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Topic: WHAT IS TRULY SO HARD ABOUT BEING SINGLE
wyatt1844 Joined Sat 01/26/08 Posts: 6761	Tue 04/29/08 04:52 PM
I have no problem being alone and can enjoy my own company but DANG! the problems is the good buy one get one free deals I miss out on! That's why God invented the fridge & microwave.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 04/30/08 05:32 AM
It's Monday and yes, I am going to vent. With the never ending posts, why cant I find love? why this? why that? what the hell is wrong with being single? why are so many people so unable to rely on themselves for fulfillment or happiness? being single is not a detriment, what is a detriment is what you do with your time while you're single? Has anyone been in a crowded room, surrounded by people, friends, family, loved ones etc and still felt alone??? People often confuse being/feeling alone with being lonely. People this happens, suck it up and move forward. *I love me, I love life, I would love to share it, but that will not define me, for I will always be me and it will come when it comes, for I am not searching for a thing* Good luck to those that find love, companionship, but for the rest of us, if you cant make yourself feel good, why would someone else want to share your life? ost people do continue on with their lives, when they dont have a special someone. I think its normal for people to want to share their whole life, or at least part of it with someone. The question arent asked because people are so unhappy. I think the question are asked because, like life, love in very complexed. Sometimes knowing other people feel like you, and you share some of the same questions, makes you feel normal, and not so alone. Big difference in being alone and lonely - jmo

May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Wed 04/30/08 07:23 AM
so true,..thankyou may

May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Wed 04/30/08 07:28 AM
Teresa,.. Thankyou for ramblin,.. made my day,..life,.. may

Silntstrnger Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 4265	Wed 04/30/08 06:34 PM
um interesting profile..what exactly arent u looking for?

millertime69 Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 35	Fri 05/02/08 05:43 AM
I recently went out with a lady a bit older than me, and after one date she thought it was a relationship. She says I'm way too good a person to be alone. The thing is maybe being alone is what makes me such a good person. Heres some of the things I've done while alone that might make me a less good person had someone been around, (1) left a wet towel on the bathroom floor after a shower, (taking a shower would prob be a plus though) (2) didnt rinse my dinner plate after I was done eating, and (3) I once left the seat up on the toilet OMG!!! after I relieved myself!! So as you all can now see, I really am just another inconsiderate slob!!! But I'm OK with that!!

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Fri 05/02/08 05:45 AM
um interesting profile..what exactly arent u looking for? this question is to whom?

lifestooshort6 Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 6667	Wed 05/07/08 07:16 PM
Are you aware you made your post so good all we can say is "Rock On"??? No arguments here. No differing of opinions... Bowing down before Ms. Fran.... Agreed {bowing down}

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Thu 05/08/08 09:23 AM
don't bow down throw money... just venting, glad to see I keep such great company

Sweetnshy47 Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 1261	Sat 05/10/08 06:42 AM
Attaa..girl!!

Jeweelee Joined Thu 05/08/08 Posts: 24	Mon 05/12/08 05:51 PM
i think when you haven't dated much...you know when you can count the number of guys you've dated over your whole life on both hands and you get older, it's thinking about what your retirement alone will be like. ehh..who am I kidding? I am going to be the life of that seniors retirement community!!!!!

him_2008 Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 164	Mon 05/12/08 09:05 PM
there is nothing wrong with being single.i don't mind it,but there are time i would like to have someone to be with.but right now i just don't wanna deal with drama.there are time i'm with my friends and there gf and i wish i had my own.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Tue 05/13/08 04:24 AM
i think when you haven't dated much...you know when you can count the number of guys you've dated over your whole life on both hands and you get older, it's thinking about what your retirement alone will be like. ehh..who am I kidding? I am going to be the life of that seniors retirement community!!!!! me and you will conquer the senior citizens circle

Jeweelee Joined Thu 05/08/08 Posts: 24	Tue 05/13/08 07:27 PM
i think when you haven't dated much...you know when you can count the number of guys you've dated over your whole life on both hands and you get older, it's thinking about what your retirement alone will be like. ehh..who am I kidding? I am going to be the life of that seniors retirement community!!!!! me and you will conquer the senior citizens circle [I'm tellin ya', I'd be the one draggin people from the beds, to go dance in front of the tv to some Oprah special they have on!!! put a little somethin' somethin' in their juice glass, and lets go!

Shaden Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 6118	Wed 05/14/08 01:03 AM
4 me the hardest thing is sleeping alone im not talking about sex its fun to cuddle watch a movie etc...... Yep, I do have those times, but don't want it to be just anyone.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 05/14/08 05:45 AM
4 me the hardest thing is sleeping alone im not talking about sex its fun to cuddle watch a movie etc...... Yep, I do have those times, but don't want it to be just anyone. exactly, if it was that easy it wouldnt be worth it (jmo)