Topic: Confused
belledimanche's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:25 PM

it has happen to the best of us. The only thing I can say is that he just wanted to get laid( if you slept with him that is) Dont worry about it. life is to short to understand why someone does things. some answer may never come.

I guess I just want to know how people can do that and not feel any emotions? How can the seperate sex and intimacy?

wildflower27203's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:25 PM




it sounds like he had something else on the side...another love interestflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Well, I wish men would just stop wasting my time. I'm looking for a real connection.grumble

cheer up my friend...there are good men out theredrinker

The thing is...that's what they all say and obviously I'm not very good at reading people.


join the club, i'm the president:smile:

ShellyinAZ's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:26 PM
Sounds like he's a player to me... Sorry flowerforyou

wildflower27203's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:26 PM


it has happen to the best of us. The only thing I can say is that he just wanted to get laid( if you slept with him that is) Dont worry about it. life is to short to understand why someone does things. some answer may never come.

I guess I just want to know how people can do that and not feel any emotions? How can the seperate sex and intimacy?

practice

Etrain's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:26 PM




it sounds like he had something else on the side...another love interestflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Well, I wish men would just stop wasting my time. I'm looking for a real connection.grumble

cheer up my friend...there are good men out theredrinker


**looks to the left** nope none there

**looks to the right** nope none there

**looks up** nope there either

**gets down on hands and knees to listen to the ground like an Indian** oh look there's one behind me.

drinker drinker what???drinker drinker

belledimanche's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:26 PM

forget him just happened to me finally found out he deleted my number and every piece of info he had on me

Sorry honey.frown

hikerchick's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:27 PM


You woke up and he was gone? Did you let him sleep over the first time you met him? That could be your problem.

I know, but I wanted to so...what do you do?


Go ahead, but accept the fact that he is not going to want a relationship with you after that.

belledimanche's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:27 PM

:heart: He is in love with me nowdevil We are gonna get marrieddevil

You say some crazy **** Mirror!

belledimanche's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:27 PM

Maybe he is just a jerk? You are to pretty to be with a jerk.:smile: I say good riddence.

Thanks sweetheart!flowerforyou

IndnPrncs's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:27 PM




it sounds like he had something else on the side...another love interestflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Well, I wish men would just stop wasting my time. I'm looking for a real connection.grumble

cheer up my friend...there are good men out theredrinker


**looks to the left** nope none there

**looks to the right** nope none there

**looks up** nope there either

**gets down on hands and knees to listen to the ground like an Indian** oh look there's one behind me.



pssst look for 2 don't forget your friend... drinker

Derekkye's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:27 PM
Some guys have a tough time saying and doing what they aught to. It's unfortunate. flowerforyou

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:28 PM
I've been played on here too if its any consolation. I chat here daily. Ask them out and never hear from them again. Its sad some people don't state their true intentions. If your profile says you are looking for someone to date- you date- you do not play silly little childish games. Very wierd.

belledimanche's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:28 PM

belle, I wouldn't judge him yet... There could be multiple reasons.. Don't let it get you down... Keep yourself busy and occupy your mind... I hope it all works out for the best for you flowerforyou flowerforyou

True, but EVERY single man in my life has let me down and it's starting to get to me.

Robm248's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:28 PM
Poor girl, he's probably not the guy you really want him to be. Let's face it, a lot of guy's just aren't nice. I hope you find someone better!

belledimanche's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:29 PM

Welcome to datingdrinker

I guess you're right..I'm kinda not used to the whole dating thing.

no photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:29 PM



So I thought I had a possible love connection. I met a highly compatible guy and we talked nonstop on the phone for hours. We exchanged pics and we both even deactivated our accounts for awhile. Well, we finally decided to meet and he was very sweet. I woke up and he was gone. He said he was sick and just wouldn't be able to make it thru the weekend. He's previously told me about some stomach disorder. I'm thinking ok..I got played again. We talk on the phone and he says that's not the way it is or he wouldn't even have answered his phone. Later through text messages he says, "You're cool. I would like to let our connection grow. I felt something, but admittedly not anything super big, but I'm hopeful." He won't answer his phone or texts now going on 2-3 days. If we had so much chemistry on the phone and I explained to him about my weight, height, etc. ......He's seen whole body shots then, wtf happened? Did I say something wrong or what? I wish I could just find some resolution because my ego is a little bruised.I wish he would just say **** off or something besides the silent treatment. Any advice?
I'm sorry this happened to you. My opinion, he is hiding something. He is not fully being honest with you. flowerforyou

I would feel so bad if he was involved...sick
[/quote/] But don't feel bad. If he is, you didn't know. Hopefully, this is not the case. flowerforyou

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:30 PM
This is how the internet thing goes sometimes. I hope you don't let this damage your self esteem or self worth. Sometimes one of the two is "just not into" the other. The fact that he is avoiding contact is probably just avoiding a difficult conversation.


SharpShooter10's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:31 PM
well, there was either something he didn't like and he didn't want to face you for who knows what reason, pick one, or if he really had colitis or some stomache prob, he crapped all over himself and left quickly in sh!tty pants, ohwell noway bigsmile

sorry to hear it, best wishes and better luck next time

wildflower27203's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:32 PM

I would feel so bad if he was involved...sick

don't if he was involved then if he didn't stray with you it would have been with someone else

Lily0923's photo
Mon 04/28/08 04:32 PM

drinker drinker what???drinker drinker


It was my feble attempt at a joke...there's never a man around until you are in a position to have sex.....

GAWD it just loses it's meaning when I have to explain it...grumble