ok here is the thing i have started to fall head over heals for a guy but he has a girlfriend and i really dont want to break them up and be that mean Which if you know what i mean i just dont know what to do the more i talk to him the more i fall for him. please help!

look, survival of the fittist Ok seriously, the whole girlfriend boyfriend thing, if he is more attracted to you than her than you would be doing both of them a favor by going after him. Better he leave her now than after they get married. That's what courtship is for hun.

look, im not implying that she have him cheat or anything. But why stay with someone if you would be happier with someone else? This is what i am merely saying. Drop a few hints, see how he responds. The wonderful thing about guys is you can be more direct with them too. If he responds positively and acts interested you can confront himto some degree. Him leaving is GF for her will not mean that he is a bad person that follows his pecker everywhere it points him. I will admit though, i never took into any consideration how long he and his GF were together. If you are breaking up a very long term relationship i would urge you to stay out of it. But if it's only been going on a few months, than there is nothing wrong with seeing if there is something there. It's courtship. It goes through phases. Boyfriend/girlfriend stage is a bit of a trial. it has to prove itself over time. Engagement and marriage are totally different of course. Also, when you are in a relationship for over a year or longer that kinda falls under pretty much the same catagory as engagement.

And oh yeah, there is no "taking" people away from their relationship. It's a voluntary process. Even guys have free will ya know

Try this. Tell him you are interested and if he is ever free (which he isn't) then look you up! It's morally and ethically wrong to get into a relationship without getting out of one...

You're right they do, but if she does what you say, and he leaves FOR HER.... He very well will leave for someone else later. It's more of a character thing than a free will thing.. I would have no respect for someone who did that TO ME or FOR ME.

Let nature take it's course...after he is out of the relationship...then talk to him.

If you want him that badly, I can teach you something that I know he'll like.

KIDDING

Sounds like some bad mugumbo there. Run, don't walk.

Go find your own puppy!

If there is an established relationship, that is enough to tell you he is off limits to you, unless they BOTH agree otherwise. Otherwise, it is lying and cheating. If he wants you that bad, he'll get consent from her or break up with her before getting involved with you if he is honorable and worth your time and effort.

I have no idea, All I have is Faith.

ok here is the thing i have started to fall head over heals for a guy but he has a girlfriend and i really dont want to break them up and be that mean Which if you know what i mean i just dont know what to do the more i talk to him the more i fall for him. please help!

LOL..ok just askin. Yeh Faith is cute and Hope's not too bad either.

look, im not implying that she have him cheat or anything. But why stay with someone if you would be happier with someone else? This is what i am merely saying. Drop a few hints, see how he responds. The wonderful thing about guys is you can be more direct with them too. If he responds positively and acts interested you can confront himto some degree. Him leaving is GF for her will not mean that he is a bad person that follows his pecker everywhere it points him. I will admit though, i never took into any consideration how long he and his GF were together. If you are breaking up a very long term relationship i would urge you to stay out of it. But if it's only been going on a few months, than there is nothing wrong with seeing if there is something there. It's courtship. It goes through phases. Boyfriend/girlfriend stage is a bit of a trial. it has to prove itself over time. Engagement and marriage are totally different of course. Also, when you are in a relationship for over a year or longer that kinda falls under pretty much the same catagory as engagement.

And oh yeah, there is no "taking" people away from their relationship. It's a voluntary process. Even guys have free will ya know