Previous 1 3
Topic: can you help me?
rebel_woman07's photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:37 AM
sad ok here is the thing i have started to fall head over heals for a guy but he has a girlfriend and i really dont want to break them up and be that mean Whichgrumble if you know what i mean i just dont know what to do the more i talk to him the more i fall for him. please help!:cry:

no photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:39 AM
is he married? No! Go for it!

Jill298's photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:39 AM
you have to back away from him dear... you can't go interferring with other people's relationships. And if he is happy with the girl that he is with now, you getting in the middle will only make you look bad. You could lose him as a friend too. If it was meant to be... then give it time. He'll come to you. flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:39 AM
Don't talk to him, don't get near him if at all possible. This, too, shall pass. Happens ALL THE TIME!!! flowerforyou
Take care of YOURSELF!!!

SunnyMcleod's photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:39 AM
God hun, that's always a rough situation. It's happend to me a time or two and I think the best thing to do is figure out how he feels about you before you decide anything. If he's not into you like that I'd walk away...if he is...you both can figure it out. Personal opinion.

franshade's photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:40 AM

sad ok here is the thing i have started to fall head over heals for a guy but he has a girlfriend and i really dont want to break them up and be that mean Whichgrumble if you know what i mean i just dont know what to do the more i talk to him the more i fall for him. please help!:cry:


If he's taken he should be off limits JMO flowerforyou

Etrain's photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:40 AM

sad ok here is the thing i have started to fall head over heals for a guy but he has a girlfriend and i really dont want to break them up and be that mean Whichgrumble if you know what i mean i just dont know what to do the more i talk to him the more i fall for him. please help!:cry:

Is he cheating on his girlfriend with you??? If hes cheating on her....you'll be next

no photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:40 AM
RUN AWAY!!!

laugh laugh laugh

rebel_woman07's photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:40 AM
yeah i know i shouldnt but i know that he likes me too but i am not sure well i sorta know it is more than friend but not really :(

franshade's photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:42 AM

yeah i know i shouldnt but i know that he likes me too but i am not sure well i sorta know it is more than friend but not really :(


I wouldnt pursue nor think anymore on this JMO

rebel_woman07's photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:42 AM


sad ok here is the thing i have started to fall head over heals for a guy but he has a girlfriend and i really dont want to break them up and be that mean Whichgrumble if you know what i mean i just dont know what to do the more i talk to him the more i fall for him. please help!:cry:

Is he cheating on his girlfriend with you??? If hes cheating on her....you'll be next


no he is not cheating on her!

SunnyMcleod's photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:42 AM


sad ok here is the thing i have started to fall head over heals for a guy but he has a girlfriend and i really dont want to break them up and be that mean Whichgrumble if you know what i mean i just dont know what to do the more i talk to him the more i fall for him. please help!:cry:

Is he cheating on his girlfriend with you??? If hes cheating on her....you'll be next


I agree. Once a guy cheats it next to impossible that he won't do it again.

no photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:42 AM


sad ok here is the thing i have started to fall head over heals for a guy but he has a girlfriend and i really dont want to break them up and be that mean Whichgrumble if you know what i mean i just dont know what to do the more i talk to him the more i fall for him. please help!:cry:

Is he cheating on his girlfriend with you??? If hes cheating on her....you'll be next
My sentiments exactly !

no photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:43 AM


sad ok here is the thing i have started to fall head over heals for a guy but he has a girlfriend and i really dont want to break them up and be that mean Whichgrumble if you know what i mean i just dont know what to do the more i talk to him the more i fall for him. please help!:cry:

Is he cheating on his girlfriend with you??? If hes cheating on her....you'll be next

AMEN Brother preach it.

No1sLove's photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:43 AM
How many times must I say it! :tongue:

If he's not free...it's gonna cost ya!

noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway

izzie's photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:43 AM
if he has a gf.. back away.. if he is unhappy with her then the relatioship will end on its own accord, and then you will have your chance, if he is happy with her, do you really want to be responsible for making him unhappy just for yourself?

and if he leaves her for you because you pressured him to.. he will leave you for another when they pressure him to...

jmo

crazy_lover's photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:45 AM
walk away its gonna be your heart that get will hurt...and if he is cheating on her with you...well it will continue...and continue....been there been crushed..and now im friends with the girl my ex cheated with

whispertoascream's photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:46 AM
Edited by whispertoascream on Wed 04/23/08 08:46 AM

is he married? No! Go for it!


Does not matter if they are married or not. I am sorry, but just because they are not married does not mean they are not happy.

My advice? Try not to put yourself in a situation where you are alone with him. Try to back off until you are over your feelings. Maybe hard but you can not destroy his happiness just for your own!

Best of luck to youflowerforyou

lcjw's photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:47 AM
If he is taken (girlfriend, fiancee, wife) he is OFF LIMITS...flowerforyou

AdventurousOne's photo
Wed 04/23/08 08:48 AM
Edited by AdventurousOne on Wed 04/23/08 08:49 AM

yeah i know i shouldnt but i know that he likes me too but i am not sure well i sorta know it is more than friend but not really :(


OK, perfect example using your own words...now please READ what you wrote here.

Sounds like you are confused don;t it???

Glad to see many women here telling you to back off the guy, since he is taken. That's respect. If you were to be his girlfriend, how much would you appeciate someone going after him and trying to break you apart???

Case closed. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Previous 1 3