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Topic: Do the way people
brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Thu 04/10/08 06:23 PM
How you present yourself does matter..... not the most important thing, but.. i dated this one guy for several months and he ALWAYS wore the same shirt. ALWAYS!!! it drove me nuts.. it was just a white button down shirt and he rolled the sleeves up..... I think he thought he was stylin.....

miksit29 Joined Wed 04/02/08 Posts: 108	Thu 04/10/08 08:20 PM
ah, good question Not at all. I frequently get judged, not by how I dress, but by things like my sternum piercing or the fact that I have 10 tattoos. So no, I do not judge people by how they dress. I wait to see how they treat me. That is what I base my opinion of them on. Just as everyone should.

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Thu 04/10/08 08:21 PM Edited by nurjoyce on Thu 04/10/08 08:29 PM
no--

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 04/10/08 08:22 PM
dress affect how you treat them? IDK, I'm kind of a sucker for suspenders and propellers hats.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Thu 04/10/08 08:24 PM
dress affect how you treat them? YES,,,,If THEIR NAKED we will make LOVE....lol Hey Peccy, your new pic here..DUDE, maybe its just ME, but. YOU ever see the movie Full Metal Jacket,, Remember the dude who shot his DI,,,Your pic here,,,,,,,, Its SCARY MAN....

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 04/10/08 08:25 PM
I treat everyone equally!!! Example.....years ago a really grubby guy came into the salon I was working at.....looked like he was in the bush for 10 years without a shower. No one would take him. I said...."sure come right in"......Washed/cut his hair....treated him like any other person. The guy gave me a $50 tip!!!

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Thu 04/10/08 08:27 PM
well....let me seeeeeeeee....... HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM I'm a heavily tattooed biker............. do I care how people look...........yes...... do I judge them fo it........NO does it effect my preception of a woman's datability...... Never......

Engraven_Image Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 7798	Thu 04/10/08 11:16 PM
Twitch looks Emo; Pisses me off!

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Thu 04/10/08 11:38 PM
I remember reading a story once , this old women was walking down the street and she saw this young man walking towards her, dressed in punk gear, spiked coloured hair, piercings, leather, chains etc...so she decided to cross over the road so she wouldnt have go near him...as they went to pass each other on opposite sides of the road he suddenly shouted and started running to wards her..she screamed ..he grabbed her..and pulled her to safety from some falling roof tiles ...some guys were working on the house and he had seen them start to fall..he made sure she was ok and walked on his way...so guess my answer is no it doesnt atter how your dressed its the individual that counts

Engraven_Image Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 7798	Thu 04/10/08 11:41 PM
I remember reading a story once , this old women was walking down the street and she saw this young man walking towards her, dressed in punk gear, spiked coloured hair, piercings, leather, chains etc...so she decided to cross over the road so she wouldnt have go near him...as they went to pass each other on opposite sides of the road he suddenly shouted and started running to wards her..she screamed ..he grabbed her..and pulled her to safety from some falling roof tiles ...some guys were working on the house and he had seen them start to fall..he made sure she was ok and walked on his way...so guess my answer is no it doesnt atter how your dressed its the individual that counts Debbie that story wasn't true; I pushed the old lady down directly under the roof tiles!

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Thu 04/10/08 11:42 PM
I remember reading a story once , this old women was walking down the street and she saw this young man walking towards her, dressed in punk gear, spiked coloured hair, piercings, leather, chains etc...so she decided to cross over the road so she wouldnt have go near him...as they went to pass each other on opposite sides of the road he suddenly shouted and started running to wards her..she screamed ..he grabbed her..and pulled her to safety from some falling roof tiles ...some guys were working on the house and he had seen them start to fall..he made sure she was ok and walked on his way...so guess my answer is no it doesnt atter how your dressed its the individual that counts Debbie that story wasn't true; I pushed the old lady down directly under the roof tiles! you meany

Tameka Joined Tue 02/13/07 Posts: 3266	Thu 04/10/08 11:50 PM
dress affect how you treat them? ~~not really based on how they dress. . . Exactly. So long as they appear to keep up on hygiene. I try not to judge based on looks alone. But if someone smells bad enough that i can taste it there is no way to befriend them. . . I wouldnt be able to be around them long enough to get to know them.

summerlady Joined Wed 03/07/07 Posts: 16232	Fri 04/11/08 04:58 AM
I agree with Tameka. No, it doesn't really affect how I treat people, unless there's an awful odor.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Fri 04/11/08 05:52 AM
dress affect how you treat them? No - I'm pretty non-judgmental; I allow actions to speak louder than clothing

froglittlesis Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 776	Fri 04/11/08 06:26 AM
sorry to say, in some cases... yes All of society is guilty for this!!!

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Fri 04/11/08 07:25 AM
sorry to say, in some cases... yes All of society is guilty for this!!! sorry to disagree froglittlesis, no one person can accurately speak for "all"

iamlookingforyou2 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 169	Fri 04/11/08 07:26 AM
Sorry to say but Yes!

froglittlesis Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 776	Mon 04/14/08 07:03 AM
sorry to say, in some cases... yes All of society is guilty for this!!! sorry to disagree froglittlesis, no one person can accurately speak for "all" Ok most all of society. Is that better?

willywonka0675 Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 198	Mon 04/14/08 07:30 AM
Yes... When I go out on the town, I like to study people I actually like to play with this... Sometime I'll go out dressed like a business man, sometime a thug, sometime just wear a T-shirt with a perverted slogan or message, sometime in completely goth look. I've found that 90% of the time I'll have better conversation & meet more people with a perverted T-shirt than I will with a business suit or dressed business casual. Although, in the last year of doing this, I have had only 1 girl say that I shouldn't wear a perverted shirt in public like I do... BNut she still sat down & talked to me & we had a conversation for about 3 hours that night...

willywonka0675 Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 198	Mon 04/14/08 07:35 AM
But I should say it doesn't effect how I treat people. But I do see how some people treat people different based on how they look. One time I was dressed business casual, met a girl made a friend, danced a bit, had good conversation, etc. the next week I went out in goth... she wouldn't give me the time of day, not till after I told her who I was & what I was doing (why I was dressed like that).