with the guy wanting sex? I went on a date with someone I had been talking to from here where I live. We had a lot in common, the date was great, we laughed and had a great conversation. We seemed to click...and then he brought me home. At the door, I got a really sweet kiss and then instead of hearing "I had a good time, can I see you again" I got more kissing and the 'ol hand inching its way upward. I told him that I wasn't ready for that part yet. That I thought we had discussed getting to know each other more and seeing where it leads to. He conceded, said good nite and left...

I guess I am just wondering if this is the way of the dating world now? Ladies do you have this problem and guys...is this what you expect at the end of a date?

Advice please

Seems to happen more often than not to tell you the truth, and it's discouraging....

Sometimes, yes; Sometimes, no.

Wear the nun habit on your next date!!!

I think it's how they find out what kind of woman you are. YOU PASSED!

i agree 100%..sex too soon can screw the friendship and any kind of relationship up with the person..

been there, done that..i've learned too

i've only been going out with friends so personaly i don't know but i've heard there are still men out there that treat women right

Some people operate on the "Never know unless you try" method.
Think it was rude, since you had already set limits.
Did he try to buy you lots of drinks?

i went out the other nite with a guy that i met from another site, and he gave me a kiss at the door and left. very well mannered.. and that was a plus. he didnt try anything else..

I just don't understand why they tell you what they are looking for, acting like you could be it and then when they don't get lucky you never hear from them again...

Not all guys are like this!!!!!!!!!

well then he was only looking for one thing then..u dont need that..

No, we had a couple with dinner, but it was mostly all centered around getting to know each other.

maybe he felt more of a connection than you did. It doesn't make him a pervert, maybe he just felt strongly about you. Just wait to see if you hear from him again :dunno:

Most end that way yeah..lol.I remember this guy I met online..He used to talk about sex constantly..So I told him that I don't have sex with people unless I'm in a REAL relationship with them..and he came back with..Well..I don't get into a relationship with anybody before I have sex with them because women are like cars..you gotta test drive them before you buy one..Needless to say..I sent him on his way.

Yeah...that's what he said too...

you know we have a friend in common curtis and i know he lives far off but i'd personly guarentee him to anyone on this site.we are friends and i know what a gentleman he is

hmm normaly i dont even kiss on the first date guess im sorta slow

I also went out with a guy once on a first date that said "Well, we hit it off everywhere else...we have to make sure we hit it off in bed too" ?? He left quickly!