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Topic: Confused
lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Mon 04/28/08 04:19 PM
Sounds like the "CONQUER snd move on scenario"

belledimanche Joined Sun 11/18/07 Posts: 382	Mon 04/28/08 04:20 PM
ask to meet his bestfriend Nah..prob same caliber w/ my luck.....

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Mon 04/28/08 04:20 PM
You're smart, beautiful, intelligent. And you have a charming smile. His loss.

belledimanche Joined Sun 11/18/07 Posts: 382	Mon 04/28/08 04:20 PM
So I thought I had a possible love connection. I met a highly compatible guy and we talked nonstop on the phone for hours. We exchanged pics and we both even deactivated our accounts for awhile. Well, we finally decided to meet and he was very sweet. I woke up and he was gone. He said he was sick and just wouldn't be able to make it thru the weekend. He's previously told me about some stomach disorder. I'm thinking ok..I got played again. We talk on the phone and he says that's not the way it is or he wouldn't even have answered his phone. Later through text messages he says, "You're cool. I would like to let our connection grow. I felt something, but admittedly not anything super big, but I'm hopeful." He won't answer his phone or texts now going on 2-3 days. If we had so much chemistry on the phone and I explained to him about my weight, height, etc. ......He's seen whole body shots then, wtf happened? Did I say something wrong or what? I wish I could just find some resolution because my ego is a little bruised.I wish he would just say **** off or something besides the silent treatment. Any advice? Sorry but he sounds like he played you....you can give it a couple of more days, but it sounds like a one-niter....sorry about that....you seem really nice...hope it changes for you Damn it! I'm such a fool!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 04/28/08 04:21 PM
You woke up and he was gone? Did you let him sleep over the first time you met him? That could be your problem.

belledimanche Joined Sun 11/18/07 Posts: 382	Mon 04/28/08 04:21 PM
Sounds like the "CONQUER snd move on scenario" Damn..it sucks to be played.

sloehand Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 180	Mon 04/28/08 04:21 PM
there is two legged dogs on both sides of the fence . had it to happen to me .let him find another tree to bark up ! youcan do better than that !

belledimanche Joined Sun 11/18/07 Posts: 382	Mon 04/28/08 04:21 PM Edited by belledimanche on Mon 04/28/08 04:24 PM
it sounds like he had something else on the side...another love interest Well, I wish men would just stop wasting my time. I'm looking for a real connection. cheer up my friend...there are good men out there The thing is...that's what they all say and obviously I'm not very good at reading people.

kendrab90 Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 1917	Mon 04/28/08 04:22 PM
forget him just happened to me finally found out he deleted my number and every piece of info he had on me

belledimanche Joined Sun 11/18/07 Posts: 382	Mon 04/28/08 04:22 PM
You're smart, beautiful, intelligent. And you have a charming smile. His loss. Thank you very much!

belledimanche Joined Sun 11/18/07 Posts: 382	Mon 04/28/08 04:23 PM
You woke up and he was gone? Did you let him sleep over the first time you met him? That could be your problem. I know, but I wanted to so...what do you do?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 04/28/08 04:23 PM
He is in love with me now We are gonna get married

rush2001 Joined Thu 04/17/08 Posts: 2577	Mon 04/28/08 04:23 PM
Maybe he is just a jerk? You are to pretty to be with a jerk. I say good riddence.

belledimanche Joined Sun 11/18/07 Posts: 382	Mon 04/28/08 04:23 PM
there is two legged dogs on both sides of the fence . had it to happen to me .let him find another tree to bark up ! youcan do better than that ! Thanks

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Mon 04/28/08 04:24 PM
belle, I wouldn't judge him yet... There could be multiple reasons.. Don't let it get you down... Keep yourself busy and occupy your mind... I hope it all works out for the best for you

belledimanche Joined Sun 11/18/07 Posts: 382	Mon 04/28/08 04:24 PM
So I thought I had a possible love connection. I met a highly compatible guy and we talked nonstop on the phone for hours. We exchanged pics and we both even deactivated our accounts for awhile. Well, we finally decided to meet and he was very sweet. I woke up and he was gone. He said he was sick and just wouldn't be able to make it thru the weekend. He's previously told me about some stomach disorder. I'm thinking ok..I got played again. We talk on the phone and he says that's not the way it is or he wouldn't even have answered his phone. Later through text messages he says, "You're cool. I would like to let our connection grow. I felt something, but admittedly not anything super big, but I'm hopeful." He won't answer his phone or texts now going on 2-3 days. If we had so much chemistry on the phone and I explained to him about my weight, height, etc. ......He's seen whole body shots then, wtf happened? Did I say something wrong or what? I wish I could just find some resolution because my ego is a little bruised.I wish he would just say **** off or something besides the silent treatment. Any advice? I'm sorry this happened to you. My opinion, he is hiding something. He is not fully being honest with you. I would feel so bad if he was involved...

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 04/28/08 04:24 PM
Welcome to dating

justme32 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 1515	Mon 04/28/08 04:25 PM
So I thought I had a possible love connection. I met a highly compatible guy and we talked nonstop on the phone for hours. We exchanged pics and we both even deactivated our accounts for awhile. Well, we finally decided to meet and he was very sweet. I woke up and he was gone. He said he was sick and just wouldn't be able to make it thru the weekend. He's previously told me about some stomach disorder. I'm thinking ok..I got played again. We talk on the phone and he says that's not the way it is or he wouldn't even have answered his phone. Later through text messages he says, "You're cool. I would like to let our connection grow. I felt something, but admittedly not anything super big, but I'm hopeful." He won't answer his phone or texts now going on 2-3 days. If we had so much chemistry on the phone and I explained to him about my weight, height, etc. ......He's seen whole body shots then, wtf happened? Did I say something wrong or what? I wish I could just find some resolution because my ego is a little bruised.I wish he would just say **** off or something besides the silent treatment. Any advice? Sorry but he sounds like he played you....you can give it a couple of more days, but it sounds like a one-niter....sorry about that....you seem really nice...hope it changes for you Damn it! I'm such a fool! No your not. He is the fool. A fool for playing with someone's emotions.

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Mon 04/28/08 04:25 PM
Of all things. A sweetheart like you doesn't deserve to be treated that way. Adds insult to injury. Unfortunately, this happens a lot. And, it's not anything you said or did. It's about his character. Better now than later to find out. I hope you heal quickly and just try to take it as a learning lesson. It's all anyone can do.... Peace & love to ya!!

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 04/28/08 04:25 PM
it sounds like he had something else on the side...another love interest Well, I wish men would just stop wasting my time. I'm looking for a real connection. cheer up my friend...there are good men out there looks to the left nope none there looks to the right nope none there looks up nope there either gets down on hands and knees to listen to the ground like an Indian oh look there's one behind me.