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      the reason for this i just realized is cause i am at a point to where the loneliness is really starting to suck. i mainly go for the company now....
 
  i am not in any way an alcoholic, i don't drink at home or drink on the nights where i have to work the next morning and i don't go out really to get a **** faced... i guess the loneliness is killing me  | 
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      I feel you man 
    
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      i am wondering if this is a good thing or bad thing
     
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      Go rent barfly.
 
  Nothing wrong with going to the bar to socialize. I used to do it all the time.   
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Its sad how society is soo closed off....everyone is soo freaked out by intimacy..  | 
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     Go rent barfly. Nothing wrong with going to the bar to socialize. I used to do it all the time.   
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      if it makes you happy ... go with it... if not find a hobby... bowling, tipping cows...lol
     
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      That's not bad at all gamma. It is cheaper to drink at home though.
     
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     Go rent barfly. Nothing wrong with going to the bar to socialize. I used to do it all the time.   
Well I have ya beat. I was out every night when I was single and pre kid.   
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      What's wrong with that.  Not everyone who goes to a bar is an alcoholic.  I've met some of my closest friends in bars and I'm a real pansy when it comes to drinking.   
     
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        Edited by
        gammalight6000
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        Sun 04/20/08 07:07 PM
       
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      trust me it takes a lot to get me tanked but i just don't want to be conceived to be pathetic....
     
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      If you're not going there strictly to get ****faced, I don't see the problem.
     
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        Edited by
        gammalight6000
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        Sun 04/20/08 07:09 PM
       
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     Go rent barfly. Nothing wrong with going to the bar to socialize. I used to do it all the time.   
Well I have ya beat. I was out every night when I was single and pre kid.   
and i have my cat titan  | 
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      It's not pathetic darlin. It's socializing. I have plenty of friends that don't drink at all and they go to the bar, just to hang out. 
    
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      nothing wrong with going to a bar...i don't go because i don't like going by myself  
    
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      Yeah. Not much into the bar scene myself, but I will go with friends.
     
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      I agree with finding a hobby. meetup.com is a pretty cool social site, finding groups with similar interests etc. good to make new acquaintances and potential friends too...
     
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      all the staff knows me and my band plays there.
 
  i guess i was really getting at the loneliness, yes i do have a lot of friends but......  | 
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      cool thing about a bar, nobody knows you, everybody's drunk, you can pretend to be anybody. Plus if your a geek like me and know magic, you can wow them with cheap tricks.
     
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