I haven't seen a new picture on my matches since I joined this site

I quess if you want to meet someone, you have to go out of state and bring them back. Sort of reminds you of mail order brides. I don't think NC women want to excell beyond the country life. Sad but true. We are becoming a backwater state. Don't believe me? Check out the D.C. nightlife. That is the closest real party you can find.

*sigh* I don't think this thing will ever be active......

Now wait a sec,, apparently you never went to a country party. But hey,, put them down all you like,, we will keep them.

Not trying to diss NC but I'm finding that no one down here can mind there own buisness! Then again i live in a one light town next to a 4 light towm and I'm from up norht, ( yes, one of those dam yankees ), this is to far in the cut for me

Hello all I been down here for the past 10 years and it's getting slow and boring now, looking for some new friends and people to hang with. But ya it's not swinging.zzzzzzzz

Just to let the ones dissing NC women know...I am a NC native and have been so for 33 years but I am by far NOT one of those "country bumpkin" women you all speak of. I was raised with morals and ethics and manners, but nearly every one of those country women you speak of that I have ever come across were the total opposite. Must be something in their well water. It's really sad. They set a bad example for the good ol' girls like me that may like the same things as they do but don't go about achieving them the same way.

hey what up im from lexington nice to finnaly meet you

hey i'm from that other coast... is this state really that dead? ...i think not! nc has some of the most wholesome girls i've met but then again, nc doesn't have much going on. i'm older now but while i partied my *** off in colege i'll be honest- i still like a good time. i'm here now and i'm kinda regretting it... please help! nc where do you go for fun? i'm guessing raleigh but..... is that it?

New to NC
Very Boring here not really know wht happening

hey everyone, im new to the fayetteville/sanford area... if anyones doin anything hit me up

In from nc and one of those girls from the sticks and i aint like u say we are im in the military so im pretty sure thats a big thing

Looking for ladies and men to chat with in the Raleigh surrounding areas, maybe blossom a friendship- or possibly more. :P Hit me up.

not even fayetteville

yes this stste is dead

LKN is kicking, sorry to hear so many bored people here. We make the best of the lemons we were given! haha

need to know honestly if i even have a chance on finding sum one

so plz take a look at my profile and try and let me know what it is that i'm doin wrong

everybody has always told me that im a pretty decent looking guy

but every girl i find ends up hurting me after a few months

cheating lying or just plain evil

im a hell of a guy with lots of friends

just cant seem to find out what it is that im doin wrong

and i dont mean to be nasty or blunt or anything but trust me it does have any thing to do with anything sexual that's pretty much the best thing i've got going for me lol

just honest opinions plz

The problem with sites like this is that everybody wants someone for one reason or another, but people tend to stick with what is easy or close, it is so much easier to get a relationship with someone who lives around the block then it is across town, or across state, not to mention that even though you might have a profile you look at others as not being worth it because if they are on-line looking for a match you assume there is something wrong with them for not already having someone, there is also a high level of infidelity and divorce nowadays because even though you might want a relationship you crave sex, you end up with a partner you are attracted to and have great sex with, but once that becomes boring you want to move onto something new because you blinded yourself by looks instead of trying to figure out if you are actually right for each other, love is also not always this answer, just part of the answer, i used to date a girl a long time ago who i totally loved, and i ended up going to jail twice because of her, did i love her yes, was she right for me no, not to mention sooo many people use facebook for ev erything nowadays so if you cant find anybody on here they are probably texting to their facebook as we speak

Wow....just moved here 2 weeks now and so far yes I agree it seems to be dead! But am trying new things like this to try to find excitement.....I don't know I'm trying everything and wow I'm sorry I signed that year lease! lol