Topic: Do all dates end
Lily0923's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:25 AM

I think it's how they find out what kind of woman you are. YOU PASSED!


Hey, I test men too that way.....

writer_gurl's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:26 AM

Not all guys are like this!!!!!!!!!

That's sweet Pats....Where have all the Cowboys gone???laugh laugh

Smokee's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:27 AM
Well, it's been a while between dates and I was just wondering if this was the norm now. I appreciate your opinions..

Winx's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:27 AM

i went out the other nite with a guy that i met from another site, and he gave me a kiss at the door and left. very well mannered.. and that was a plus. he didnt try anything else..flowerforyou


That is too cool, Queene!!happy

sexxyandsingle's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:30 AM
Im with pats were all not like this drinker

Smokee's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:31 AM

Im with pats were all not like this drinker


that is good to know...

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:31 AM
If you're not all like that..please do us a favor and point out the ones that aren't so we can steer clear of those that are.laugh

robert1652's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:32 AM
Edited by robert1652 on Sun 04/13/08 11:33 AM

with the guy wanting sex? I went on a date with someone I had been talking to from here where I live. We had a lot in common, the date was great, we laughed and had a great conversation. We seemed to click...and then he brought me home. At the door, I got a really sweet kiss and then instead of hearing "I had a good time, can I see you again" I got more kissing and the 'ol hand inching its way upward. I told him that I wasn't ready for that part yet. That I thought we had discussed getting to know each other more and seeing where it leads to. He conceded, said good nite and left...

I guess I am just wondering if this is the way of the dating world now? Ladies do you have this problem and guys...is this what you expect at the end of a date?

Advice please


I don't think this is the case my experience is rather different and I am not going to say what it is because I don't want all my friends to get offended one way or the other. Just take it from me that no is a no and if I am interested in that person then I will wait till she is ready that way it is more electric

no photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:34 AM

with the guy wanting sex? I went on a date with someone I had been talking to from here where I live. We had a lot in common, the date was great, we laughed and had a great conversation. We seemed to click...and then he brought me home. At the door, I got a really sweet kiss and then instead of hearing "I had a good time, can I see you again" I got more kissing and the 'ol hand inching its way upward. I told him that I wasn't ready for that part yet. That I thought we had discussed getting to know each other more and seeing where it leads to. He conceded, said good nite and left...

I guess I am just wondering if this is the way of the dating world now? Ladies do you have this problem and guys...is this what you expect at the end of a date?

Advice please
Were not all like that, but I guess it’s his loss. I think its more important to get to know someone first. Just be your self and DON’T lose your self-respect.

Single_Rob's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:37 AM

If you're not all like that..please do us a favor and point out the ones that aren't so we can steer clear of those that are.laugh
If I was with a girl, and felt that connection and felt that vibe coming from her I would try too. Sorry, I am not a player, but some people you just know it is right with

trueokie2's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:37 AM
Nope not all men are that way because I have met a wonderful man. He is a gentleman treats me great. My kids love him and he's good to them. We dated for 2 months before we even thought about sex. I think he's a keeper.. drinker bigsmile drinker

Smokee's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:38 AM


with the guy wanting sex? I went on a date with someone I had been talking to from here where I live. We had a lot in common, the date was great, we laughed and had a great conversation. We seemed to click...and then he brought me home. At the door, I got a really sweet kiss and then instead of hearing "I had a good time, can I see you again" I got more kissing and the 'ol hand inching its way upward. I told him that I wasn't ready for that part yet. That I thought we had discussed getting to know each other more and seeing where it leads to. He conceded, said good nite and left...

I guess I am just wondering if this is the way of the dating world now? Ladies do you have this problem and guys...is this what you expect at the end of a date?

Advice please
Were not all like that, but I guess it’s his loss. I think its more important to get to know someone first. Just be your self and DON’T lose your self-respect.


The one thing I do know is that I have to get up each day and look at myself in the mirror. I have to have respect for myself if I want someone to respect me. And like above...It is his loss in the long run...He just missed out on a wonderful person...flowerforyou

no photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:40 AM
Edited by SolitaryMan52402 on Sun 04/13/08 11:46 AM



with the guy wanting sex? I went on a date with someone I had been talking to from here where I live. We had a lot in common, the date was great, we laughed and had a great conversation. We seemed to click...and then he brought me home. At the door, I got a really sweet kiss and then instead of hearing "I had a good time, can I see you again" I got more kissing and the 'ol hand inching its way upward. I told him that I wasn't ready for that part yet. That I thought we had discussed getting to know each other more and seeing where it leads to. He conceded, said good nite and left...

