is married to a Dr. and is a biologist. Should she go back home. NO.

I understand them having problems remembering English when they are awakened from sleep.flowerforyou


Winx,

I KNOW you have a good heart, but from working with people coming here legally and going through what they have to, you would develope a different attitude.

I take the bus to work. Years ago there were several Chinese people who took the bus with me. All very polite humble people. EXCEPT they would start talking in their native language deliberately so no one could understand what they were talking about.

One day I got soooo mad I said out loud for the entire bus passengers to hear "Excuse me, but this is the United State and we speak English." Dead silence.

But, let me tell you. The one woman who did this quite frequently, well the Park 'n Ride where we park our cars and catch the bus to downtown PGH. would get very crowded at times, yet I was always there to direct her into getting into a spot and avoid smashing into another car. She was always late and in a hurry. I always got out of line and went and helped her. No one else would.

Eventually she apologized to me for deliberately speaking her native language to her friends so no one would know what was being said.:smile:


End of my story.

Lindyy
:heart:



I find that rather rude of you and how is it any of your business what they were talking about?

Lindyy's photo
Thu 05/01/08 08:06 PM



Winx,

I KNOW you have a good heart, but from working with people coming here legally and going through what they have to, you would develope a different attitude.

I take the bus to work. Years ago there were several Chinese people who took the bus with me. All very polite humble people. EXCEPT they would start talking in their native language deliberately so no one could understand what they were talking about.

One day I got soooo mad I said out loud for the entire bus passengers to hear "Excuse me, but this is the United State and we speak English." Dead silence.

But, let me tell you. The one woman who did this quite frequently, well the Park 'n Ride where we park our cars and catch the bus to downtown PGH. would get very crowded at times, yet I was always there to direct her into getting into a spot and smashing into another car. She was always late and in a hurry. I always got out of line and went and helped her. No one else would.

Eventually she apologized to me for deliberately speaking her native language to her friends so no one would know what was being said.:smile:


End of my story.

Lindyy
:heart:
I have no problem with them talking their native tongue to one another, that is their free speech right. I think it is disrespectful to tell them they shouldnt.


No Rob, it is done so that Americans cannot understand what is being said. I have no problem if they speak it at home or among one another in a low voice. But to talk so blatantly loud THAT is total disrespect.grumble Especially when they speak English fluently.

Lindyy

Single_Rob's photo
Thu 05/01/08 08:07 PM




Winx,

I KNOW you have a good heart, but from working with people coming here legally and going through what they have to, you would develope a different attitude.

I take the bus to work. Years ago there were several Chinese people who took the bus with me. All very polite humble people. EXCEPT they would start talking in their native language deliberately so no one could understand what they were talking about.

One day I got soooo mad I said out loud for the entire bus passengers to hear "Excuse me, but this is the United State and we speak English." Dead silence.

But, let me tell you. The one woman who did this quite frequently, well the Park 'n Ride where we park our cars and catch the bus to downtown PGH. would get very crowded at times, yet I was always there to direct her into getting into a spot and smashing into another car. She was always late and in a hurry. I always got out of line and went and helped her. No one else would.

Eventually she apologized to me for deliberately speaking her native language to her friends so no one would know what was being said.:smile:


End of my story.

Lindyy
:heart:
I have no problem with them talking their native tongue to one another, that is their free speech right. I think it is disrespectful to tell them they shouldnt.


No Rob, it is done so that Americans cannot understand what is being said. I have no problem if they speak it at home or among one another in a low voice. But to talk so blatantly loud THAT is total disrespect.grumble Especially when they speak English fluently.

Lindyy

personally I don't want to know what strangers are talking about around me. I would rather be in the dark. Ignorance is bliss, and apparently I have enough ignorance inmy own head to go around a few times over

Lindyy's photo
Thu 05/01/08 08:13 PM


I find that rather rude of you and how is it any of your business what they were talking about?


Kid,ask me if I care if you think I was rude.noway You are just spouting off to me to cause controversy. Admit it, you could care less if anyone else had posted these remarks.

AND, OBVIOUSLY YOU DID NOT READ THE ENTIRE STORY. THE WOMAN APOLOGIZED TO ME FOR BEING SO RUDE TO THE AMERICANS!! DUHHHHHHHHHHH

Just WHAT is so PRIVATE when they speak so loudly?

Talk about RUDE? A little bit suspicious when they have to speak in a foreign tongue so others do not know what they are saying. HOMELAND SECURITY PLEASE!!!!

Lindyy
:angry:

Lindyy's photo
Thu 05/01/08 08:16 PM


No Rob, it is done so that Americans cannot understand what is being said. I have no problem if they speak it at home or among one another in a low voice. But to talk so blatantly loud THAT is total disrespect.grumble Especially when they speak English fluently.

