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i'm trying to understand the mutual matches here..arent they when u get one or two or more that "U" said yes to the interest and "the" other person said yes as well? that mean both parties said yes, right?  
then i email them to introduce myself, try to start a conversation and no response? wtf? wtf? wtf?? i dont get it
anyone have this happend to them? |
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i don't mess with that--it doesn't work well--so i just stick with what i do is being in jsh--but now since i've met someone here, we're still intact--
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Where is PatsFan when you need him? Still sleeping, I assume.
It is the bane of the system. Some REALLY HAVE wanted to meet/greet, others, it's just not a perfect system.... so you try and that's all you can do. Also, I've noticed some fellows don't answer, like they are just nervous or voyeurs. It's a crap shoot.  
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sure have, that's why I don't even bother with MM anymore
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sure have, that's why I don't even bother with MM anymore
well i think thats what i'm gonna do too
thanks guys! 
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I generally prefer to wait for mutual matches to message me, so I don't have my time wasted, but then most don't respond when I reply back to them anyway.
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sure have, that's why I don't even bother with MM anymore
well i think thats what i'm gonna do too
thanks guys!
Yepo. I tried it and they never answer me either...  I guess we just have to take our chances in the forums!
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Mutual matches are mutual pain in the butts...
If a guy won't write me from the start, who needs THAT in a relationship. Meh ..  
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<3~Realistic Mutual Match~<3
I sit here pondering so lonesome and weary These primal urges have left me so dreary Such human frailty relying upon some hope Diminished results has left us all to cope Embellished hope on this fabled Mutual Match Cybernetically formed in some soiled patch Such lonesome whispers pierce the chilly air Our anxious souls filled with love and care Disclaimer lying beneath it's weathered skin The gesture falls equivalent to a recycle bin Some seek soul redemption with no paper trail While others remain innocent & tearfully frail This pool of emotions beneath a silvery moon While deep nightfall cloaking upon us to soon The air feels heavy and so redolent with tears Failed relationships have given birth to fears Such beautiful hearts are longing for a chance For merciful healing so we may once again dance Turbulent waves they rock these listless souls While the time ticks forward taking it's toll Fingers probing gently @ the surface with care Such painful memories have left us all to aware Gray clouds surrendering as we welcome the sun Our resilience had held now are trials are done Not by Mutual Match but by a friendship was born We survived a past filled with such bitter scorn Deeply thankful are we of this Just Say Hi site I wish for these friendships to become our match May fire be bright enough for the heart to catch Lovingly written by CyPoet 4/1/08 May we find the one whom we seek |
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Could be they are not online or they may be talking to someone else at the moment...try a second time and then move on if no response.
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after i geta mutual match...i try to email...and same thing...no rsponse...same thoughts...why say you are interested...then dont reply...dont understand....either
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<3~Realistic Mutual Match~<3 I sit here pondering so lonesome and weary These primal urges have left me so dreary Such human frailty relying upon some hope Diminished results has left us all to cope Embellished hope on this fabled Mutual Match Cybernetically formed in some soiled patch Such lonesome whispers pierce the chilly air Our anxious souls filled with love and care Disclaimer lying beneath it's weathered skin The gesture falls equivalent to a recycle bin Some seek soul redemption with no paper trail While others remain innocent & tearfully frail This pool of emotions beneath a silvery moon While deep nightfall cloaking upon us to soon The air feels heavy and so redolent with tears Failed relationships have given birth to fears Such beautiful hearts are longing for a chance For merciful healing so we may once again dance Turbulent waves they rock these listless souls While the time ticks forward taking it's toll Fingers probing gently @ the surface with care Such painful memories have left us all to aware Gray clouds surrendering as we welcome the sun Our resilience had held now are trials are done Not by Mutual Match but by a friendship was born We survived a past filled with such bitter scorn Deeply thankful are we of this Just Say Hi site I wish for these friendships to become our match May fire be bright enough for the heart to catch Lovingly written by CyPoet 4/1/08 May we find the one whom we seek wow...you hit the spot... |
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i'm trying to understand the mutual matches here..arent they when u get one or two or more that "U" said yes to the interest and "the" other person said yes as well? that mean both parties said yes, right?
then i email them to introduce myself, try to start a conversation and no response? wtf? wtf? wtf?? i dont get it
anyone have this happend to them? Perhaps you forgot to put a stamp on it? Wrong addy maybe? I send out emails all the time and it always comes back saying "I moved" but thats just me |
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i'm trying to understand the mutual matches here..arent they when u get one or two or more that "U" said yes to the interest and "the" other person said yes as well? that mean both parties said yes, right?
then i email them to introduce myself, try to start a conversation and no response? wtf? wtf? wtf?? i dont get it
anyone have this happend to them? every time I have tried to use it. |
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after i geta mutual match...i try to email...and same thing...no rsponse...same thoughts...why say you are interested...then dont reply...dont understand....either Well, there is a maybe button. If someone isn't way too off the mark some will hit maybe so they can read their profile later. |
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Could be they are not online or they may be talking to someone else at the moment...try a second time and then move on if no response.
no trying the 2nd time i saw they had read my email on here and was a while ago, so..thats tells me they arent interested..i dont chase..no way
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Ya MM hasn't worked for me either. Then again I don't understand why people don't respond to e-mails at all. I mean, even a "Thanks for contacting me, but I don't think we are compatible" is better than no response at all IMO
James |
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Ya MM hasn't worked for me either. Then again I don't understand why people don't respond to e-mails at all. I mean, even a "Thanks for contacting me, but I don't think we are compatible" is better than no response at all IMO James The problem is that attractive women get way too many e-mails to even do that. They would be responding all day long. Then there are women like me who get one every two months. I respond to them all. |
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Could be they are not online or they may be talking to someone else at the moment...try a second time and then move on if no response.
no trying the 2nd time i saw they had read my email on here and was a while ago, so..thats tells me they arent interested..i dont chase..no way
Well, then delete them and move on...I wouldn't call a second email chasing. I would call that showing interest. Definatley not over two tries though. |
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O-p-uuuuuuu---
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