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Topic: Break-up
Redsoxfan1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 8388	Sun 04/27/08 07:31 AM
I am having a problem. I have to tell this person I have been "seeing" that it isn't exactly what I had in mind. You see, I live in Utah, and he's farther away, so I've only met him twice! What makes it even worse is that when we talk on the phone, he cuts me off if he has an "incoming" call from someone else! Now how am I supposed to feel? I feel like the other person is more important to him! Help please!

Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Sun 04/27/08 07:32 AM
Why cant he take another call? Just be fully honest and say it's not what you were looking for

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Sun 04/27/08 07:32 AM
I know how you feel darlin. Long distance relationships are hard work. There has to be a lot of trust and communication with them. Just let him know how you feel.

Bornnaked Joined Sun 07/29/07 Posts: 2359	Sun 04/27/08 07:32 AM
Be honest and tell him how you feel and move on.

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Sun 04/27/08 07:33 AM
I am having a problem. I have to tell this person I have been "seeing" that it isn't exactly what I had in mind. You see, I live in Utah, and he's farther away, so I've only met him twice! What makes it even worse is that when we talk on the phone, he cuts me off if he has an "incoming" call from someone else! Now how am I supposed to feel? I feel like the other person is more important to him! Help please! When he cuts you off to take an incoming call on call waiting, I would just HANG UP!

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Sun 04/27/08 07:33 AM
I am having a problem. I have to tell this person I have been "seeing" that it isn't exactly what I had in mind. You see, I live in Utah, and he's farther away, so I've only met him twice! What makes it even worse is that when we talk on the phone, he cuts me off if he has an "incoming" call from someone else! Now how am I supposed to feel? I feel like the other person is more important to him! Help please! Well, thats just plain rude....you should be mad....when someone does that to me, I just hang up on them

Redsoxfan1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 8388	Sun 04/27/08 07:35 AM
I know all that, I have to figure out what to say without hurting him!

cats219 Joined Wed 08/01/07 Posts: 2663	Sun 04/27/08 07:35 AM
Tell him how you really feel. You have to be honest about it.

Redsoxfan1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 8388	Sun 04/27/08 07:37 AM
Tell him how you really feel. You have to be honest about it. thanx, i'm just not so sure how to do that without hurting him!

cats219 Joined Wed 08/01/07 Posts: 2663	Sun 04/27/08 07:39 AM
Tell him how you really feel. You have to be honest about it. thanx, i'm just not so sure how to do that without hurting him! Its going to hurt him anyway you do it...but tell him what you just told us. Good luck.

Redsoxfan1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 8388	Sun 04/27/08 07:40 AM
Tell him how you really feel. You have to be honest about it. thanx, i'm just not so sure how to do that without hurting him! Its going to hurt him anyway you do it...but tell him what you just told us. Good luck. thanx! i'll try!

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Sun 04/27/08 07:40 AM
Tell him how you really feel. You have to be honest about it. thanx, i'm just not so sure how to do that without hurting him! Just print this forum thread and mail it to him. He'll get the idea.

Redsoxfan1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 8388	Sun 04/27/08 07:42 AM
ok, thanx!

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Sun 04/27/08 07:42 AM
It's a difficult conversation and you may not be able to avoid hurt feelings. Just be kind but honest. Don't focus on his actions but rather how his actions make you feel.

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Sun 04/27/08 07:42 AM
Or you could call him, and get right down to breaking it off, then say..oh can you hold on a minute, someone else is calling. Then hang up!

TakinCareOfBusiness Joined Mon 03/31/08 Posts: 534	Sun 04/27/08 07:44 AM
I am having a problem. I have to tell this person I have been "seeing" that it isn't exactly what I had in mind. You see, I live in Utah, and he's farther away, so I've only met him twice! What makes it even worse is that when we talk on the phone, he cuts me off if he has an "incoming" call from someone else! Now how am I supposed to feel? I feel like the other person is more important to him! Help please! I hate it when people put me on hold, or carry on conversations with others while on the phone, I hang up, even on daughter, they can call back, I hate the phone anyway

Redsoxfan1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 8388	Sun 04/27/08 07:44 AM
Or you could call him, and get right down to breaking it off, then say..oh can you hold on a minute, someone else is calling. Then hang up! only problem, I don't have call waiting!

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Sun 04/27/08 07:45 AM
Or you could call him, and get right down to breaking it off, then say..oh can you hold on a minute, someone else is calling. Then hang up! only problem, I don't have call waiting! That would make it even better.

Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Sun 04/27/08 07:45 AM
Sorry all....but I dont see where it is rude to put someone on hold to answer another call... If I am on the phone with someone I am dating and my daughter calls? Guess what? Your going on hold.....

TakinCareOfBusiness Joined Mon 03/31/08 Posts: 534	Sun 04/27/08 07:46 AM
I disable call waiting myself, just my preference