Lindyy

personally I don't want to know what strangers are talking about around me. I would rather be in the dark. Ignorance is bliss, and apparently I have enough ignorance inmy own head to go around a few times over


Rob, guess we just have to agree to disagree on this. ME, I want to know what is going on around me. I do not trust many people.

Lindyy

Single_Rob's photo
Thu 05/01/08 08:17 PM



No Rob, it is done so that Americans cannot understand what is being said. I have no problem if they speak it at home or among one another in a low voice. But to talk so blatantly loud THAT is total disrespect.grumble Especially when they speak English fluently.

Lindyy

personally I don't want to know what strangers are talking about around me. I would rather be in the dark. Ignorance is bliss, and apparently I have enough ignorance inmy own head to go around a few times over


Rob, guess we just have to agree to disagree on this. ME, I want to know what is going on around me. I do not trust many people.

Lindyy

Well you are doing better than me because I cannot understand half the slang people talk now anyway, lol. Yes, we will just have to disagree. Peoples body language speaks louder than any words for ddanger signs

kidatheart70's photo
Thu 05/01/08 08:18 PM



I find that rather rude of you and how is it any of your business what they were talking about?


Kid,ask me if I care if you think I was rude.noway You are just spouting off to me to cause controversy. Admit it, you could care less if anyone else had posted these remarks.

AND, OBVIOUSLY YOU DID NOT READ THE ENTIRE STORY. THE WOMAN APOLOGIZED TO ME FOR BEING SO RUDE TO THE AMERICANS!! DUHHHHHHHHHHH

Just WHAT is so PRIVATE when they speak so loudly?

Talk about RUDE? A little bit suspicious when they have to speak in a foreign tongue so others do not know what they are saying. HOMELAND SECURITY PLEASE!!!!

Lindyy
:angry:



Homeland Security? laugh Paranoia?! Get your tin foil hat onlaugh

I'm sure you don't care.:wink: Still very rude though.

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Thu 05/01/08 08:28 PM
Edited by Fanta46 on Thu 05/01/08 08:29 PM
The school I go to gives English as a second language, financed by the State with tax-payers money.
When the last immigration bill was before congress it would have required the illegals to learn English to have any chance of becoming a citizen. The response was massive and immediate. They had so many illegals signing up for the English classes the school was forced to hire extra teachers. (Only 1 in 17 are legal here)
Anyway, after hiring the extra teachers and forking out the tax dollars to pay for it, congress voted down the bill.
Poof, no more participation, no interest in learning English at all, and the ones who were enrolled already, disappeared, dropped out.
The tax-payers were out the money, and the school was forced to lay-off all the teachers they had just hired. The illegals have no interest at all in learning English unless it is required of them. Even when the classes are free!!


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Thu 05/01/08 08:41 PM

The school I go to gives English as a second language, financed by the State with tax-payers money.
When the last immigration bill was before congress it would have required the illegals to learn English to have any chance of becoming a citizen. The response was massive and immediate. They had so many illegals signing up for the English classes the school was forced to hire extra teachers. (Only 1 in 17 are legal here)
Anyway, after hiring the extra teachers and forking out the tax dollars to pay for it, congress voted down the bill.
Poof, no more participation, no interest in learning English at all, and the ones who were enrolled already, disappeared, dropped out.
The tax-payers were out the money, and the school was forced to lay-off all the teachers they had just hired. The illegals have no interest at all in learning English unless it is required of them. Even when the classes are free!!


I had no idea about that. All I can say is WOW

Winx's photo
Thu 05/01/08 08:45 PM
Edited by Winx on Thu 05/01/08 08:47 PM






Talking about if they are legal, they can buy their own: You know that in St. Louis, the firefighters put smoke detectors in houses that have low-income, elderly and/or disabled persons living in them. They don't want anybody to die in a fire on their watch.
I want to know how to get on this list of freebies. I am tired of paying for my own food, gas, housing and furniture. Seems like there is a program out there to get everything free if you are willing to take handouts


People don't choose to be low-income, elderly or disabled.
Most of them have worked and paid taxes.
and I didn't choose not to be who I am, but I was smart with my money, and worked my arse off to get where I am at. So why should I pay for social programs for others who are content to stay in their rut of a life?


You could someday become low-income or disabled. It only takes an instant for something to happen to change one's life.

I am sad for you that you think that "people are content to stay in their rut of a life" when they are low-income, elderly or disabled.

I will never again be low income, unless the financial institutions of this country completely collapse (which could happen the way things are going, lol) I have taken steps to protect myself. Sorry, I see things differently than you do, but I will not apologize anymore for feeling that way


Rob, we will always bump heads on this issue. Neither of us is going to change. You don't need to apologize for your feelings. I was just showing some other views and hoped you could see them. Let's just agree to disagree, okay?

I do hope things work out for you the way you want them to as you grow older. I have had some of those instant life changers take me by surprise. All the planning in the world can't change those.