Topic: why do..
No1sLove's photo
Tue 04/22/08 06:38 PM


Really? noway It's been my experience that the men are the ones always trying to get in there. noway


You know it. Some at least ask first... others beg, some just assume and that really does make an ass- out of u- and me-.

Ha!
Maybe you are meeting women who just prefer anal. Maybe you should lighten up and stop being so vanilla? laugh
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Kravynn's photo
Tue 04/22/08 06:39 PM
what the hell was this thread about?

Lily0923's photo
Tue 04/22/08 06:39 PM


because all the nice guys are azzholes in disquise...

Lily...that hurts...I'm not an asshole but I am willing to learn...is there some special place I can take lessons???drinker drinker drinker


Ya, lillith and I are starting an internet course D*ckwad 101.

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Tue 04/22/08 06:39 PM
me to we can limp to the altar... or we can steal a wheelchair and roll to the altar ...put flowers on mine rollin with style

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Tue 04/22/08 06:45 PM
I think in my case I always thought that they (azzholes) were misunderstood, and just needed the love a good woman - but I think I've learned my lesson! The hard way.

And a lot of them really are hot...!love
(Of course they know it, and use it against us; which MAKES them azzholes)
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beachnsunlvr1's photo
Tue 04/22/08 06:46 PM
The cute ones may very well be jerks--but if they are, I figure that I'm not what they are looking for--I take the hint---its that simple. When they finally meet someone they are totally into--who knows what will happen, but it won't be my problem.

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Tue 04/22/08 06:48 PM
i never cared about looks i always just wanted a guy that actually looks at me :smile: and has concern thats all i really want because thats how i know he cares and is worth everything, the last guy never even looked at me and all he talked about was money and himself frown

romeo1975's photo
Tue 04/22/08 06:48 PM
so what does that mean?? the uglier guys are not the ass*holes and we dont get the girl.... i guess i will be single for the rest of my life then LOLlaugh

irad8you's photo
Tue 04/22/08 07:03 PM

i never cared about looks i always just wanted a guy that actually looks at me :smile: and has concern thats all i really want because thats how i know he cares and is worth everything, the last guy never even looked at me and all he talked about was money and himself frown
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hikerchick's photo
Tue 04/22/08 07:14 PM


Cause the hott ones are usually assholes..lol
then the ones that are arctic cold dont have a chance in hell of getting noticedlaugh


I notice the smart ones..and the funny ones..

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Tue 04/22/08 07:15 PM


i never cared about looks i always just wanted a guy that actually looks at me :smile: and has concern thats all i really want because thats how i know he cares and is worth everything, the last guy never even looked at me and all he talked about was money and himself frown
im looking




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Totage's photo
Tue 04/22/08 07:16 PM
Edited by Totage on Tue 04/22/08 07:16 PM

girls go for the assholes...?


Please refer to the other 4 TRILLION posts like this. grumble

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Tue 04/22/08 07:17 PM



Cause the hott ones are usually assholes..lol
then the ones that are arctic cold dont have a chance in hell of getting noticedlaugh


I notice the smart ones..and the funny ones..


Ditto - THAT's the killer combination!
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Tue 04/22/08 08:00 PM
Men do the same. Maybe it is because they can save them, make them a better person, or they enjoy a challenge. Maybe they remind them of someone from their past, or they are exciting. It can become compulsive. We all know compulsions rarely lead to anything good.

Exciting and drama do not make for healthy, stable relationships and rarely bring long term happiness.

Sometimes we all need a little reminder.

Lily0923's photo
Tue 04/22/08 08:04 PM

Men do the same. Maybe it is because they can save them, make them a better person, or they enjoy a challenge. Maybe they remind them of someone from their past, or they are exciting. It can become compulsive. We all know compulsions rarely lead to anything good.

Exciting and drama do not make for healthy, stable relationships and rarely bring long term happiness.

Sometimes we all need a little reminder.


So boring people who do not challenge you is what you look for?

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Tue 04/22/08 08:23 PM
Challenge me to be a healthier, more actualized me, yes. Challenge me to be "Mother Teresa", no. I have better and more important things to do with my time.

ShadowLands's photo
Tue 04/22/08 08:40 PM

because all the nice guys are azzholes in disquise...

Some of us just don't disguise it very well.

hikerchick's photo
Tue 04/22/08 08:44 PM

so what does that mean?? the uglier guys are not the ass*holes and we dont get the girl.... i guess i will be single for the rest of my life then LOLlaugh


well, if you are looking for a girl you may be single for a long time. Women, however, are interested in so much more than looks.

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Tue 04/22/08 08:44 PM
Certain men think the only way to get a hot chick with everything going for her is to be a di<k. Not true. Assholes may be good for the short term, may be hot in bed - but they certainly don't make very good life partners.

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Tue 04/22/08 08:46 PM
<---done with the a**holes.....I wanna be the a**hole now!!!devil :wink: laugh laugh laugh