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Topic: Confused
belledimanche's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:14 PM
So I thought I had a possible love connection. I met a highly compatible guy and we talked nonstop on the phone for hours. We exchanged pics and we both even deactivated our accounts for awhile. Well, we finally decided to meet and he was very sweet. I woke up and he was gone. He said he was sick and just wouldn't be able to make it thru the weekend. He's previously told me about some stomach disorder. I'm thinking ok..I got played again. We talk on the phone and he says that's not the way it is or he wouldn't even have answered his phone. Later through text messages he says, "You're cool. I would like to let our connection grow. I felt something, but admittedly not anything super big, but I'm hopeful." He won't answer his phone or texts now going on 2-3 days. If we had so much chemistry on the phone and I explained to him about my weight, height, etc. ......He's seen whole body shots then, wtf happened? Did I say something wrong or what? I wish I could just find some resolution because my ego is a little bruised.I wish he would just say **** off or something besides the silent treatment. Any advice?

irad8you's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:15 PM
been there, sorry this has happened.

lilith401's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:15 PM
Just wait, but I wouldn't hedge my bets in his direction.

Etrain's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:15 PM
it sounds like he had something else on the side...another love interestflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

me2g's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:15 PM
grumble god men are dogsohwell flowerforyou

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Mon 04/28/08 04:16 PM
he had diarrhea

belledimanche's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:16 PM

Just wait, but I wouldn't hedge my bets in his direction.

I know and to think I canceled a date with someone else for this guy.ohwell

belledimanche's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:16 PM

been there, sorry this has happened.

Thanks..it makes me think I'm not worthy or something.

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Mon 04/28/08 04:16 PM
oh yeah.....and...... never deactivate, again:angry:

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:17 PM
I'm very sorry to hear this. I would say move on.

belledimanche's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:17 PM

it sounds like he had something else on the side...another love interestflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Well, I wish men would just stop wasting my time. I'm looking for a real connection.grumble

itsmetina's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:17 PM
Edited by itsmetina on Mon 04/28/08 04:18 PM
ask to meet his bestfriend

BlueskyJ's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:17 PM

So I thought I had a possible love connection. I met a highly compatible guy and we talked nonstop on the phone for hours. We exchanged pics and we both even deactivated our accounts for awhile. Well, we finally decided to meet and he was very sweet. I woke up and he was gone. He said he was sick and just wouldn't be able to make it thru the weekend. He's previously told me about some stomach disorder. I'm thinking ok..I got played again. We talk on the phone and he says that's not the way it is or he wouldn't even have answered his phone. Later through text messages he says, "You're cool. I would like to let our connection grow. I felt something, but admittedly not anything super big, but I'm hopeful." He won't answer his phone or texts now going on 2-3 days. If we had so much chemistry on the phone and I explained to him about my weight, height, etc. ......He's seen whole body shots then, wtf happened? Did I say something wrong or what? I wish I could just find some resolution because my ego is a little bruised.I wish he would just say **** off or something besides the silent treatment. Any advice?

Sorry but he sounds like he played you....you can give it a couple of more days, but it sounds like a one-niter....sorry about that....you seem really nice...hope it changes for you

belledimanche's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:17 PM

he had diarrhea

Actually yes..he has collitis. Not sure if I spelled that right?

belledimanche's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:18 PM

grumble god men are dogsohwell flowerforyou

Yea, but I still love em'!

Etrain's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:18 PM


it sounds like he had something else on the side...another love interestflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Well, I wish men would just stop wasting my time. I'm looking for a real connection.grumble

cheer up my friend...there are good men out theredrinker

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Mon 04/28/08 04:18 PM

So I thought I had a possible love connection. I met a highly compatible guy and we talked nonstop on the phone for hours. We exchanged pics and we both even deactivated our accounts for awhile. Well, we finally decided to meet and he was very sweet. I woke up and he was gone. He said he was sick and just wouldn't be able to make it thru the weekend. He's previously told me about some stomach disorder. I'm thinking ok..I got played again. We talk on the phone and he says that's not the way it is or he wouldn't even have answered his phone. Later through text messages he says, "You're cool. I would like to let our connection grow. I felt something, but admittedly not anything super big, but I'm hopeful." He won't answer his phone or texts now going on 2-3 days. If we had so much chemistry on the phone and I explained to him about my weight, height, etc. ......He's seen whole body shots then, wtf happened? Did I say something wrong or what? I wish I could just find some resolution because my ego is a little bruised.I wish he would just say **** off or something besides the silent treatment. Any advice?
I'm sorry this happened to you. My opinion, he is hiding something. He is not fully being honest with you. flowerforyou

nicegrl's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:18 PM
it has happen to the best of us. The only thing I can say is that he just wanted to get laid( if you slept with him that is) Dont worry about it. life is to short to understand why someone does things. some answer may never come.

belledimanche's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:18 PM

oh yeah.....and...... never deactivate, again:angry:

Why???

belledimanche's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:19 PM

I'm very sorry to hear this. I would say move on.

Easier said then done...my chest kinda hurts.brokenheart

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