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I wish I could go, but there's no one to go with me. I've had bad experiences going alone, even when I knew people who worked there. Now that's pathetic.  Home alone every stinking night for months now. lets go!   k..vegas good? |
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Edited by
gammalight6000
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At least your getting laid pretty regular right? That's the up side to the bar scene. damn that was a good one, yes i do meet a lot of people but this bar is not one of those meat market types....either that or i am not trying hard enough... If it were a meat market bar, you wouldn't have to try. They have a 2 drink limit. tattoos and the whole nine yards..you get chunked out if you annoy some of the staff.....my kinda bar Sounds like a place I wouldn't mind hanging out. Oregon I'm pretty sure is 90% strip club/sports bar though. Don't really care for the crowds much at either of those. |
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I wish I could go, but there's no one to go with me. I've had bad experiences going alone, even when I knew people who worked there. Now that's pathetic. Home alone every stinking night for months now. lets go! k..vegas good? I sure would if I could, haven't been to Vegas in two years now. I usually take a week of crazy every year, but this year I'm going home to see my pops. |
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the reason for this i just realized is cause i am at a point to where the loneliness is really starting to suck. i mainly go for the company now.... i am not in any way an alcoholic, i don't drink at home or drink on the nights where i have to work the next morning and i don't go out really to get a **** faced... i guess the loneliness is killing me Been there once or twice. Find some hobbies that will distract you from the lonliness, if you feel there's a problem with going to the bar to escape. If not, just have fun!
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Yeah, that's exactly why I don't go to bars. People don't want to get to know you-they just want to get in your pants. I'm not that kind of a person. Ex boyfriend was though. Worked @ bar, hung out there, his life revolved around it. But he's a player, so there you go. That's why he's the "ex". I'd rather be home alone than around a bunch of people slurring their words, spilling liquor all over themselves, who don't know what day it is. I have higher standards and more respect for myself than that. There are plenty of places to meet folks-shopping @ Walmart, LOL!!(I say that cause that's where I work!)LMAO
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Yeah, that's exactly why I don't go to bars. People don't want to get to know you-they just want to get in your pants. I'm not that kind of a person. Ex boyfriend was though. Worked @ bar, hung out there, his life revolved around it. But he's a player, so there you go. That's why he's the "ex". I'd rather be home alone than around a bunch of people slurring their words, spilling liquor all over themselves, who don't know what day it is. I have higher standards and more respect for myself than that. There are plenty of places to meet folks-shopping @ Walmart, LOL!!(I say that cause that's where I work!)LMAO |
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lmao @ the bar bashers coming into the thread.
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lmao @ the bar bashers coming into the thread. |
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I'm not a bar basher. I don't have a problem going to a bar. But when you feel compelled to go there every day for 15+ years(ex), then the bottom line is you need to get a life. My ex wanted to be a player, that's why he was there all the time. That's why he got a part time job there. He was obsessed with the place. He still is;he's probably there right now. And my ex said the same thing about his bar, that it was more like Cheers. Yeah, right-every body says that.
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I agree with finding a hobby. meetup.com is a pretty cool social site, finding groups with similar interests etc. good to make new acquaintances and potential friends too... I also agree w/ finding activities in other areas of your community. I joined a hiking group, learned to kayak, taking Salsa lessons (dancing) and a few others. I'm soooo busy w/ new friends and new hobbies I'm hardly home. Good luck. |
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the reason for this i just realized is cause i am at a point to where the loneliness is really starting to suck. i mainly go for the company now.... i am not in any way an alcoholic, i don't drink at home or drink on the nights where i have to work the next morning and i don't go out really to get a **** faced... i guess the loneliness is killing me Same here. Unfortunately for me, most of my jobs have been ones with really screwy hours (late nighters, graveyard shifts, etc.), so I don't even get the opportunity to even go to the bars even. |
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I'm not a bar basher. I don't have a problem going to a bar. But when you feel compelled to go there every day for 15+ years(ex), then the bottom line is you need to get a life. My ex wanted to be a player, that's why he was there all the time. That's why he got a part time job there. He was obsessed with the place. He still is;he's probably there right now. And my ex said the same thing about his bar, that it was more like Cheers. Yeah, right-every body says that. Did you even read the thread before posting?
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I'm not a bar basher. I don't have a problem going to a bar. But when you feel compelled to go there every day for 15+ years(ex), then the bottom line is you need to get a life. My ex wanted to be a player, that's why he was there all the time. That's why he got a part time job there. He was obsessed with the place. He still is;he's probably there right now. And my ex said the same thing about his bar, that it was more like Cheers. Yeah, right-every body says that. Did you even read the thread before posting? |
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I agree with finding a hobby. meetup.com is a pretty cool social site, finding groups with similar interests etc. good to make new acquaintances and potential friends too... I also agree w/ finding activities in other areas of your community. I joined a hiking group, learned to kayak, taking Salsa lessons (dancing) and a few others. I'm soooo busy w/ new friends and new hobbies I'm hardly home. Good luck. |
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I agree with finding a hobby. meetup.com is a pretty cool social site, finding groups with similar interests etc. good to make new acquaintances and potential friends too... I also agree w/ finding activities in other areas of your community. I joined a hiking group, learned to kayak, taking Salsa lessons (dancing) and a few others. I'm soooo busy w/ new friends and new hobbies I'm hardly home. Good luck. I think we all get that way sometimes. At least I know I do. It passes though. |
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Yes, as a matter of fact, I read the entire thread before my posts-I'm sorry if my opinion is making someone defensive, that was not my intention. Let me reiterate, I am not a bar basher.And there's nothing wrong with going. I concur with the post about a hobby, I wish there were cows I could tip where I live!
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I agree with finding a hobby. meetup.com is a pretty cool social site, finding groups with similar interests etc. good to make new acquaintances and potential friends too... I also agree w/ finding activities in other areas of your community. I joined a hiking group, learned to kayak, taking Salsa lessons (dancing) and a few others. I'm soooo busy w/ new friends and new hobbies I'm hardly home. Good luck. I think we all get that way sometimes. At least I know I do. It passes though. |
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Edited by
wiley
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Sun 04/20/08 07:45 PM
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Yes, as a matter of fact, I read the entire thread before my posts-I'm sorry if my opinion is making someone defensive, that was not my intention. Let me reiterate, I am not a bar basher.And there's nothing wrong with going. I concur with the post about a hobby, I wish there were cows I could tip where I live! Who's getting defensive? I thought the whole thing was rather funny. Edit: I guess no matter what, some people have to make everything about themselves.
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I agree with finding a hobby. meetup.com is a pretty cool social site, finding groups with similar interests etc. good to make new acquaintances and potential friends too... I also agree w/ finding activities in other areas of your community. I joined a hiking group, learned to kayak, taking Salsa lessons (dancing) and a few others. I'm soooo busy w/ new friends and new hobbies I'm hardly home. Good luck. I think we all get that way sometimes. At least I know I do. It passes though. That's cool bro. You know if I was in Texas...I'd hang with you. |
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i guess tonight it is just getting to me and yes it will pass
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