I guess I am just wondering if this is the way of the dating world now? Ladies do you have this problem and guys...is this what you expect at the end of a date?

Advice please
Were not all like that, but I guess it’s his loss. I think its more important to get to know someone first. Just be your self and DON’T lose your self-respect.


The one thing I do know is that I have to get up each day and look at myself in the mirror. I have to have respect for myself if I want someone to respect me. And like above...It is his loss in the long run...He just missed out on a wonderful person...flowerforyou
yes he did, ever thought about moVing to Iowa flowerforyou

Smokee's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:43 AM




with the guy wanting sex? I went on a date with someone I had been talking to from here where I live. We had a lot in common, the date was great, we laughed and had a great conversation. We seemed to click...and then he brought me home. At the door, I got a really sweet kiss and then instead of hearing "I had a good time, can I see you again" I got more kissing and the 'ol hand inching its way upward. I told him that I wasn't ready for that part yet. That I thought we had discussed getting to know each other more and seeing where it leads to. He conceded, said good nite and left...

I guess I am just wondering if this is the way of the dating world now? Ladies do you have this problem and guys...is this what you expect at the end of a date?

Advice please
Were not all like that, but I guess it’s his loss. I think its more important to get to know someone first. Just be your self and DON’T lose your self-respect.


The one thing I do know is that I have to get up each day and look at myself in the mirror. I have to have respect for myself if I want someone to respect me. And like above...It is his loss in the long run...He just missed out on a wonderful person...flowerforyou
yes he did, ever thought about moing to Iowa flowerforyou


Sure have....Iowa, Wyoming, Colorado.....footloose and fancy free!...lol...

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:45 AM


If you're not all like that..please do us a favor and point out the ones that aren't so we can steer clear of those that are.laugh
If I was with a girl, and felt that connection and felt that vibe coming from her I would try too. Sorry, I am not a player, but some people you just know it is right with

Well..if there is a connection and a vibe on the first date..wouldn't it be safe to say that it'll still be there after the first date too?ohwell

Smokee's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:46 AM



If you're not all like that..please do us a favor and point out the ones that aren't so we can steer clear of those that are.laugh
If I was with a girl, and felt that connection and felt that vibe coming from her I would try too. Sorry, I am not a player, but some people you just know it is right with

Well..if there is a connection and a vibe on the first date..wouldn't it be safe to say that it'll still be there after the first date too?ohwell


That was my thoughts exactly.....

Jim519's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:53 AM
Not sure about Men...But I can tell you I have had a few dates with women that wanted sex at the end of a first date!

Thankfully I am a gentleman!

bad_girl's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:55 AM

Not sure about Men...But I can tell you I have had a few dates with women that wanted sex at the end of a first date!

Thankfully I am a gentleman!


And we are glad you are (((jim)))flowerforyou

Jim519's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:56 AM
flowerforyou flowerforyou


Not sure about Men...But I can tell you I have had a few dates with women that wanted sex at the end of a first date!

Thankfully I am a gentleman!


And we are glad you are (((jim)))flowerforyou

Single_Rob's photo
Sun 04/13/08 11:58 AM



If you're not all like that..please do us a favor and point out the ones that aren't so we can steer clear of those that are.laugh
If I was with a girl, and felt that connection and felt that vibe coming from her I would try too. Sorry, I am not a player, but some people you just know it is right with

Well..if there is a connection and a vibe on the first date..wouldn't it be safe to say that it'll still be there after the first date too?ohwell
I am sure it would be, just like you can go to the art museum tomorrow instead of today, or buy that house tomorow instead of now. I don't live my life to let the things I desire, and put them off till tomorrow. I am not 14, nor will I set personal limits on what I can, or cannot achieve in a time period. You assume I would not return if she stopped me, that is not the case at all. There were times when married my wife didn't want to have sex, and vice versa, but we didn't leave one another over that laugh laugh laugh